I think spanking adds alot to having hot sex.I am trying to convince my wife of that though! I love going down on her and she enjoys giving me head but a little ass play would be fun, too.
Do women enjoy being spanked or spanking their partner? How about while giving or getting oral?
I am still not sure why after several weeks and several posts I can't view your profile. I am also not sure why nearly all of your posts seem to be semi-pornographic descriptions of your fantasies or ways of getting others to describe their fantasies to you. I am not trying to be rude but I feel a little uncomfortable...?
11/16/2009
It totally depends on the individual. I personally get incredibly turned on by being spanked, but some people don't. Some prefer to spank and some just don't like spanking in general. There are concessions we make for our lovers, mostly because those things turn them on, and by proxy, us as well. Having a lover who's willing to try different things and trusting that you'll accept no for an answer if they try it and don't like it is extremely important.
A lot of guys I've been with short circuit logically and forget that I didn't enjoy whatever we tried, and simply think that because I did it the one time, if they badger me enough I'll do it again. It's a rare person who will accept that I'm willing to try just about anything once, but respect me enough to accept that I won't necessarily try it again if I really don't like it.
That's a personal observation, and may have zip to do with you and your wife. Reassuring her that this is just something you want to try and see, not necessarily something you'll become obsessed with can't hurt, though, even if that might be a somewhat irrational worry of hers.
A lot of guys I've been with short circuit logically and forget that I didn't enjoy whatever we tried, and simply think that because I did it the one time, if they badger me enough I'll do it again. It's a rare person who will accept that I'm willing to try just about anything once, but respect me enough to accept that I won't necessarily try it again if I really don't like it.
That's a personal observation, and may have zip to do with you and your wife. Reassuring her that this is just something you want to try and see, not necessarily something you'll become obsessed with can't hurt, though, even if that might be a somewhat irrational worry of hers.
12/02/2009
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I so agree! The reason I ignored this post from the beginning and still I note no response from the author.
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Owl Identified
I am still not sure why after several weeks and several posts I can't view your profile. I am also not sure why nearly all of your posts seem to be semi-pornographic descriptions of your fantasies or ways of getting others to describe their fantasies
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I am still not sure why after several weeks and several posts I can't view your profile. I am also not sure why nearly all of your posts seem to be semi-pornographic descriptions of your fantasies or ways of getting others to describe their fantasies to you. I am not trying to be rude but I feel a little uncomfortable...?
12/04/2009
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I love being spanked by a man or woman, especially during some hot oral sex!
Originally posted by
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I think spanking adds alot to having hot sex.I am trying to convince my wife of that though! I love going down on her and she enjoys giving me head but a little ass play would be fun, too.
01/06/2010
I've never had it as a particular fantasy, but I found out it really feels great when I'm very aroused. (It wasn't extremely hard spanking either, I don't know how i'd like that). Not for the first event either. Foreplay needs to get my head in the right space first, and it doesn't really do it for me in that sense.
I totally agree that it should be completely consentual. If someone has a strong psychological dislike of something they wont enjoy it no matter how you try to convince her, and that should be fine. There should be plenty of other things in your sex life to enjoy. I'd suggest laying the pressure off. Trying to be made to do and enjoy things that you don't want to do can be the one of the worst feelings in the world!
I totally agree that it should be completely consentual. If someone has a strong psychological dislike of something they wont enjoy it no matter how you try to convince her, and that should be fine. There should be plenty of other things in your sex life to enjoy. I'd suggest laying the pressure off. Trying to be made to do and enjoy things that you don't want to do can be the one of the worst feelings in the world!
05/02/2010
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I honestly have never had a partner that didn't love giving as much as I love receiving either. I've spanked a few in my day too haha. My current partner had never had someone like it as much before. So that was interesting.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
I love giving and receiving! It is a fetish of mine
And during oral, some positions can be weird, but if it is done right it sometimes is the little kick I need. The same goes for sex. I like the slap grab.
05/10/2010
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Wow, you sound so hot!! Your husband is a lucky guy! I love ass play during oral, giving and receiving..
Originally posted by
Nefarius
My husband slaps my ass sometimes while I'm performing oral sex on him. He's never slapped my ass while he's performing oral sex on me. He also likes to have his ass stroked and squeezed while my face is planted in his pubic region.
07/02/2010
I love being spanked! In bed, in the kitchen, in a bookstore, wherever! The harder the better. Doggie style is best for beginning to get into spanking because endorphins are already flooding the body so everything feels nice. My man loves slapping my ass while I go down on him. It's all about positioning.
Now I want a spanking.
Now I want a spanking.
07/02/2010
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Wow, he is a lucky guy! You must have a nice ass!! Slapping a nice,tight butt while getting great head! Wow, that's hot!!
Originally posted by
Blinker
I love being spanked! In bed, in the kitchen, in a bookstore, wherever! The harder the better. Doggie style is best for beginning to get into spanking because endorphins are already flooding the body so everything feels nice. My man loves slapping my
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I love being spanked! In bed, in the kitchen, in a bookstore, wherever! The harder the better. Doggie style is best for beginning to get into spanking because endorphins are already flooding the body so everything feels nice. My man loves slapping my ass while I go down on him. It's all about positioning.
Now I want a spanking.
Now I want a spanking.
07/03/2010
