I do like to freshen up when I can. It doesn't always happen that way but I do my best.
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Do WOMAN "freshen up" before oral sex is received, more or less then men?
10/25/2012
Wow. Kinda ashamed of most of these guys lol. You should always make sure you're clean before letting someone go down on you.
10/25/2012
It really depends on how things go down. If I know its going to happen, on yeah. I think it is just courteous. But if it just happens, well, obviously not. I'm not going to jump up and be like, hold that though. BRB. lol
10/25/2012
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I feel like it's more women because there's such a stigma attached to oral sex performed on women opposed to oral sex performed on men. How many times have we all heard guys whining that vaginas taste bad-or why on earth would they ever want to eat a girl out? Women are told (more than men) that they need to freshen up if they want to receive oral ever. Hello-there's a million vaginal douches and scent strips and stuff and there's no fancy dick cleaning creams.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies
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The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies were far more concerned with "freshening up" before getting oral, then the guys were. My hubby being an exception...admitting HE does not feel comfortable at all getting oral unless he knows he has had a moment to use a wet towel or at least a "Wet" towelette to "freshen up" down there.
SO..our Poll Question....is it more MEN or WOMAN concerned with this issue? less
SO..our Poll Question....is it more MEN or WOMAN concerned with this issue? less
10/29/2012
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I hate receiving oral so it doesn't really apply but I would freshen up if it happened, even before sex I do
Originally posted by
Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies
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more
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies were far more concerned with "freshening up" before getting oral, then the guys were. My hubby being an exception...admitting HE does not feel comfortable at all getting oral unless he knows he has had a moment to use a wet towel or at least a "Wet" towelette to "freshen up" down there.
SO..our Poll Question....is it more MEN or WOMAN concerned with this issue? less
SO..our Poll Question....is it more MEN or WOMAN concerned with this issue? less
10/29/2012
I ALWAYS clean up before oral. I'm very paranoid about bad smells/tastes!
10/29/2012
I never know whether or not I'm going to receive any, but if I think there might me a chance I'll take a baby wipe to it.
10/29/2012
we both try to clean up before oral...though sometimes he will spring it on me without warning! He is generally always washed up, though, I think it makes him feel a lot better (to be honest I wouldn't really mind unless the smell is really bad!)
10/29/2012
I try to always be fresh, if not freshly showered, before I get oral. I've just always been that way. I'm worried about the person being put off.
10/29/2012
Definately freshen. I can't relax enough to enjoy it if I think I'm not fresh
10/30/2012
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Sometimes I feel that way too, but only if I know I have been working out or getting sweaty. Then we can play together in the shower, or even use some wet wipes as part of foreplay to "freshen up" before really the tongue action begins. Makes me feel better anyway. I suspect he couldn't care less.
Originally posted by
edenguy
Definately freshen. I can't relax enough to enjoy it if I think I'm not fresh
10/30/2012
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Since we are "just us too", there is no one to be "put off".
Originally posted by
Intrepid Niddering
I try to always be fresh, if not freshly showered, before I get oral. I've just always been that way. I'm worried about the person being put off.
10/30/2012
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My hubby claims I have never, ever smelled anything but wonderful. Go figure!?
Originally posted by
jr2012
we both try to clean up before oral...though sometimes he will spring it on me without warning! He is generally always washed up, though, I think it makes him feel a lot better (to be honest I wouldn't really mind unless the smell is really bad!)
10/30/2012
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I suspect no guy lucky enough to be with you is going to find anything that "tastes or smells" bad!!! My hubby LOVES my "tastes and smells".....even when I worry about such things.
Originally posted by
Aftertherain13
I ALWAYS clean up before oral. I'm very paranoid about bad smells/tastes!
10/30/2012
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As a woman...and an oral one at that, I want to suck on my guy, when I want to!!! I am not waiting for any pre-action "clean up". Yes, sometimes he is a bit more "musky" then others, and yes, we both enjoy that "post shower" clean, but never, ever have I smelled, tasted or seen him "dirty" or "smelly", and if we are working out, or doing hard housework (painting, gardening), sometimes he showers three times in a day!!!! My guy stays clean and fresh....so there you have it.
