Does being able to tie a cherry stem with your tongue make you better at oral sex?

Badass Badass Jan 30, 1:37 am

It is my favorite party trick and I am pretty good at it. And I think people who can do it generally are better at giving oral sex.

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Badass Badass
Just out of curiosity...
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
26  (20%)
eeep, Lily Night, Ryuson, Do-Re-Mi, Melissa Smith, MR Chickhabit, Beck, P'Gell, Graniteal, jenny10, Bignuf, covertwallace, Hibangel, John E W, Airen Wolf, Alyxx, cheesewizz, Trepier, Brenard, candiekissed69, Azule, chantalgiardina, Sohotdinosaur, Aratal, Oxygen99, P3ngu1n78
106  (80%)
Elnoa, punkstar283, Ms. Spice, robotry, zwee75, LoveDove, JustLikeHeaven, FemmeFlo, BuckeyeGal04, Adriana Ravenlust, I'mNotYourToy, dhig, Greenleaf, Gold Lion, darthkitt3n, Illumin8, mpfm, slynch, Entropy, sktb0007, DynamicKitty, leelee, fredacarl, Powder, calliope, mistre$$, Ash1141, Funtastic, potstickers, ninja250, wdanas, Kabachu, kittychilla, dv8, nakedbear, toxie m, Form 7, Midway through, idunshire, spineyogurt, oneeyedoctopus, Diabolical Kitty, Howells, Rawr4483, indiglo, (k)InkyIvy, Paula, WomanChina, Liz2, unfulfilled, DreamWolf, sweetiejo, padmeamidala, Lano4ka, Stinkytofu10, SJ88, LavenderSkies, Hallmar82, corsetsaurus rex, squire, AMGuidroz, geliebt, ksparkles16, loveshocks, MamaDivine, Jon S, BiJess, shySEXXaddict, Chirple, samanthalynn, ellejay, irishlove, jmex83, SexyRayne, SThr, cottonxcandy, Curiouscat, Undead, goofballmaster, Djiffy, Master DarkWolf, humblepie, Ice1, BlooJay, Missmarc, CollegeFun2014, hall5885, sexxxkitten, Terri69, ghalik, Jewlickah, CindyH, ejrbrndps, JG24FanUK, pinkbeckie, panthercat23, Ilovelingerie, comatose-kitty, Geogeo, roskat, sunkissed05, Fawkes, DeliciousSurprise, VelvetDragon, kittenfacery, SMichelle
Total votes: 132
Poll is open
Jan 30, 1:38 am
punkstar283 punkstar283
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just out of curiosity...
nope
Jan 30, 9:57 pm
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I fail to see how that makes someone better at oral sex. Sure, you can manipulate your tongue, but I feel like tongue action isn't that important to me. I feel like deepthroating well would help more.
Jan 30, 9:59 pm
Lily Night Lily Night
I can do it, but it takes me some time and I look ridiculous while doing it.
Jan 30, 10:16 pm
Ryuson Ryuson
My record is 3 seconds to tie and tighten, but it was a 'good' stem (had a slight bulb on both ends, moderate length).

I don't feel like this has any affect on my ability to perform oral sex, because using my teeth and tongue to make loops and tighten them is nothing like oral sex.
Jan 30, 10:40 pm
Do-Re-Mi Do-Re-Mi
I can and I can also unwrap a starburst, fold my tongue in half, into a clover, and into a sort of bowl. I don't think it really changes how I preform oral it just means I can move my tongue in weird ways that some people can't.
Jan 30, 10:53 pm
LoveDove LoveDove
I don't think it has any effect. Sorry! (But I can't do it, myself.)
Jan 30, 11:19 pm
dhig dhig
nope, but that'd be cool
Jan 30, 11:43 pm
Illumin8 Illumin8
I can do it, but I don't think that there is necessarily any correlation. (Though I'd say specifically in my case there is. )
Jan 31, 2:10 am
Entropy Entropy
No, but it looks damn hot.
Jan 31, 8:28 am
Melissa Smith Melissa Smith
I can do it but not sure if the two are linked at all.
Jan 31, 12:54 pm
ijako9 ijako9
Maybe we should setup a test
Feb 1, 10:46 am
MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
I train my tongue by eating individual cups of yogurt with only my tongue, I also hate the feeling of bits of food in my teeth, so I use my tongue to pluck them out.

