How "loud" do you like your man to show their enjoyment?

Cynoc Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
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I'm a cock whisperer, I don't care. He can be dead quiet.
Ayumi
1  (1%)
I'm fluent in caveman and will interpret any groans and moans.
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84  (91%)
I like him to tell me, in full sentences, how much he enjoys it.
Bignuf , Creepellah , BlackOrchid , humblepie , SLIONE419
5  (5%)
He'd better compose some song or write a sonnet about how great I am.
Wicked Wahine , Noelle
2  (2%)
Total votes: 92
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01/14/2013
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Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
We are pretty quiet lovers. Active, but quiet. While I can interpret a moan here and there, mostly, we speak in real words, if we speak at all, during sex.
01/14/2013
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
I'm fluent in caveman and will interpret any groans and moans.
01/14/2013
Ex-prude Ex-prude
I wish he would be more vocal, so I've picked up on his breathing in the meantime.
01/14/2013
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
Moaning is good enough for me :3
01/14/2013
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I like to hear some moaning and heavy breathing.
01/14/2013
KissTheSkyBaby KissTheSkyBaby
I'm fine with the occassional moan or hiss of quick intake of breath. If I hear him breath "oh yeah babe" real softly I know he's right where I want him
01/15/2013
Inkkythesquid Inkkythesquid
I Like The Grunts And Sometimes Dirty Talk.
01/15/2013
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I need some sort of sounds.
01/15/2013
butts butts
I really like when he vocally expresses himself, his girly little whines and stuff drive me nuts in a good way!
01/15/2013
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
Lol. Loved the humorous options. : ) I like for him to express a little noise. Now I don't know how much I'd love to hear him yell out something funky or make the Tarzan noise when climaxing, but a little moan does excite me even more. It just makes me feel turned on, not proud of something I'm doing.
01/15/2013
Fluffy Snuggles Fluffy Snuggles
Moans and groans are good. Sentences that go into detail are nice, too, but not necessary. Definitely like at least some sort of feedback!
01/15/2013
falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
noises are good.
01/18/2013
misskat misskat
He mostly moans and offers up a few coherent words strung together here and there but certainly no sentences!
01/19/2013
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
I love hearing moans and groans
01/19/2013
P'Gell P'Gell
My Man is pretty quiet. (In fact, if he starts making noise, I know it's because he's had too much to drink and is having a hard time keeping it up, and is making noise to keep me interested..... and I know we're in for a long session) A few stray sighs, the occasional direction and a grunt at the end and I know he happy, most of the time.
01/19/2013
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
I enjoy it.. a little moaning and graoning never hurt anyone
01/19/2013
Incendiaire Incendiaire
A little grunting and heavy breathing is good.
01/19/2013
xscorpiox xscorpiox
fluent in caveman
01/19/2013
travelnurse travelnurse
I like it when he makes noises!
01/19/2013
F1akaLuvsE.F F1akaLuvsE.F
Ok so heres my biggest issue jejej my husband is a very quiet lover! Its rare when he makes any kind of sound. Makes me think im not doing something right, but I have learned that when were not sexually active for about a week or so he tends to make little moans and grunts, so I know im doing ok jajaj... Well heres my question how could I get him to atleast groan and make some kind of noise so I know hes still there you know? Ive tried alot of things trust me jajaja
01/19/2013
Feisty Feisty
Haha, I like the caveman reference. I like it when he expresses himself.
01/19/2013
Ayumi Ayumi
I certainly don't mind groans and moans (which are usually present), but I can tell from his body reactions what is working and what isn't.
01/19/2013
Amber Sweet Amber Sweet
Moans, groans and grunts let me know I'm doing an excellent job.
01/19/2013
skittlezjoyann skittlezjoyann
I know it's good when he goes to say something and it makes no sense at all.
01/19/2013
Nympho88 Nympho88
A moan every once in awhile.... And heavy breathing But not to much into full on convos during sex! And def dont want to moan louder than me!
01/19/2013
Jennifer87 Jennifer87
I love him to moan and tell me "aww suck my cock" its so great to know that I am doing it just like he likes Even better when he starts twitching and moaning even louder right before he cums
01/19/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Nympho88
A moan every once in awhile.... And heavy breathing But not to much into full on convos during sex! And def dont want to moan louder than me!
Well said - I do make some sounds - but my wife is louder - and I like it that way.
01/20/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I like the grunts and groans he makes, but I know I'm doing my job right when he calls me his "dirty little cock sucker"...thats music to my ears!!!
01/20/2013
Love Lula Love Lula
I like moaning and groaning and when men are quite vocal, but any sign that I'm doing a good job and that he's enjoying is good enough for me.
01/20/2013
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