All this talk about Blow Jobs ! How about Cunnilingus ?

Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
How about adding some chapters to Vnessa's oral pleasure manual.

Women : What do you want your SO doing and how? Please give specifics. Include where to start (nipples then work your way down ?), how long you want it, side to side, up and down, circling the button, sucking sensitive parts? etc.

Men : What's your technique? And do you make her wait after she's all hot and bother, itching for the next step ?
02/19/2015
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Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Great Idea O.H. Please forgive the gramatical mistakes. There will be many. I promise.

My technique varies depending on how much time I have, when the last time I went down on the partner was and how she is feeling overall. Sometimes, I'll just ask outright. Well, I tell her what I'd like to do and see if she is on board with it.

Anyway, the process is what this thread is about, isn't it. I like to caress her breasts and fondle her nipples while I start off slow and gentle in an up and down direction. Sometimes I will give them a gentle flick. As far as the neighbor down south, I will lick her clit only going in the up direction slowly and deliberately. Eventually I give her the up and down directions. As I'm doing this, I also like to look in her eyes. This gives me an idea of when I can switch it up and move faster. Plus, its just hot. I like watching her eyes roll back into her head and the look on her face is priceless. I wish I could explain it, but, I just don't have the words or emoticons.

While I'm doing this, she is usually either watching me or has her eyes closed. I can only hope she is off in fantasy land. That's where I'd be if this was happening to me. When she has her eyes closed they are usually rolling around in her head. I find that interesting to watch. I can only wonder what she is thinking about.

As for the finish, remember in the first paragraph when I mentioned how she was feeling, the amount of time I have and the last time I went down/had sex with her? This is where it matters. Usually I have a toy tucked away somewhere she can't see it and this is when I break it out. Not at the finish but just before. I'd say about 2-3 min before she orgasms from oral alone. Depending on the criteria mentioned in the first paragraph, I try to choose the right toy for the mood. We, well I, have this pink glass toy that looks like a tentacle and is textured. I think Carrie Ann and a few others reviewed it. Let's see... Ah, here it is! Anyway, this is my current favorite toy to use with/on her.

Anyway, so she minutes from orgasming, no cumming all over my face, but I don't want it to end just yet. I mean I just got started. Why should the fun end so soon? So, in order to slow down the process, I give her a good spank or two. This brings her attention back to me, but, I'm still licking her clit.

After a nice sounding slap on her ass, I rub the area with my hand to cool it down. By now, she should be nice and wet. This is when I tease her with a finger for a little while. I like to hear her beg for me to go in a little deeper. If I do penetrate her with my finger, I usually place my index finger of either hand pad up and rub the top of her wet vagina. I don't go too deep, only about an inch or two in and rub that area for a little while. I'm always looking for that G Spot. I want her to remember what happened.

Finally, that toy I mentioned you know the one Carrie Ann mentioned and it looks like a tentacle, I slowly push the toy into her. I use it with all the little bumps facing the top wall of the vagina. I slowly at first, but pick up speed depending on what signals she is giving me, pump that sucker into and out of her while I'm trying to look into her eyes till she cums. Or if I get the green light...

A well lubed and covered finger with a "finger cot" on it goes into the back door. If it does, I can either just move it in and out or I will curl the finger in the shape of a hook and rub the top wall of the anal cavity. She seems to like that.

When she is finished, I'll try for a round 2 but this time with me insider her. If she is too tired after all that, I just clean up and hold her. If she isn't and wants something more, that's where I come in.

I've gotten her to squirt a hand full of times, but, I can't do it for some reason while I'm giving her oral or reliably. I think it would be really hot if she squirted while I was going down on her. I gotta figure that out . I'm doing something wrong, but what!?
02/19/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
How about adding some chapters to Vnessa's oral pleasure manual.

Women : What do you want your SO doing and how? Please give specifics. Include where to start (nipples then work your way down ?), how long you want it, side to side, up and ... more
Excuse me??


Not u Inq.
02/19/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Great Idea O.H. Please forgive the gramatical mistakes. There will be many. I promise.

My technique varies depending on how much time I have, when the last time I went down on the partner was and how she is feeling overall. Sometimes, ... more
I think most will agree with giving you an A for this assignment ! I hope your accounting assignment also get such good grades !
02/19/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
I think I misread your topic. That is my bad. Is there anyway that can be moved into another topic? I Fubar'ed this.
02/19/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I think I misread your topic. That is my bad. Is there anyway that can be moved into another topic? I Fubar'ed this.
What do u mean ? Looks like on topic.
02/19/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
First and foremost, before I get way too excited, I must give thanks for this HUGE shout out This was calls for even a new Avatar! I had to snag a favorite of mine that made me feel a little extra sensual and something that brought out that, what's the word???? Temptress!!! Yes, that's it

Ok, now let me read what you men have been discussing...one moment please and thank you.
02/19/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I think I misread your topic. That is my bad. Is there anyway that can be moved into another topic? I Fubar'ed this.
Inquier. you are on topic . ole h. isn't
02/19/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Great Idea O.H. Please forgive the gramatical mistakes. There will be many. I promise.

