Do women enjoy being spanked or spanking their partner? How about while giving or getting oral?

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I think spanking adds alot to having hot sex.I am trying to convince my wife of that though! I love going down on her and she enjoys giving me head but a little ass play would be fun, too.

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Total votes: 314 (310 voters)

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11/01/2009

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It totally depends on the individual. I personally get incredibly turned on by being spanked, but some people don't. Some prefer to spank and some just don't like spanking in general. There are concessions we make for our lovers, mostly because those things turn them on, and by proxy, us as well. Having a lover who's willing to try different things and trusting that you'll accept no for an answer if they try it and don't like it is extremely important.

A lot of guys I've been with short circuit logically and forget that I didn't enjoy whatever we tried, and simply think that because I did it the one time, if they badger me enough I'll do it again. It's a rare person who will accept that I'm willing to try just about anything once, but respect me enough to accept that I won't necessarily try it again if I really don't like it.

That's a personal observation, and may have zip to do with you and your wife. Reassuring her that this is just something you want to try and see, not necessarily something you'll become obsessed with can't hurt, though, even if that might be a somewhat irrational worry of hers.

12/02/2009