Squirting

Valyn Valyn
There have been a couple topics/posts about women that can squirt. I can't find it right now, but I remember one post saying something about being able to relax and it's possible. I'm interested in learning more about this. I'm not entirely sure yet it would be something I would strive to do or not, but I want to hear what you all think about it.

From women that can/have, how do you do it? Is it good? Do you like it? Do you want to do it more/less? Is it very messy (there's a topic about this)? Why is it messy? Is it like.. really projectile?

And I'd like to hear from partners of women too - is that sexy/attractive/hot/di sgusting/weird?? Do you wish your partner could squirt? Do you wish she couldn't? Why?
07/06/2009
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Originally posted by Valyn
There have been a couple topics/posts about women that can squirt. I can't find it right now, but I remember one post saying something about being able to relax and it's possible. I'm interested in learning more about this. I'm not ... More
I have no idea when it's going to happen and I never do it on purpose. It's just something that has always happened for me. And also for me it only happens when I'm having a G-spot orgasm, but not with every G-spot orgasm. I can't control it. Sometimes it's just a little and other times it can make quite a mess. Until I came to EF I never even knew that there were women who couldn't do it or that there were women who strived to do it.
07/06/2009
Laccaria Laccaria
Weirdly timely question for me, since I just had my first partner sex "squirting" experience last night, and it was kind of wildly awesome.

I learned to squirt a few months ago on my own with my Slimline G vibe. I thought it was ok, kind of intreiging but not really that great compared to a "normal" orgasm. So I kind of just let it drop.

But last night my bf was doing such a lovely job on my g-spot with his fingers combined with some seriously delightful oral action that I requested he use my Squirt vibe (good name, apparently). I would describe the result as more of a "flow" or a "gush" than a "squirt." It was not projectile, but it was copious. We were on the couch, but I managed to hit the (wood) floor, and the resulting liquid took an entire bath towel to sop up.

If I had hit the couch or the bed, there is no way in hell that it would ever be the same with that amount of liquid involved. My previous solo experiences were easily contained by a towel or two, but not this one. As for the ejaculate itself, it was clear, almost odorless and very watery (i.e. not sticky or viscous at all). For me the "mess" would mainly be the sheer amount of fluid involved. Think spilling a large glass of water.

Some of the best advice I found for learning to squirt (and I really wish I could remember where I read this so that I could give proper credit) was to practice somewhere where you wouldn't be stressed about making a mess. For example, in a bathtub lined with towels for comfort. Then you should make yourself a deal that if you pee, well, then you pee. Whatever, it will be ok.

This was really useful advice for me because in someways I did find that I had to embrace the "have to pee" feeling that comes with g-spot stimulation before I could squirt.
07/07/2009
Valyn Valyn
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Originally posted by Laccaria
Weirdly timely question for me, since I just had my first partner sex "squirting" experience last night, and it was kind of wildly awesome.

I learned to squirt a few months ago on my own with my Slimline G vibe. I thought it was ok, ... More
Huh. I had no idea. Sounds like I need to start playing with myself more. And maybe taking more "baths".

Thanks for your experience, I'm learning new things here
07/07/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Valyn
Huh. I had no idea. Sounds like I need to start playing with myself more. And maybe taking more "baths".

Thanks for your experience, I'm learning new things here
I know I've said this before but the keys are freeing yourself from worrying about peeing, either with numerous folded towels or my squirting into the bathtub. And it helps to have a non-empty bladder. Sensation is so much more intense that way.

I absolutely love it even though they're not quite as strong as clitoral orgasms yet. I'm working on that with daily kegels - another key to success.

My partner really loves it too.

It tends to be quite projectile for me. And don't worry if they're weak when you first have them. They'll strengthen.
07/07/2009
arl70 arl70
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I know I've said this before but the keys are freeing yourself from worrying about peeing, either with numerous folded towels or my squirting into the bathtub. And it helps to have a non-empty bladder. Sensation is so much more intense that ... More
thread hijack but wow i just learnt how to do that! I guess it wasnt hugely messy but if i kept doing it it might get annoying. But ive always found the idea of putting something down before sex weird really? not sure why
07/14/2009
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I've had a couple of squirting experiences. One when I had a massager against the smartballs and one when I was doing U-spot play. Neither were accompanied with orgasm. It wasn't projectile, it was.. a noticeable dribble. Obviously nothing that would require a bath towel.
07/14/2009
Valyn Valyn
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Originally posted by arl70
thread hijack but wow i just learnt how to do that! I guess it wasnt hugely messy but if i kept doing it it might get annoying. But ive always found the idea of putting something down before sex weird really? not sure why
Lol, when I was younger I always thought it was super weird. It kinda killed the mood for me. Now, I just think that cleaning a towel is so much easier than washing the sheets! Lol..

