Before receiving oral, do you need to freshen up?

Rossie Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
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I'll go freshen up first.
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I'll let him/her taste me on the spot.
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Others, please explain.
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Total votes: 150 (143 voters)
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07/27/2011
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Callisto Callisto
If he was adamant about it I don't see why not.
07/27/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife will insist on freshening up even though I tell her it's not necessary.
07/27/2011
dezzydezire dezzydezire
I have to freshen up or im to worried to enjoy it.
07/27/2011
Ansley Ansley
I don't worry about it. He's smelled the worst when I had a case of bacterial vaginosis I couldn't shake to save my life. NOTHING smells worse than that, nothing. Not that my scent or taste was ever a problem before that, he's always been really into it.
07/27/2011
AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
We've been together long enough that if he went down there and it needed a freshening he'd tell me.
07/27/2011
Crichton Crichton
I freshen up.

He mentioned that he doesn't like the taste, well more like the after taste. He said he gets a metallic taste. I don't get what he is talking about because I do test myself out before he goes down on me. He has cleared it up recently and told me it wasn't so much of a taste issue. He said it just makes his tongue feel weird. Made me super self conscious and even though he likes doing it I always assume he does it to make me happy and doesn't really care for it.
07/27/2011
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Depends. If I was doing something dirty and sweaty all day and felt really ripe, I might want to freshen up before doing anything. Other than that, I don't worry too much about it.
07/27/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Depends. If I was doing something dirty and sweaty all day and felt really ripe, I might want to freshen up before doing anything. Other than that, I don't worry too much about it.
Same here, maybe if I just ran 5 miles, otherwise I'll stay as is
07/27/2011
Sir Sir
I'm fine with just being as is. I do not expect the person I'm with to wash before I give them oral, so they should not expect it from me. If we're both properly cleaned and hygienic, then I see no problem.
07/27/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't mind if a partner doesn't wash straight before - as long as I know their hygiene standards!
But I want to freshen up so I feel confident, directly before a partner performs oral on me.
07/27/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I don't like receiving oral, so other.
07/27/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
I would feel most comfortable if I got to freshen up first. I wouldn't mind letting a partner go down on me on the spot, but it would just depend.
07/27/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
Normally I'm fine with it. If I had gotten sweaty I'd want to go clean up first though.
07/28/2011
toxie m toxie m
I'll pretty much always want to go freshen up, but he sometime insists that it's fine and that we should just get on with it
07/28/2011
Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
I personally freshen up everytime because it makes me feel better.
07/28/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
If your partner wants to go down on you in the middle of the day, do you call a halt and go freshen up first, or let him/her taste you on the spot?
I don't care either as giver or receiver, but Mrs. Lust definitely wants to freshen up before she lets me go south.
07/28/2011
Alyjazz Alyjazz
I prefer to freshen up, even though the boyfriend insists its fine as is
07/28/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I don't mind her being slightly sweaty, (just a little bit turns me on actually) but keep in mind I mean mildly and within a few hours of her last shower. I think she feels the same way. I think though that her bigger hang up is that she thinks I do it to make her happy when I actually do it for myself as much as for her. I wish she would let me more often.
07/28/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
He really hates oral taste so I always freshen up to make it as pleasant as possible
07/28/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I have to wash up.
07/29/2011
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Depends. If I was doing something dirty and sweaty all day and felt really ripe, I might want to freshen up before doing anything. Other than that, I don't worry too much about it.
Yeah, the same goes for me. Only if I was doing something previously and got all sweaty and gross.
07/29/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I would rather freshen up but if he really wants to in the heat of the moment, I don't fight him.
He says I am so sexy coming from the gym but I invite him to the shower with me.
07/29/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
It depends on what I have been doing. If I have been in the yard gardening all day in the hot sun, yeah, I need to shower. If I just got home from work, probably not.

If I am a sweaty mess, I need a shower prior to an sex happening, oral or otherwise; unless we are both sweaty messes, then it doesn't matter to me.
07/29/2011
ijako9 ijako9
I'm usually pretty clean down there so no worries I shower everyday
07/29/2011
Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Depends. If I was doing something dirty and sweaty all day and felt really ripe, I might want to freshen up before doing anything. Other than that, I don't worry too much about it.
Pretty much this. I'm not going to worry about it too much.
07/29/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife will insist on freshening up even though I tell her it's not necessary.
I'm the same way. Sometimes he actually prevents me from taking a little sponge bath. I try to beg off, telling him "I'm sweaty." He says, "I want you sweaty and dirty!" LOL! (I'm not "dirty" but he likes the sound of talking like this.)

I think we women were raised with so much shame about our bodies in general and our genitals specifically, that we feel we have to do this. At least that's the way I feel.

Like some of the men have said, most men actually LOVE going down on their partners. Believe me, nothing makes a woman happier than to be told her man (or woman) loves to go down on her. My Man frequently tells me he does it because he LOVES to, and it feels so good to know he loves it.

Guys, TELL your partner you love it. You'll make her day, and most likely get laid more often.
07/29/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We don't bother freshening up; it's a waste of time.
07/29/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I'm the same way. Sometimes he actually prevents me from taking a little sponge bath. I try to beg off, telling him "I'm sweaty." He says, "I want you sweaty and dirty!" LOL! (I'm not "dirty" but he likes the ... More
Bulls-eye - as usual! Have a great weekend
07/29/2011
married with children married with children
not unless I am dirty and stinky. but we do most of our playing at night before bed.
07/30/2011
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