A cherry stem is simply another exercise.
Feb 1, 12:12 pm
fredacarl fredacarl
nope
Feb 1, 8:47 pm
Ash1141 Ash1141
Nope
Feb 2, 9:56 am
Beck Beck
I can do it, but I don't think it makes me better at oral sex.
Feb 2, 10:21 am
Funtastic Funtastic
Not me.
Feb 2, 10:44 am
P'Gell P'Gell
Yeah, but there's a trick to it. I do it on the rare occasion we are at a bar or a restaurant and people have drinks, or we're eating cherries with friends. People look at My Man and gasp. LOL!

Am I good at oral sex? I've only heard moans of pleasure and gasping and "OH GOD"s so, I guess so....

But, I don't think they are related, especially if you're giving fellatio. Stamina and knowing how to repress your gag reflex is really more important than tongue work for those who give head to men.
Feb 2, 10:52 am
ninja250 ninja250
I can't, but I don't thing there is a correlation
Feb 4, 12:43 pm
nakedbear nakedbear
I've never seen someone do this.
Feb 14, 8:26 pm
Midway through Midway through
I can't and have not seen someone do it either.
Feb 15, 6:40 pm
idunshire idunshire
I really don't think it does...
Feb 15, 6:43 pm
spineyogurt spineyogurt
I guess it might
Feb 15, 7:18 pm
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Cherries are yucky
Feb 15, 8:56 pm
(k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I don't think there is any actual correlation. I do know that my partner seems to really enjoy seeing me do it, that he gets really excited. And, according to my partner (and the other people I've been with), I'm great at oral. But, like I said, I don't know if there's actually any correlation or if it's just coincidence that I can do both.
Feb 21, 9:18 pm
Liz2 Liz2
I also don't see a correlation, never tried it, but I never had a complaint on my oral technique.
Feb 22, 9:12 am
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I've never tried to tie a cherry stem b/c noone in the house eats cherrys so they're not around. I don't think it would make me better at oral though.
Feb 22, 9:51 am
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Couldn't really tell cause never tried it - what if I tried it right now and was friggin damned amazing? ^^
Feb 23, 5:15 am
jenny10 jenny10
I dont think just because you know the trick to tying a cherry stem with your tongue makes u good at oral. to be good at oral u need to have a strong tongue and be determined haha good thing i eat alot lol
Feb 23, 5:32 am
martb40 martb40
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just out of curiosity...
I've never yet seen any genitals that had a stem or looked like a cherry so I can't imagine being able to tie a knot in a cherry stem would improve your technique.
Feb 23, 7:59 am
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just out of curiosity...
A girlfriend taught me to do this in high school. That was ages ago. My hubby claims I am an Olympic gold medalist in "sucking", and so maybe it does correlate? He sure does not complain about my "tongue aerobics" and ability to do some pretty cool maneuvers around his "tool"!!!!
Feb 23, 3:00 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Melissa Smith
I can do it but not sure if the two are linked at all.
You don't think TONGUE FLEXIBILITY and TALENT play into each other on this???
Feb 23, 3:00 pm
sweetiejo sweetiejo
I think they could but I think a person could excel without doing it also.
Feb 23, 3:01 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by ijako9
Maybe we should setup a test
Okay, all the woman who CAN tie the stem line up on the left, and all who cannot line up on the right....???? I can see a porn movie spinning off of this idea.
Feb 23, 3:01 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms. Spice
I fail to see how that makes someone better at oral sex. Sure, you can manipulate your tongue, but I feel like tongue action isn't that important to me. I feel like deepthroating well would help more.
My hubby loves me to deep throat him, but also loves my creative moves with my tongue on his head and shaft....so I think it is a mixed feeling on this.
Feb 23, 3:02 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by sweetiejo
I think they could but I think a person could excel without doing it also.
This may be research material for a book....
Feb 23, 3:03 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by MR Chickhabit
I train my tongue by eating individual cups of yogurt with only my tongue, I also hate the feeling of bits of food in my teeth, so I use my tongue to pluck them out.