Congrats on figuring out how!
07/14/2009
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by arl70
thread hijack but wow i just learnt how to do that! I guess it wasnt hugely messy but if i kept doing it it might get annoying. But ive always found the idea of putting something down before sex weird really? not sure why
I missed this. It has taken some effort to work on not being turned off by towels. Any preparation, really, kinda bothers me.
07/14/2009
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It isn't common - but when my lover is very relaxed and I don't let her orgasm too soon, I can get her turned on enough to really gush. Like others have said - not projectile - but definitely a deluge compared to a normal orgasm. I've been reading about the AFE Zone just above the g-spot where the vagina and cervix meet - it seems like a powerful engine for those looking to squirt!

Have your partner find your g-spot and move in from there. I noticed that my lover who normally doesn't like deeply penetrating dildos - will push for full penetration when I find her AFE - I just love watching a large dido dissapear as she begs for more!
07/27/2009
Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
I've been squirting for a little more than a year as of now. At first it was a dribble - more of a "did that really just happen." At that time I was with a male-bodied partner and it happened a couple of times by accident. Then I started dating a female-bodied woman who was very experienced with g-spot play. She had me gushing and spraying everywhere. I've sprayed straight up in the air and straight out with force. Once it even went up and over my head!

Now it just really depends on the amount of aroused I am and how many previous orgasms I've had. I don't always do it, but I'm always prepared for it just in case.

As far as what my partners have thought: they've all been pretty happy I when I've squirted. Although there was this experience with a younger drunken boy where he was just shocked at first - then he was cool.

You asked if it's something you should strive for or not. I think you should explore your g-spot if you are comfortable with it, but it isn't a necessary part of MY sex life. I know we all talk about it like it's the holy grail of orgasm. Don't get me wrong: it is awesome, but that shouldn't make you feel like you HAVE to do it. When you are ready, go for it. Otherwise, don't worry about it. As you are an active participant in sex toy use and exploring your body, chances are it will likely happen when you least expect it.
07/27/2009
Raven Raven
I agree with Tuesday that the fear of peeing can hold you back, or at least it did me for a little while, along with the performance anxiety thing. I assumed that first time out I'd hit a home run and when it didn't work I got a bit uptight. Like other areas, I found that all I needed to do was relax and feel.

For me squirting is more likely when my husband's giving me one of those long, drawn-out sessions along with a little u-spot and clit action. Quickies won't do it. I don't have quite as much fluid as some, maybe one-half to one cup, and a projectile distance of only a foot or a little more. And it doesn't happen all the time, which is okay but it's confusing.
10/05/2009
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Valyn
There have been a couple topics/posts about women that can squirt. I can't find it right now, but I remember one post saying something about being able to relax and it's possible. I'm interested in learning more about this. I'm not ... More
I know this is mostly a female topic - but I'd like to mention that my wife learned to squirt using her PureWand. I did some research and printed out some descriptions of various women achieved the desired result.

More recently - at my request - I got her to guide me so that I could help her achieve the goal while I'm in the driver's seat. I'm very pleased to say it worked - and it was very rewarding for both of us.

I a MSWord version of the info I gave my wife on the subject. If your interested you can send me an email at augustus63bc@gmail.com - and I'd be happy to send you a copy.

Happy hunting!
10/06/2009
SilverVixen SilverVixen
A very dear friend of mine, in my opinion, is sort of the godfather of squirting - mainstreaming "squirting" through his earliest projects with Digital Sin and later TeraVision and Sunset Thomas. With goofy titles like Squirt 101, 201...and registering his hands for 2 million a piece with Lloyds of London since he guarantees he can make ANY woman in the world ejaculate...