Originally posted by
<3BF
Wow. Kinda ashamed of most of these guys lol. You should always make sure you're clean before letting someone go down on you.
10/30/2012
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Gross? My hubby say's he cannot imagine my girlie parts ever, ever being "gross". Ask your love what they think.
Originally posted by
socceras
I HAVE to wash up first. I am a woman. If I didn't that would be gross.
10/30/2012
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That, in a nutshell, says it all for us too.
Originally posted by
Chami
we are very spontaneous so its hard to freshen up before but i like to try if possible
10/30/2012
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No showers? In today's world, that is most rare. We just went to three open houses, for new homes (not tiny one's either. All over 5000 square feet and high end fixtures. NONE...of the three, had a bathtub. No kidding. They had incredible sauna showers, but NO bathtub. The builder says too many people prefer shower only homes.
Originally posted by
bella8933
If I know I getting sex - expecialy oral - I definitely take a bath and I douche with clear water.
I don't take showers .. I need a bathtub with lots of bubbles so I can soak every day.
I don't take showers .. I need a bathtub with lots of bubbles so I can soak every day.
10/30/2012
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Interesting idea.
Originally posted by
Sangsara
oh and i usually just use a flavoured lube for giving fellatio just in case
10/30/2012
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Why yogurt?
Originally posted by
cricket
eat some yogurt and clean your ladyparts
10/30/2012
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If you are healthy, there should be, in fact, very little "bacteria" in that region!
Originally posted by
giftdgecko
fresh is always better. That's just a lot of bacteria in that region for either sex
10/30/2012
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I can tell from your avatar name....ha, ha. My hubby agrees with your boyfriend on this.
Originally posted by
Girly Juice
I take regular showers, especially if I know I'm going to be receiving oral, but I don't purposely freshen up beforehand. It removes all the flavor, which my boyfriend doesn't like!
10/30/2012
I'm a woman and I "freshen up" before I know I am going to get oral done to me.
10/30/2012
This is not something that has ever even occurred to me. Im just not the kind of person who freshens up I suppose...
10/30/2012
I will freshen up.
10/30/2012
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I voted "Other". I've never gotten it done, yet I want it. But as a woman, if I knew I was going to get it or it was anticipated, I would freshen up. I always do before intercourse as well, if I KNOW I'm going to have it.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies
...
more
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies were far more concerned with "freshening up" before getting oral, then the guys were. My hubby being an exception...admitting HE does not feel comfortable at all getting oral unless he knows he has had a moment to use a wet towel or at least a "Wet" towelette to "freshen up" down there.
SO..our Poll Question....is it more MEN or WOMAN concerned with this issue? less
SO..our Poll Question....is it more MEN or WOMAN concerned with this issue? less
10/30/2012
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LOL, right!
Originally posted by
bunniebunnie
I usually do but when it's spontaneous and spur of the moment then the hell with it.
10/30/2012
I freshen up (make sure I'm clean shaven, recently showered, etc) if I can but sometimes things are spontaneous!
10/30/2012
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I dont think anyone should get into anyones face knowing that they are not fresh. That is just downright disgusting
Originally posted by
Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies
...
more
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies were far more concerned with "freshening up" before getting oral, then the guys were. My hubby being an exception...admitting HE does not feel comfortable at all getting oral unless he knows he has had a moment to use a wet towel or at least a "Wet" towelette to "freshen up" down there.
SO..our Poll Question....is it more MEN or WOMAN concerned with this issue? less
SO..our Poll Question....is it more MEN or WOMAN concerned with this issue? less
10/30/2012
I do make sure I've shaved and clean. My wife has been lasered, but will often take a quick dip to clean up if she feels she needs it. I let her know that I don't consider it necessary - 99% the she tastes great.
10/30/2012