A cherry stem is simply another exercise.
Have you tried tongue push ups????
Feb 23, 3:03 pm
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
No, my tongue isn't talented enough
Feb 24, 10:10 pm
Hibangel Hibangel
yes, but it takes me awhile..
Mar 4, 1:41 am
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Although I haven't, I've seen my wife do it.
Mar 4, 2:19 pm
squire squire
Only my perspective, but the most important thing is passion and confidence. When passion and confidence is there sex of any kind tends to be enjoyable and satisfying. It's that connection of having someone who is loving pleasing you and takes enjoyment from you doing the same...
Mar 4, 3:52 pm
John E W John E W
Wow! And I thought I was a silly fool to do a trick like that!
My answer is yup I can tie a cherry stem with my tongue.
And I don't think it makes any difference for oral sex! Sorry.
Mar 7, 6:16 pm
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just out of curiosity...
def. not...unless your tying his pubes together then it means nothing.
Mar 9, 6:46 am
samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just out of curiosity...
i say no
Mar 9, 8:05 am
ellejay ellejay
I wish!
Mar 11, 8:16 pm
SexyRayne SexyRayne
No but it could be a good start i guess. Practice and talking with your partner make you good at oral sex!!
Mar 15, 11:01 pm
SThr SThr
That's such nonsense...
Mar 15, 11:14 pm
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just out of curiosity...
No.
Mar 18, 6:45 pm
Trepier Trepier
Yes I can. Was just sitting around and people were trying to and then I did it. Didn't have much of a problem with it.
Mar 20, 3:59 am
Brenard Brenard
Can do it pretty well though I don't try it too often.
Mar 20, 11:30 pm
goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just out of curiosity...
Nope, but my girlfriend can.
Mar 21, 12:59 am
Djiffy Djiffy
Not at all, considering most of the work is done with one's teeth. Ouch.
Mar 25, 1:12 am
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
I have never tried it.
Apr 22, 11:25 pm
Azule Azule
I can, but it's not something I'm really out to brag about. It's just like a thing I can do.
Apr 23, 12:32 am
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
I think tying a cherry stem with your tongue makes you good at tying a cherry stem with your tongue.
Apr 23, 12:36 am
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just out of curiosity...
I think no, some seem to think otherwise
Apr 23, 2:29 am
chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just out of curiosity...
i can
Apr 24, 9:31 am
CindyH CindyH
no don't think so
Apr 26, 7:31 am
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
I think that is just a myth. There is no correlation to that and oral sex.
Apr 27, 12:45 pm
pinkbeckie pinkbeckie
no. i have been told i am very good at oral sex. but it all depends on your man, and you... so i think a cherry strem has anythign to do with anything
Apr 27, 12:47 pm
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just out of curiosity...
No. Tying a cherry with your tounge wouldn't make anyone better at oral sex.
Apr 27, 1:22 pm
Shunskitten Shunskitten
i dont think it does. my husband had a ex-girlfriend that could do it easily and he says i give him bj's a lot better then she ever did, plus she really sucked. so no, tying a cherry stem doesn't mean it makes you better at oral sex
Apr 27, 1:46 pm
P3ngu1n78 P3ngu1n78
Quote:
Originally posted by JG24FanUK
I think that is just a myth. There is no correlation to that and oral sex.
But it indicates a strong and flexible tongue
May 5, 12:49 am
Bievan Bievan
The REAL question is: "Can being able to tie a knot in a cherry stem make you more likely to get laid?"
May 5, 1:09 am
Total posts: 64
Unique posters: 59
Badass Badass
Have you had many lovers who could? Have they been significantly better at it than others?
Jan 30, 1:39 am
BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
I haven't ever met someone who could do that, yet my uneducated opinion is that there wouldn't be a correlation.
Jan 30, 11:30 pm
Midway through Midway through
Never had one that could.
Feb 15, 6:41 pm
indiglo indiglo
No correlation, it's just a goofy urban myth.
Feb 21, 9:09 pm
Paula Paula
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Have you had many lovers who could? Have they been significantly better at it than others?
Mine can't and he's amazing
Feb 22, 1:39 am
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I don't see any correlation.
Feb 22, 9:53 am
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Well, a well exercised tongue muscle (the strongest in your body after the heart) is capable of many things for sure... So yep, I do... ~grins ^^
Feb 23, 5:17 am
Hibangel Hibangel
possibly
Mar 4, 1:41 am
Alyxx Alyxx
I don't know if my boyfriend can, but he's still very good. I can, and I've been told by quite a few people that I give the best oral they've ever had, guys and girls. It just has to do with having a strong tongue and good control of it.
