How "loud" do you like your man to show their enjoyment?

sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I like the little subtle moans and gasps, that way I know that I'm actually making him feel good and he's not just making noises to make me feel good about myself. And a few words of encouragement always help. Plus if a guy gets too loud I just start laughing because it's weird and awkward for me.
01/20/2013
LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
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Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
I love hearing him moan as his cock is in my mouth
01/20/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I like some noises, and that's exactly what he gives me! I don't NEED them to know what I'm doing is good or not, but it really makes the experience that much better on my end!
01/20/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
A better question would be, at what point is he no loner thinking about the world and only of you during sex?
01/20/2013
joolie joolie
His sounds turn me on, I wish he made more noise.
01/22/2013
xxSuzakuxx xxSuzakuxx
< Cave man
01/22/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
A few moans & groans is nice..
06/14/2013
Pierced Blaqk Skies Pierced Blaqk Skies
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
My partner isn't vocal really at all. I just have to pick up on his breathing patterns. I wish he was more vocal though. :/
06/14/2013
edeneve edeneve
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
lol!!! absolutely LOVE the last option!!
06/15/2013
twelve13 twelve13
Moans and groans are the best. And they turn me on
06/15/2013
surreptitious surreptitious
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
I really like the options that you offered. My opinion is pretty much clarified in the poll, but I just wanted to say that. =)
06/15/2013
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I had to pick the last option because it's so funny! But, no I don't HAVE to have that much feedback, would be nice, but...
06/15/2013
Dolphin Lady Dolphin Lady
I like him to be really loud.
06/15/2013
wicked48 wicked48
Fluent in caveman (love this answer, thanks for providing it)!
06/16/2013
BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
I'd feel confident in what I was doing even if he was quiet, but I just love his dirty talk. It really gets me going.
06/18/2013
Crissy1988 Crissy1988
I like to hear my man moan
06/18/2013
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
I can get pretty into it, and so my wife has to shove her hand over my mouth... if she can.
06/21/2013
humblepie humblepie
While I *am* fluent in caveman, I appreciate English! I hate that my dude is so silent most of the time
06/21/2013
TMTease TMTease
Feeling his body react is good enough, but to hear him tell me how much he loves it, turns me on even more
09/17/2013
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I like moaning mostly.
09/17/2013
codyrem87 codyrem87
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Originally posted by Bignuf
We are pretty quiet lovers. Active, but quiet. While I can interpret a moan here and there, mostly, we speak in real words, if we speak at all, during sex.
Nothing like showing each other how much enjoyment is really being taken place, and showing each other both phy. and verbally the enjoyment to me makes things so much more hotter. Gotta feel it
09/17/2013
codyrem87 codyrem87
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
Usually the moaning and the grabbing of the hair always shows how well things are feeling.
09/17/2013
Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
We're both pretty quiet if anyone's home, but he's definitely much louder when nobody's around. Neither of us ever say actual words much though
09/27/2013
BlueBonsai BlueBonsai
Sounds are always hot. I've had some guys that are always dead quiet till like a little sound when they come at the end. It's not nearly as fulfilling as a more vocal guy - grunts/moans, dirty talk. It's all good.
10/06/2013
kmarsico kmarsico
any type of noise is good it doesnt matter if it is dirty talk or just moans
10/07/2013
CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
I happen to be very auditory so I adore moans and grunts and sighs... sadly my boyfriend is very quiet, but there's also body language which is great. One of the best thing I've received is just lying next to him sideways and going down on him. He placed his hand on my side and I could feel it twitch a little occasionally... Expressions of pleasure are just great in general~ <3 -u-
10/08/2013
Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Quote:
Originally posted by Cynoc
When you are going down on him, at what point is it enough feedback for you to feel appreciated and confident in your skills? What to you need to know he's actually "in the moment" and not thinking about something else?
LOL - I love the categories!! I also tend to follow the trend here - feedback is always appreciated!
11/07/2013
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