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Seeking orgasm for my wife!

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Contributor: passionseeker passionseeker
New to this site…great site! Newly married(2 months), 2nd time, my wife is 52, went into menopause around 40. I really do enjoy making love to my wife, but it’s nearly impossible for her to have an orgasm from me. She’s only had a couple orgasms from men. She almost always needs to finger herself because she’s usually confused as to where her g-spot is from time to time. I’m trying to get her to show me but she can be a bit impatient at times. We just bought a Slimline and that has worked pretty good for her. She just tried an enhancing oil called Zestra which she really liked. I’m just starting to do some research regarding heightening her ability to have an orgasm, especially from me. Her clitoris seems to be non-existent…doesn’t seem to have much feeling. Any suggestions re enhancing lubricants, toys, etc. would be fgreatly appreciated. Hormone therapy is an option, but has its risks also. Thanks in advance, PS
08/23/2010
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Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
I'm a huge fan of bullets and straight up steady vibration patterns, so if she wants to wake her clit up, I'd recommend a bullet or an egg vibe. My personal favorite when it comes to clitoral stimulation is theEvolved Bottle Rockets Nova. Not exactly a bullet, but it's tiny, strong, single-speed, and absolutely wonderful.

Good luck, and welcome to EdenFantasys
08/23/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
I've heard some great things about Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm, but I've never tried it and EF doesn't sell it. I've used KY intense, but I didn't really enjoy it. It did add a cooling factor that I could definitely feel and believe would help some people though.

Just be sure to look over the ingredients carefully, certain things like glycerin are better off outside the body(glycerin is sugar and promotes yeast infections). An excellent guide about lubes is link

I suggest reading the reviews about bullet vibes, but I've never used one. My Gigi was my favorite clitoral/g-spot stimulator but alas she got eaten by the dog

There are also some great forum topics about finding that elusive g-spot, you can use the search option at the top of the page or find the "G-spot Grotto" under the list of categories.

Hope I helped a little bit and good luck!
08/23/2010