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Is oral better from another woman or from a guy? What could guys do to be better at it in general?
I haven't found any pattern at all, really. When I was much younger, I expected women to be much better because they "know what women like." That's kind of stupid because all women like different things.
The only thing I notice is the women I've been with are gentler, more sensual, and take their time. The men have (with the exception of a couple--sadly out of my life, but that was one thing they did right!) been rougher, more aggressive, sucking/nibbling, and eager to get to different things.
Oh, and the women don't switch up techniques as much as the men. Maybe because they know it's hard to come when someone keeps changing what they're doing down there
(PSA for men!) That's all I can really think of, men: if she likes it, DON'T keep switching to what you think is an even better technique--KEEP at it til she comes, then try out the new move for the next orgasm. And don't be so rough, especially when you first start at it, unless it's her thing. Gentle sucking is good. Sucking of your dick feels good yeah? Well, like it or not, our clits are a lot like dicks and they like being sucked too. Just not like a Dyson
But yeah all women (and men) like crazily different things (which is why first-time oral sex with a new partner is never as good as it is, say, several months later).
But my perspective is skewed because I'm a sub to men and a domme to women.