Would you engage in oral sex after anal sex?

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Would you engage in oral sex after anal sex?

Daniel & Brittany Daniel & Brittany
in the word's of Clerks2, you never go ass to mouth!
04/24/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I don't think that's something my fiancee and I will be doing. It doesn't seem too safe.
04/24/2011
Brianna91 Brianna91
Guess I'm in the minority on this one It's just so primal and wrong that sometimes it is exactly the way to finish!

I can see how someone who hasn't thinks it is going to be really really bad or something but it's not. I've done it many times, sometimes planned or sometimes heat of the moment, and I've never seen poop on the guy - I think that is a big myth used by people who don't like anal sex anyhow. It's right up there with needing diapers if you have anal a lot. Make sure you don't have to go before starting butt sex and it shouldn't be a problem. All you taste is whichever lube you're using, and then semen of course.
04/26/2011
ac0313 ac0313
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Originally posted by Brianna91
Guess I'm in the minority on this one It's just so primal and wrong that sometimes it is exactly the way to finish!



I can see how someone who hasn't thinks it is going to be really really bad or something but it's not. ...
I like your response. I have done this once with my SO and she surprised the hell out of me when she did. I never thought A2M was something I would like, but the wrongness of it made it so amazingly hot and turned her and I on more than we thought possible. She has not done this with onyone else and would only do it again if I was "clean" when I pulled out of her ass. To do it or not is entirely up to her, but the Sub in her loved the idea...
05/02/2011
Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I have had this experience as well. It really was kinda hot when it happened, but we were both so wrapped up in it we didn't put any thought into it. And anyway, we had both been rimming and having oral prior to that, so really did not see any issue with it. Has only happened in one crazy weekend, but it is not off the table for me.
05/02/2011
Choolz Choolz
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Originally posted by SexSay
My husband and I have been watching pornos lately, Ive noticed after anal a majority of girls give oral sex. Is that crazy, or is it a normal action after practicing anal sex...
No, no, no. Apart from being really disgusting, it's so unhealthy. You can get so sick from that, and by sick I don't just mean an upset stomach.
05/02/2011
Brianna91 Brianna91
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Originally posted by ac0313
I like your response. I have done this once with my SO and she surprised the hell out of me when she did. I never thought A2M was something I would like, but the wrongness of it made it so amazingly hot and turned her and I on more than we thought ...
I know, it seems so wrong that's what can make it so hot! For me the two go hand in hand because guys are usually so revved up over anal anyhow that ending it in a way that is equally over the top is big fun. I did it too on my first time with anal. I sort of just had it in mind and wanted to, so after we'd been going at it good for awhile I told him what I wanted when he was ready and omg did he cum like crazy, his legs and hands were shaking and everything!

I don't do it everytime I have anal. Often yes but not everytime. Also, about getting sick from it, I've done it plenty of times over the past four years, because sometimes it happens when we switch positions, not just when your guy is getting close to cumming, and I've never gotten sick from doing it. Two other girls I know do it too and same thing. You probably might get sick if you did it like in porn movies where there are two girls and a guy, and the girls are switching with each others butts. But not from your own, no.

And I've never eaten poop either haha gross. that seems to be another common exaggeration in some of the comments here too.
05/04/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Brianna91
I know, it seems so wrong that's what can make it so hot! For me the two go hand in hand because guys are usually so revved up over anal anyhow that ending it in a way that is equally over the top is big fun. I did it too on my first time with ...
There doesn't have to be any visible feces on the penis in order to transfer lower GI bacteria. Some people never get sick from it, some do on occasion, then learn their lesson. Some people NEVER connect the two events, as it may not show up for up to a week after exposure, depending on the bacteria. My Man once got ill from a poorly times rim job. (After we had anal sex.) There was never anything visible, as you can't see bacteria.

I know, sometimes it just happens, but we try to prevent it from happening, to keep healthy. It isn't that hard to grab a washcloth and clean up before you go back to oral.

As becoming ill from ass to mouth contact is something that doesn't happen every time, and some people have different digestive bacteria systems and different immune systems, just because one doesn't get sick every time AtM is done does not prove it is "safe" nor "an exaggeration."
05/06/2011
Brianna91 Brianna91
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Originally posted by P'Gell
There doesn't have to be any visible feces on the penis in order to transfer lower GI bacteria. Some people never get sick from it, some do on occasion, then learn their lesson. Some people NEVER connect the two events, as it may not show up for ...
If your guy got sick though, like I said earlier, that involves two people. It's not like you went ass to mouth with your own germs and got sick, he did it with you and got sick. What kind of "sick" are you talking about exactly? Because I haven't noticed anything, and have never had a friend tell me she got sick from it either, or the few guys I've been with who like to lick me back there never were either. And I did quite a bit of ass to mouth just last night and didnt get sick.
I used the word exaggeration because the idea of getting sick seems like the sort of made up health issue people who don't like anal sex prefer to believe because it gives their opinion something solid sounding to use even if there's not much truth to it. When I was in school there were a few snotty people who would use this type of thing to be snarky against gays and any girls they knew by reputation who liked doing anal sex. They really believe, or really WANT to believe that if you do like anal you'll need diapers, that there has to be poop mess involved, gets aids, prolapse, and just have all sorts of problems. And they'd always have a scary story to tell about someone they knew who tried anal and then of course had all of these very serious medical problems from it. It was a joke how some reactionary people would want to believe them even when they didn't have any experience.
Maybe I haven't been one to put safety ahead of pleasure, but sorry, none of the scary conservative talk against anal sex was true for me or the ones I know who also like it. And when I'd look at the people who would say that sort of stuff, it just seemed that it was their type of personality that made them want the stuff they were scaring people with to be true. That's what was important to them, not keeping anybody safe. Hell they'd have been glad if a girl that they knew liked anal had any of those health things go wrong.