Mar 8, 8:06 pm
samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Have you had many lovers who could? Have they been significantly better at it than others?
Never had one that could.
Mar 9, 8:06 am
goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Have you had many lovers who could? Have they been significantly better at it than others?
I don't see too much correlation. My girlfriend can tie a knot with a cherry stem, but she isn't phenomenal with head.
Mar 21, 1:00 am
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
I do.
Apr 22, 11:25 pm
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Have you had many lovers who could? Have they been significantly better at it than others?
nope!
Apr 23, 2:30 am
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I've had one that could do it and I will say that she was more creative while using her tongue and used it a lot more.
Apr 23, 2:33 am
chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Have you had many lovers who could? Have they been significantly better at it than others?
nobody i have dated can .. that i know of atleast...
Apr 24, 9:32 am
Jewlickah Jewlickah
No one I've dated can, and one of them was still hella good.
Apr 26, 5:31 am
Total posts: 16
Unique posters: 16
Badass Badass
Do you think its hot when seeing someone of the sex you are attracted to tie a cherry stem into a knot?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
3  (5%)
punkstar283, DreamWolf, cheesewizz
26  (41%)
Do-Re-Mi, JustLikeHeaven, BuckeyeGal04, I'mNotYourToy, mpfm, mistre$$, ninja250, dv8, Graniteal, Diabolical Kitty, Howells, Paula, Alyxx, BiJess, jmex83, goofballmaster, candiekissed69, Master DarkWolf, Azule, BlooJay, Missmarc, chantalgiardina, Hallmar82, DeliciousSurprise, Oxygen99, kittenfacery
6  (9%)
FemmeFlo, sktb0007, potstickers, Form 7, ejrbrndps, Ilovelingerie
18  (28%)
Elnoa, eeep, Ryuson, darthkitt3n, Ash1141, Midway through, Stinkytofu10, Hibangel, geliebt, humblepie, CollegeFun2014, sexxxkitten, ghalik, Jewlickah, Sohotdinosaur, panthercat23, comatose-kitty, VelvetDragon
11  (17%)
oneeyedoctopus, indiglo, unfulfilled, Airen Wolf, loveshocks, Jon S, samanthalynn, SThr, cottonxcandy, Ice1, hall5885
Total votes: 64
Poll is open
Jan 30, 1:41 am
punkstar283 punkstar283
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you think its hot when seeing someone of the sex you are attracted to tie a cherry stem into a knot?
Very Hot
Jan 30, 9:57 pm
FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
I've never even thought about it. I suppose it means that they can do some pretty cool things with their tongue, but I've never thought about it that way. Now, I do have a dirty mind concerning musicians. Guys who play instruments that require blowing have skilled lips and guys who play guitars have skilled hands, as a general rule. My boyfriend does both.
Jan 30, 11:27 pm
Ash1141 Ash1141
I just think...um okay? It's cool you can do a trick with your tongue but I'm not really impressed or turned on by it.
Feb 2, 9:57 am
Midway through Midway through
It could be either way. It's not more sexy or less sexy. I could take it or leave it.
Feb 15, 6:41 pm
indiglo indiglo
Your face looks goofy while you do it... not hot at all. lol
Feb 21, 9:11 pm
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I could care less.
Feb 22, 9:54 am
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Ahhh that would be pretty alluring to see such a thing! ^^
Feb 23, 5:17 am
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I don't think of sexual thoughts when I see someone being able to tie a cherry stem. I just think, that person's tongue is talented, but not in sexual way.
Feb 24, 10:11 pm
Hibangel Hibangel
not really actually lol
Mar 4, 1:41 am
samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you think its hot when seeing someone of the sex you are attracted to tie a cherry stem into a knot?
Its pretty lame.
Mar 9, 8:06 am
SThr SThr
I'd rather he be able to tie knots with his hands >.>
Mar 15, 11:15 pm
goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you think its hot when seeing someone of the sex you are attracted to tie a cherry stem into a knot?
It's definitely a turn on for me.
Mar 21, 1:01 am
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
It's pretty cool in my opinion.
Apr 22, 11:25 pm
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
Its cool but I wouldn't say it's sexy so much.
Apr 23, 2:34 am
chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
it's nice and a little sexy but not the greatest thing in the world.
Apr 24, 9:32 am
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you think its hot when seeing someone of the sex you are attracted to tie a cherry stem into a knot?
It doesn't do anything for me.
Apr 27, 1:24 pm
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It's a stupid human trick, but unlike being double-jointed or something, it does allow you to make a subtle implication about your prowess - even if it is lacking.
Apr 27, 3:17 pm
Total posts: 18
Unique posters: 18