He's known for revolutionizing squirting and making it a household name. He has an awesome segment in his website committed solely to the topic (and history) of squirting. The history focuses on the scientific origins of squirting as well as the specific origin of the spot that makes females squirt (within female anatomy). You really should check it out! It's very interesting and informative! I'd love to try to help work things out for us to have a Q&A with him over in Eden Link. He's such a great guy and he's definitely well experienced! Here was that link:

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10/06/2009
sandman sandman
From a guys standpoint, at least this guys, I would have no problem if my wife squirted. I've never experienced it before but would be down with it as long as she enjoyed it. Whatever increases the pleasure!
10/08/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
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Originally posted by Valyn
There have been a couple topics/posts about women that can squirt. I can't find it right now, but I remember one post saying something about being able to relax and it's possible. I'm interested in learning more about this. I'm not ... More
1. I stimulate my g-spot with a toy. For me, the Tantus Acute is the best candidate for the job; it makes me squirt like crazy every time. I have had a couple of partners who managed to do with it with their penis or their fingers.

2. I enjoy it.

3. See #2.

4. I don't mind how much I squirt, although I avoid doing it if I'm not on my Liberator Escape or a stack of towels. I tend to "dribble" as soon as my g-spot is actively stimulated, and I have a sudden gush when I reach a g-spot orgasm. I'd say I end up with may a cup of liquid at the end of a session, tops. I personally don't "shoot out" my squirt, but I know some women do, and I know some women who can squirt bucket-loads continuously.
10/08/2009
Liz2 Liz2
The first time it happened to me, it just happened from g spot stim. and after a clitoral induced orgasm.
I have to be very relaxed, and then some work on my g spot. I use the Njoy Pure Wand and/or my Gigi vibe.
I put down a Liberator Throe and then let it happen. No idea how much liquid but it always seems like a flood.
Has happened during sex but rarely but I was probably on the verge of a g spot orgasm anyway.
Yes, I like it. Gives me a feeling of being satiated and totally relaxed.
10/08/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I started about half a year ago. I had been really intrigued by this whole phenomenon and was wondering if I could do it myself. I experimented a lot with my glass g-spot wand and by reading helpful experiences of others I learned how to do it.

I usually have to be hydrated so I have to have drunk a glass of water or half a glass. I go to the washroom to urinate to empty my bladder and then comes the fun.

I enjoy it very much. It occurs mostly during long sessions with my lover. I sort of have this building up sensation (when my g-spot is being stimulated through penetration) that gets so strong that its almost painful and then I just push out and let it go. I gush or its projectile. No squirt is ever the same. My partner finds it fascinating. Sometimes he shields himself with the sheets to avoid the spray.
10/09/2009
Mystikaloasis Mystikaloasis
I've never squirted, but became interested in it when I saw a lady do it on a flick. I always thought it was one of those things that happened to some women and not to others. I am going to see if I can acheive this. I think it would be really cool if I could.
11/23/2009
MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
The first time I squirted was when my boyfriend was using the "Gigi" on me and it was one of those "omg what the hell did my body just do moments" my boyfriend and I looked at each other, than at the bed...and than we realized what I had done. At first I had thought that I had peed myself and I was totally mortified, but it didn't have any odor to it, and I hadn't had to pee before it happened, and it didn't feel like peeing. Thus I had squirted for the first time, and my boyfriend was thrilled that he had helped me to do it.
11/23/2009
Polyserena Polyserena
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Originally posted by Valyn
There have been a couple topics/posts about women that can squirt. I can't find it right now, but I remember one post saying something about being able to relax and it's possible. I'm interested in learning more about this. I'm not ... More
Ejaculation is easier for me when sitting or even standing than laying. My ejaculate varies between a tiny amount and a large amount even when I have emptied my bladder. Usually it doesn't go very far. When I first started with fingers it was only a small amount which ended up on my hand. I now do it with toys, especially the a chilled or superwarmed Alumina Revolve. It is messy because it will soak through a single unfolded towel and I am going to have to get a throe. I have to be in the right mindframe to do it though, in front of a partner has proven to be trickier than I thought it might be but otherwise I have hardly any trouble. It's maybe because it feels really personal like other bodily functions. I love ejaculating so I hope my partner likes it as much as I do.
11/26/2009
Polyserena Polyserena
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Ejaculation is easier for me when sitting or even standing than laying. My ejaculate varies between a tiny amount and a large amount even when I have emptied my bladder. Usually it doesn't go very far. When I first started with fingers it was ... More
.....For me the stimulation itself makes me want to bear down a bit, but this can be done without actually releasing the bladder contents. Then there is sort of a feeling of pressure building up in the region of the G-spot and then the squirting is pretty much involuntary (unless you completely clench up at the last second).
11/26/2009
xsapphirexangelx xsapphirexangelx
The variety of womens experiences with squirted is pretty interesting. For me its a gush that happens any time after i cum through clit stimulation. I can completly controle it and wait to do it till after i cum and get into the shower. For me its like a dobble orgasm and i definatly injoy it
12/30/2009
bplucky13 bplucky13
It's so interesting to hear about everyone's different experiences. For most people it seems like a G-spot thing. For me, it's a clitoral thing, and I can control it (prevent squirting) but if I do, I still have an orgasm but don't feel satisfied. The only way I feel "finished" is when I have a big squirt. Usually for me, the volume increases with the number of orgasms, so the first one might be more like a small gush or dribble, and it takes till the third or fourth one when I'm projectiling off the end of the bed and finally feel relaxed and done. Yes, it's a mess and I have lots of towels to wash afterward, but it is worth it because otherwise I still feel unsatisfied or frustrated. I am shy about squirting with a partner, so it is a sad irony that I almost always have multiple orgasms with a guy, and yet I'm still sexually frustrated because I didn't get to squirt. I've never heard of anyone else with this problem, so it seems kind of weird. Squirting only happened one time with a partner, it was completely overwhelming and involuntary, and it was probably the best orgasm I'd ever had, ever, but he was a little freaked out by the mess, which also really inhibited me from doing it when anyone else is around. So for me, being a squirter has its downside for sure. I wish I could be happy with nonsquirting orgasms.
01/01/2010
xsapphirexangelx xsapphirexangelx
i guess im with you somewhat bplucky13 im not done till i do it and def feel v/ frustraighted but once i squirt im good. =]. i hope someday you can get comfortable enought with someon that they can fully satisfy you
01/01/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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It's so interesting to hear about everyone's different experiences. For most people it seems like a G-spot thing. For me, it's a clitoral thing, and I can control it (prevent squirting) but if I do, I still have an orgasm but don't ... More
BPlucky13