My technique varies depending on how much time I have, when the last time I went down on the partner was and how she is feeling overall. Sometimes, ... more
Inquisiter... im taking notes bro!

My technique is a bit different.

I enjoy starting off with her still in her panties. I kiss her on the lips and tease her through her panties. I even enjoy having her keep her clothes on if they are shorts and just gently rubbing them against her.

I find that she is super sensitive in a bad way to start out with and she needs to be warmed up before I go anywhere near her clit directly. So slowly I will hook my finger on her panties and pull them over to the side and start rubbing the outside of her labia gently with my hands and my tongue every once in a while sticking my tongue inside of her to taste her and see how wet she is getting. I usually stick around the outside of her smaller labia and to the skin at the base of her clitoral hood.

As an indicator I get closer to her clit when I feel her getting super wet. You can also tell when her clit starts to swell that it wants more attention. Once her clit is nice and hard I go right to it and pull back her clitoral hood and rub my tongue directly on her clit. Usually around this time I can feel her hips start to buck so I know im on the right path. If she isn't bucking for me at this point I usually pull back a little bit and go back to the technique before basically making her want me to make direct contact with her clit.

I have used toys, but I dont use anything on a regular basis. (Truthfully if she would give me the go ahead id use all sort of things to figure out a good toy to step up my game.) I will be ordering that toy the inquisiter uses because why not! (Good looking mentioning that dude)

The only other thing I do is I have been known to use coconut oil and a butt plug also during this activity. I find that when she cums its much more intense with a butt plug and if we don't have a butt plug I do massage her ass with my thumb or pointer finger.

I also made her a belly ring that has a nice sterling silver heart that hangs from a pretty heavy stainless steel ring and I like tugging on it just a little bit as she starts to cum. She says it drives her nuts.

That's my technique, and I am always hoping to learn more and improve my game. Lets hear more!
02/19/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Inquisiter... im taking notes bro!

My technique is a bit different.

I enjoy starting off with her still in her panties. I kiss her on the lips and tease her through her panties. I even enjoy having her keep her clothes on if they are ... more
OH MAN! What the fudge...

That toy is discontinued!
02/19/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I think I misread your topic. That is my bad. Is there anyway that can be moved into another topic? I Fubar'ed this.
The HELL YOU DID! (clearing my throat)....I may need another minute..I'm glad Eden dropped off a new care package for me today
02/19/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
What I like, is a lot of teasing to start. I have a super sensitive clit, so he cant get down and dirty with it right off the bat. My little button needs primed first.

So, I think it's super hot if he's teasing me through my panties first. Nipping, biting, mouthing me like he wants to eat me alive. I love feeling his warm breath through the silk, making my clit warm and aroused, to the point I'm whimpering and squirming. This is is green light to slide them off.

Then, I like my nipple played with as he continues his route back to my lower region. I want them bitten or pinched so I can feel a contrasting touch to what he's doing between my legs. Remember, I'm extra sensitive, so a little touch goes a long way. As he's playing with my nipples, I'm ready to feel his tongue all over my lower lips, circling my clit, but avoiding it directly at first. Then, I like when he straight up takes his soft, flat, tongue, and slowly licky me up like a dripping ice cream cone! Soft and slow a few times. Then, as my eyes are rolling, and they will close and roll, my breathing gets shallower, this is when I like him to puck up the pace. I like a little finger action added inside, hitting that G spot, as he us now seriously and vigorously swirling his tongue around my clit. It's totally primed and ready for heavy manipulation! Flicking it now and adding in some more of the heavy ice cream cone lick...Goood! At this point, I should be twitching, grabbing his hair, and not capable of much more than a few gasps.

Once my orgasm hits, I'm ready for HIS pleasure, and he's usually dragging me straight on top of him. lol Giddy uuuup
02/19/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Great Idea O.H. Please forgive the gramatical mistakes. There will be many. I promise.

My technique varies depending on how much time I have, when the last time I went down on the partner was and how she is feeling overall. Sometimes, ... more
WRONG??? You're young and still know to really give a girl a thrill like that....I'm entranced! Geez.