I am sorry to hear your guy got sick. Maybe it is something to keep in mind then although its just not something I'd ever heard of outside the circles of those who don't like anal to begin with.
05/07/2011
Brianna91 Brianna91
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Originally posted by Daniel & Brittany
in the word's of Clerks2, you never go ass to mouth!
But then a little later in that same scene the girl secretly admits to him that yes, sometimes you DO go ass to mouth lol
05/07/2011
Mary-Anne-Xun Mary-Anne-Xun
Eww.
05/07/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Brianna91
If your guy got sick though, like I said earlier, that involves two people. It's not like you went ass to mouth with your own germs and got sick, he did it with you and got sick. What kind of "sick" are you talking about exactly? ...
Um, for the record, I LOVE anal sex. I am not "exaggerating" nor am I a "reactionary." I'm a nurse so I know what E Coli poisoning looks like. In once instance, after a poorly timed rim job (after anal sex had taken place) approximately 2 days after the act, My Man had an attack of E Coli induced Gastroenteritis. He was sick for about 2 days and then recovered. He's performed rimming a number of times since, (since we've been very careful to make sure nothing has entered the anus to bring down bacteria to the outside, however) yet this one time he did get sick, quite sick.

You may well have a very good immune system, or may simply not get sick often, or just been lucky, but no one is "immune" to their own E Coli or other rectal bacteria. A person is just as likely to become sick when in contact with their own rectal bacteria as when in contact with someone else's. Your lower digestive system has bacteria in it, at times more than at others, that are simply not meant to be eaten, by you or someone else.

Any ass to mouth or variation there-of is the luck of the draw. You could go years and not get sick, and one day end up in the ER with a serious E Coli or Salmonella or Listeria infection or even an attack of parasites. Or, it may never happen.

Hon, it's not people who "hate" anal sex, or people spreading rumors or being "reactionary." Ingesting anal bacteria, which does NOT require seeing anything in order to do, does happen and quite frequently and can make people quite ill.

Being careful with anal sex has nothing to do with being hung up or reactionary, it's just smart action.
05/10/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by SexSay
My husband and I have been watching pornos lately, Ive noticed after anal a majority of girls give oral sex. Is that crazy, or is it a normal action after practicing anal sex...
Only if we cleaned thoroughly first. Fun is fun, and dirty sex is great, but that is asking for health problems. Its just too easy to go scrub in the shower together as an additional playtime/foreplay and avoid the risk.
05/10/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
I've made it perfectly clear that I would never do ass to mouth, and he agrees that it would be nasty.
05/10/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
Honestly, working at multiple sexual health centers, you learn all about STD's and infections from having sex. Anal sex being the worst culprit.

Even your own anal bacteria can give you really horrible infections. I would list them all here but I'm studying while on the forum. Just dropping in to leave my marks. But it definitely isn't something you should do. Even if you use a condom, it is likely that the bacteria is on the penis after anal sex. You should always wash your cock before asking your partner for oral after anal. I personally wouldn't do this in the same day...

STD's are easily transmitted this way, and you can make someone horribly sick by pretty much feeding them their own fecal matter. Even in the slightest amounts a person can be sick within hours. Always stay clean. Just because porn stars do it doesn't mean you'll be able to do it with such ease. We get girls with STD's from doing this everyday. You'd be surprised how common this mistake is.
05/10/2011
Brianna91 Brianna91
OMG I never knew about that. That is crazy, seriously. How could I have done it over four years, and like I said, I know others too who do, and never even heard of it? I should probably thank my lucky stars! lol
If I were new to anal I guess that might scare me off having my guy rim me, or taking him in my mouth when he cums- however I'll probably just keep on taking my chances when it feels fun and right, you know? I will do a google check for what you are talking about! Thanks for getting back to me.
05/10/2011
RonLee RonLee
Yeah, I've rimmed my GF when changing positions during anal sex.
09/06/2011
Forever17 Forever17
tootsie roll anyone? ewwwwwwwwww
09/12/2011
jg19 jg19
We used to clean up after cunnilingus but now we get so into it she doesnt mind kissing directly after. But even if we got to the point i dont think ATM is going to happen in the moment.
09/12/2011
ijako9 ijako9
Gross
09/12/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
No. That's pretty disgusting.
09/14/2011
Illumin8 Illumin8
Would never want to do this! Yikes...
09/14/2011
sarki sarki
I'll pass
09/14/2011
frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by SexSay
My husband and I have been watching pornos lately, Ive noticed after anal a majority of girls give oral sex. Is that crazy, or is it a normal action after practicing anal sex...
i wouldn't be able to do that!
09/15/2011
Forever17 Forever17
completely disgusting
09/16/2011
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
No way. Ever. I'm fine with urine, but no thanks.
09/16/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
Only after a thorough cleaning, that I'd allow my cock anywhere near her mouth.
09/24/2011
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
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Originally posted by SexSay
My husband and I have been watching pornos lately, Ive noticed after anal a majority of girls give oral sex. Is that crazy, or is it a normal action after practicing anal sex...
hello bacteria!...they say not to do anal then vaginal i cant imagine it would be any different for anal to mouth bacterial wise.
11/08/2011
Pink Jewel Pink Jewel
No Way, Gross!
11/08/2011
pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
if there was an enema before yes
11/09/2011
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