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I've been having sex for over four years and have yet to have an orgasm, so please enlighten me ladies, how did you have your first orgasm?
I am sorry to say that it took a change in lovers for me to experience my first orgasm. When i was younger, men seemed to be more interested in their own pleasure through me than in finding mutual pleasure, then i was married for 19 years to a man who didnt care to please me sexually. Now...wow. all i can say is wow! Brings a whole new dynamic when a man wants you to have full pleasure with him!