Toy vs. Partner

link82 link82
In general, which orgasm is PHYSICALLY more intense? Try to take out the emotional connection between you and your partner.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
With a Toy/ By myself
30  (21%)
With my partner
49  (34%)
It all depends
65  (45%)
Total votes: 144
Poll is closed
05/30/2011
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Waterfall Waterfall
It depends on the day, position, and the partner or toy. I have had toys that give me really intense orgasms and partners who could do the same.
05/30/2011
Kdlips Kdlips
my toy bay mtself
05/30/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
It depeneds for me, i enjoy using them by myself. I also enjoy using them with by boyfriend. I like that he doesnt feel left out. My orgasms are better with my partner.
05/30/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
The O my husband gives me is completely different from the fast O a toy can provide.
05/30/2011
married with children married with children
no toy can match the feel of skin
05/31/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
She doesn't have to decide. I bring her to orgasm at least once with toys, then it's my turn. The I make sure she has a couple more before taking my turn. This is why it baffles me that men typically want sex more than women - we're typically one-and-done but the girls can go on for multiples as long as they like.
05/31/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Using a toy WITH your partner. lol
05/31/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
no toy can match the feel of skin
I agree with this!
05/31/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
In general, which orgasm is PHYSICALLY more intense? Try to take out the emotional connection between you and your partner.
My guys push me farther than I do when I am solo and it's way more intense when I'm orgasming...I think it might be a bit of the performer in me.
05/31/2011
pixieluv pixieluv
There are some things a toy just can't do, but then there are some things a human just can't do too!
05/31/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I can't do without both. I need to regularly have sex with a partner and to regularly masturbate with a toy. As to the orgasms themselves - I don't know, they are just different
06/01/2011
ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Partner!
06/01/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
She doesn't have to decide. I bring her to orgasm at least once with toys, then it's my turn. The I make sure she has a couple more before taking my turn. This is why it baffles me that men typically want sex more than women - we're ... More
Not every women
06/02/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
Not every women
Yea - I guess mismatched sex drives are fairly common.
06/02/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
In general, which orgasm is PHYSICALLY more intense? Try to take out the emotional connection between you and your partner.
As a guy, it is almost always most intense with lovemaking with my wife. Its probably due to the emotional, physical and foreplay buildup versus a simple masturbation session.
06/02/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
In general, which orgasm is PHYSICALLY more intense? Try to take out the emotional connection between you and your partner.
My most intense orgasms are with My Man AND a toy. My Wahl and a phallic toy, with him doing the work, or my Wahl and his hand or penis, and maybe a butt plug or his finger in there for fun, mostly.
06/02/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
She doesn't have to decide. I bring her to orgasm at least once with toys, then it's my turn. The I make sure she has a couple more before taking my turn. This is why it baffles me that men typically want sex more than women - we're ... More
LOL! Again, this sounds like us. My first one is him and a toy. (Or my first 3 or 4.) Then he gets in there and gets me off himself, which is fantastic.

As for the multiples, although My Man and I have pretty well matched sex drives, multiples can wear you out. Sometimes they are so intense and so many of them, I think "I could go, like, 2 days without sex and be OK, I think." Then he wants it again in the morning and we're off. But, the occasional half or full day break is what works at times. Other times, it twice a day.

I don't think I'm a normal woman, though.
06/02/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
LOL! Again, this sounds like us. My first one is him and a toy. (Or my first 3 or 4.) Then he gets in there and gets me off himself, which is fantastic.

As for the multiples, although My Man and I have pretty well matched sex drives, ... More
p'Gell - get'n old is a bitch! My refractory periods are getting disturbingly long, so spacing out activity is important. We have a typically hot Friday night - and although I can go again in the morning (Sat), its getting to where I can't orgasm - so I can go on for ever. She thinks I'm such a stud - but she just doesn't quite understand what's going on - so I just let her think I am a stud - why not!
06/02/2011
daniel and frances daniel and frances
I generally can't make myself come as hard alone, even with multiple toys.
06/08/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Mine are typically more intense with my partner, especially when we are using toys together.
06/09/2011
That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I can't get off on purely physical, so the emotional and environmental aspects are necessary.
06/09/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
In general, which orgasm is PHYSICALLY more intense? Try to take out the emotional connection between you and your partner.
I was just saying to my Master yesterday that he can make me cum better than any toy or anyone else. I have the most intense orgasms with him.
06/09/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
p'Gell - get'n old is a bitch! My refractory periods are getting disturbingly long, so spacing out activity is important. We have a typically hot Friday night - and although I can go again in the morning (Sat), its getting to where I ... More
Hey, if she thinks you're a stud, you are to her! That's what counts. We like it when it takes you guys longer.

My Man always seems to be able to get it up easier in the morning (that's a guy thing from the beginning though) but I prefer sex in the night time. I won't turn it down in the morning, but on work days I don't have time to come. However, the other morning, he had promised we'd made love Sunday night, then he conked out. So, he honored his promise Monday morning and we had a mini-marathon. I got all the way there in the morning on a weekday, which is not common for me anymore. When we were done, I realized he had even set his alarm earlier than usual so he would be out of the shower by 5:00 AM, we'd have plenty of time to do what needed to be done. *sigh* He can be so sweet when he feels like it.
06/09/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Hey, if she thinks you're a stud, you are to her! That's what counts. We like it when it takes you guys longer.

My Man always seems to be able to get it up easier in the morning (that's a guy thing from the beginning though) but I ... More
Great to hear - going out of your way to accommodate your partner is the key to success - and when they return the favor it's bliss!
06/09/2011
Mikey Likesit Mikey Likesit
I like it when my wife uses a toy on me, so both!
06/09/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Toy & partner provide the best for me.
06/10/2011
MN58 MN58
both at the same time
06/10/2011
cheetahpita cheetahpita
toy/self, definitely... maybe I'm odd, but it's always much easier by myself - I know what I like
08/23/2011
InNeedOfABuzzzz InNeedOfABuzzzz
The best honestly is with my toy and him at the reigns! It's so intense.....

Other than that scenario...he tends to do better than I can with just a toy!
08/23/2011
Total posts: 67
Unique posters: 61