What is the best way to get into anal sex? Have done lots of research, bought abutt plug, and lots of lube, but can't seen to get the hang of it. I like one finger sometimes, but haven't been able to do any thing more. I try to relax and take deep breathes, but I'm still nervous. It's love to try it, as I have heard that it feels great when you can finally do it. Any tips?