I have never done it and my partner is a lighter sleeper then me and he awakes earlier anyway.
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Blowing him while he's sleeping?
02/04/2011
My guy used to love it when I did this a while back. We don't do this anymore bcs the last few times I did it, I was working hard like hell to get him off but he was so tired he couldn't cum. So now we do it only when he is awake.
02/04/2011
I tend to wake him up often but not just for oral. I mostly use oral to get him awake and in the right mood. If I'm giving just oral then I want him awake to enjoy it.
02/04/2011
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Kudos - off course he's going to wake up! If my gal ever did this for me - hopefully it would be the prelude to sexual fulfillment for both of us.
Originally posted by
SexyTabby
I tend to wake him up often but not just for oral. I mostly use oral to get him awake and in the right mood. If I'm giving just oral then I want him awake to enjoy it.
02/04/2011
i have asked, but my wife has only done it once for me. sad
02/05/2011
I have honestly thought about doing it but I agree with some on here- I would be worried that his reaction would be to hit first/open eyes and apologies/questions second. I enjoy it much more if he is awake even if he is just barely awake.
02/06/2011
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Just give it a try, and try it often!
Originally posted by
danellejohns
I have honestly thought about doing it but I agree with some on here- I would be worried that his reaction would be to hit first/open eyes and apologies/questions second. I enjoy it much more if he is awake even if he is just barely awake.
02/06/2011
I tried this with one boyfriend and he woke up PISSED OFF. He called me names, berated me, and said never EVER to do that again. It left a bad impression on me, so now I ask ahead of time if someone would mind. Everyone since has said that guy was a dumbass and handled it badly (he did, really) and that waking up to a BJ is a dream come true. Nonetheless, I always ask now. Its not worth the risk of surprising that one guy that will go apeshit again.
02/06/2011
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Sorry to hear what happened - what an jerk! He's probably a one-in-a-million asshole, I'd be willing to bet that never happens to you again!
Originally posted by
clp
I tried this with one boyfriend and he woke up PISSED OFF. He called me names, berated me, and said never EVER to do that again. It left a bad impression on me, so now I ask ahead of time if someone would mind. Everyone since has said that guy was a
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I tried this with one boyfriend and he woke up PISSED OFF. He called me names, berated me, and said never EVER to do that again. It left a bad impression on me, so now I ask ahead of time if someone would mind. Everyone since has said that guy was a dumbass and handled it badly (he did, really) and that waking up to a BJ is a dream come true. Nonetheless, I always ask now. Its not worth the risk of surprising that one guy that will go apeshit again.
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02/06/2011
He loves it. Sometimes I'll rub him before he wakes and he'll get hard but not awake yet, then I'll climb on top of him and have sex with him. By the end he's basically awake and extremely happy. Blowjobs are always nice but he always wants sex.
02/07/2011
I have only done this once. Funny enough it was the first time I have ever had a penis in my mouth. My then boyfriend, now my husband. It was a sleep beej, we were both sleeping but when I woke up I was giving him oral. He woke up a few minutes later shocked. When he finished we both just rolled over as though nothing happened. In the morning though, he told me all about it and really enjoyed the act. That was four years ago and it has not happened since.
02/08/2011
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i do occassionally to him but not as much as use to in mornings
Originally posted by
GoodMorningSunshine
My boyfriend LOVES waking up to oral. I know it's not the weirdest thing in the world to like, but I've met some guys who aren't too fond of it so I just wanted to gauge where everyone was at on this.
02/08/2011
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OK - so the obvious question is if he said he liked it - why has it been 4 years? Anytime my wife tells me she likes something - you can bet it wouldn't be more than a week or two before I give it another go!
Originally posted by
The Amber May
I have only done this once. Funny enough it was the first time I have ever had a penis in my mouth. My then boyfriend, now my husband. It was a sleep beej, we were both sleeping but when I woke up I was giving him oral. He woke up a few minutes later
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I have only done this once. Funny enough it was the first time I have ever had a penis in my mouth. My then boyfriend, now my husband. It was a sleep beej, we were both sleeping but when I woke up I was giving him oral. He woke up a few minutes later shocked. When he finished we both just rolled over as though nothing happened. In the morning though, he told me all about it and really enjoyed the act. That was four years ago and it has not happened since.
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02/08/2011
Has anyone considered the risk of genital stimulation causing someone to start urinating while still asleep?
02/09/2011
Wish there were more options. I haven't done it, but he's told me he fantasizes about it and wonders what it'd be like. But he is also a really light sleeper, so it'd be hard to "surprise" him.
02/10/2011
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Every guy is going to wake up within a few seconds of either manual or oral stimulation (unless there's an exhaustion factor).
Originally posted by
tigerkate
Wish there were more options. I haven't done it, but he's told me he fantasizes about it and wonders what it'd be like. But he is also a really light sleeper, so it'd be hard to "surprise" him.
He's not suppose to sleep through the whole thing. The point is to be awakened by your partner doing something sexual for you.
02/10/2011
I'd love to try it some day
02/10/2011
I <3 waking the hubby up like this & it always leads to fun
02/10/2011
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I've never been able to try this...all the guys I've been with have been light sleepers, and most were military, so I'd have ended up being smacked in the head or something if I messed with them when they were asleep!
Originally posted by
GoodMorningSunshine
My boyfriend LOVES waking up to oral. I know it's not the weirdest thing in the world to like, but I've met some guys who aren't too fond of it so I just wanted to gauge where everyone was at on this.
02/10/2011
i've never tried it, lol i tend to have partners who are grumpy about being awakened before they need to get up.
02/11/2011
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You'd be surprised - I doubt they are going to wake up grumpy if your hot mouth is wrapped around their woody!
Originally posted by
evanovca
i've never tried it, lol i tend to have partners who are grumpy about being awakened before they need to get up.
02/11/2011
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Um, no. *scratches temple* The need to urinate prevents him from orgasming sometimes but he has never urinated in the bed because I was playing with his junk.
Originally posted by
dv8
Has anyone considered the risk of genital stimulation causing someone to start urinating while still asleep?
02/11/2011
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My husband gets the absolute hell knocked out of him if tries to wake me up by starting anything sexual. Mainly, because he sweeps his hand across my painfully full bladder trying to get me to open my legs.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
You'd be surprised - I doubt they are going to wake up grumpy if your hot mouth is wrapped around their woody!
02/11/2011
Obviously I ask my partner first if they would mind being woken up this way, but if I get the green light then yes, I love doing this! I do think it's important to clear it before hand otherwise you will get a very upset person in the bed next to you.
02/11/2011
My partner has tried that with me and apparently I just mumble and roll over... so I'm not very receptive to amorousness in my sleep.
02/15/2011
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Sadly, we're on the same page
Originally posted by
ToyTimeTim
Damn, I would LOVE that! I do not think she would do it though.
02/15/2011
Haven't had a chance to do this yet, but I can't wait to try it!
02/15/2011
It's always nice to wake him up like this..
02/15/2011
I have done this to past partners and they seem to like it quite a bit.
02/15/2011
I definitely would be a bit afraid that I would get hit in some manner. But If they were partially awake I'd be okay with it
02/16/2011