I'm not sure why you're reluctant to squirt with a partner. My wife was not aware of her ability to squirt (she now calls it gushing). Once I convinced her that it's not urine she was game to learn.

I love the feeling as she gushes on me - usually in the cowgirl position so she can get the motion just right. We have a Liberator throe to keep the bed dry.

Now that she has gotten comfortable with her ability - it's happening more often than not. This is actually very gratifying for me.

Now I'm curious - does she not feel 'complete' unless she gushes!
01/01/2010
xsapphirexangelx xsapphirexangelx
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
BPlucky13

I'm not sure why you're reluctant to squirt with a partner. My wife was not aware of her ability to squirt (she now calls it gushing). Once I convinced her that it's not urine she was game to learn.

I love the ... More
Now im wondering if someone who learns to squirt experiences it in the same way someone who it comes naturaly too does. Does it become a necessity generally?

Also how well does that Liberator throe work for the contain the larger gushes.
i dont know if i would use one, it seems like it would be uncomfortable after and still relatively messy.
01/01/2010
Holly Hox Holly Hox
Interesting discussion here. I am enjoying reading everyone's responses.
01/02/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by xsapphirexangelx
Now im wondering if someone who learns to squirt experiences it in the same way someone who it comes naturaly too does. Does it become a necessity generally?

Also how well does that Liberator throe work for the contain the larger gushes.
i ... More
One side of the throe is fabric (synthetic) as is quite comfortable. The reverse side is more of a tight satin type finish. I really can't imagine a female ejaculation that would penetrate through to the mattress - but I suppose anythings possible. All I can say is that it works 100% for us.

I don't think that 'learning' to squirt is that much different than 'natural' squirting. The ability to squirt is a 'normal' capability that one learns - like making free throw in basketball. It may come easier to some than others - but with practice one can become equally proficient. It's not an effort for my wife anymore - it comes 'naturally'.

The 'necessity' of squirting during an orgasm would see to be a personal choice.
01/02/2010
xsapphirexangelx xsapphirexangelx
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
One side of the throe is fabric (synthetic) as is quite comfortable. The reverse side is more of a tight satin type finish. I really can't imagine a female ejaculation that would penetrate through to the mattress - but I suppose anythings ... More
i agree that for most its a choice but it also occures spontaneously(hoping this won't happen to me!)

also, i dont know exactly how verified this is but i was informed that there is a hight concentration of glucose and fructose in the fluid expelled from squirting/gushing. so its mostly sugar, supposedly. Just thought it would be good to add
01/02/2010
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