Ok...now I want someone to come over here and do exactly that to me...that look you said that was with her eyes closed ....Maybe it was this with eyes closed....that'd be me.

Whooooeee! Mr Stud!!!
02/19/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
What I like, is a lot of teasing to start. I have a super sensitive clit, so he cant get down and dirty with it right off the bat. My little button needs primed first.

So, I think it's super hot if he's teasing me through my panties ... more
Vnessa.... yeah thats really hot.

Im all about those dripping ice cream licks. Especially when I take my tongue back and its covered with her.

So HOT!
02/19/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by symbiasin
WRONG??? You're young and still know to really give a girl a thrill like that....I'm entranced! Geez.

Ok...now I want someone to come over here and do exactly that to me...that look you said that was with her eyes closed ....Maybe it ... more
Now, I'm fascinated....how young is our STUD lol...
02/19/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Vnessa.... yeah thats really hot.

Im all about those dripping ice cream licks. Especially when I take my tongue back and its covered with her.

So HOT!
Hot...even with all the stinking auto correct typos lol
02/19/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Hot...even with all the stinking auto correct typos lol
I'm not at work.... typos shmipos
02/19/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
All good info... Feverishly taking notes.... Never hurts to have more arrows in my quiver... Also, I don't always use a toy or a finger, but when I do, I've noticed that I reach for that one more often. I should have ended that sentence with, "I drink Dos XXX."

I think what O.H. meant and actually typed was, "Ladies, what would you like done to you when you receive cunnilingus." What I read was, "Ladies do you receive Cunnilingus."

Thank you all for the input . I have some new tricks to try out.
02/20/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
What I like, is a lot of teasing to start. I have a super sensitive clit, so he cant get down and dirty with it right off the bat. My little button needs primed first.

So, I think it's super hot if he's teasing me through my panties ... more
Sounds like you have another liking in common with Ow.
I grade your work as a A+.
02/20/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
The HELL YOU DID! (clearing my throat)....I may need another minute..I'm glad Eden dropped off a new care package for me today
Oh do tell what was in the care package.
02/20/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Inquisiter... im taking notes bro!

My technique is a bit different.

I enjoy starting off with her still in her panties. I kiss her on the lips and tease her through her panties. I even enjoy having her keep her clothes on if they are ... more
I like the part about the bp and massaging. Everybody loves massages.
02/20/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Oh do tell what was in the care package.
Well...Mr Man's and I are going to be super busy!!! Inside my little bag of tricks was some Dona Kissable Body paint (vanilla flavored), the Blue Swirl G glass dildo, and The Boy In Blue dildo (he had a suction base).
02/20/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Well...Mr Man's and I are going to be super busy!!! Inside my little bag of tricks was some Dona Kissable Body paint (vanilla flavored), the Blue Swirl G glass dildo, and The Boy In Blue dildo (he had a suction base).
Hope the Siberian chill/Artic Freeze doesn't deter the activities. Kinda of cold to be au natureal and body paint tonight. Even with the fireplace on. Uhh, cold glass toys?

Have fun and don't forget, report weather induced activities on our EdenF Weather Team report.
02/20/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Hope the Siberian chill/Artic Freeze doesn't deter the activities. Kinda of cold to be au natureal and body paint tonight. Even with the fireplace on. Uhh, cold glass toys?

Have fun and don't forget, report weather induced activities ... more
Nice plug for the Weather Thread O.H.!
02/20/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Well...Mr Man's and I are going to be super busy!!! Inside my little bag of tricks was some Dona Kissable Body paint (vanilla flavored), the Blue Swirl G glass dildo, and The Boy In Blue dildo (he had a suction base).
Awesome! Have fun!
02/20/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Hope the Siberian chill/Artic Freeze doesn't deter the activities. Kinda of cold to be au natureal and body paint tonight. Even with the fireplace on. Uhh, cold glass toys?

Have fun and don't forget, report weather induced activities ... more
Lol I know, right!! Maybe there's a slight masochistic side deep inside somewhere. Naaah It's all for HIM!!! HAAAA!!! I'm not getting any colder than necessary. seriously though, the toys are all mine. Body paint is his. I'm warming him up to toys...hopefully

The night was postponed (pouty face). To be continued...
02/21/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Nice plug for the Weather Thread O.H.!
Yes, I have a knack for promoting. In management and sales, it's important to get the word out.

If only I could learn to spell and use proper,then people might understand me better.
02/21/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Yes, I have a knack for promoting. In management and sales, it's important to get the word out.

If only I could learn to spell and use proper,then people might understand me better.
I can help you with that.
02/21/2015
Contributor: BusyMe BusyMe
I get too excited and don't really finish the blow job the job part
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