Girls, Let's Inform The Boys How To Do It Properly

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Girls, Let's Inform The Boys How To Do It Properly

mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
So, let's get right down to it, we all love oral when it's done right. It's fantastic, it's sensational, it's the thing we find ourselves daydreaming about! But...when it's done wrong...it hurts! That's a sensitive area, not meant for super hard sucking and violent rubbing on. Yet, guys still do things that don't feel quite right sometimes. Solution, let's train 'em. I challenge all your girls to commit to teaching guys how to give proper oral, because you'll appreciate them more for it.

Now, how will this be accomplished? Let's start with some simple rules.
1. It shouldn't exhaust you to please me. Stop with all the fancy work and focus on simple, we can add in fancy later. Strengthen up his tongue by requesting simple, deep licks.
2. Tell him how you like it. He likes to hear it, it doesn't hurt his feelings if you tell him nicely.
3. Tell your friends that are too afraid to speak up to learn how to speak up! Everyone is happier if they have a good orgasm!

Got things to add? More tips on how to improve oral for all of us girls out there?! Now is your chance to train all the men out there! Help me out girls! And guys, tell me what you wish your girl would let you know in regards to oral. Finally, take everything you learn here and say it to your friends, might as well spread this all over and make the world a little brighter, one orgasm at a time!
05/25/2012
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Originally posted by mjtheprincess
So, let's get right down to it, we all love oral when it's done right. It's fantastic, it's sensational, it's the thing we find ourselves daydreaming about! But...when it's done wrong...it hurts! That's a sensitive area, ...
No problems here. After 6 years, my Lovie has it down. He takes his lickin' very serious so he always puts a lot of effort in bless his heart. He has never actually hurt me while licking though... yikes! I think I'd be running if a partner ended up hurting me down there with his mouth. No need for hard sucking and things like that. A smack on the crotch is kind of fun to me, but no pain down there!

Thankfully, my partner caught on really quickly to my likes and dislikes and I did too as when we got together, I was just learning what I liked and didn't like about oral as well. I hadn't had anyone else really really do that. It was new to me and anytime you have a new partner, you pretty much have to re-learn things because everyone likes it differently. I sometimes like it fast and with more pressure and sometimes really slow and soft. He usually knows what I'm going to like because if it's just too much on any given day, it'll make my legs twitch and squirm, uncomfortably. Not because I'm in ecstacy, which most guys commonly mistake that for. A little twitch of the legs can mean a good thing, but if I'm squirming AWAY from your mouth... it ain't cause I'm in orgasm heaven. Lol.

Yes, my partner likes for me to tell him how I like it. In fact, he asks me how I want it each time, but I sometimes don't know until he begins and then I'm like... nope, slower. It always varies, but there's one thing I HATE and it's super fast, rough licking. It makes my crotch go numbish and it's not pleasurable. I've had someone attempt to go that route before.

I like your tips, especially "it shouldn't exhaust you to please me." Lol sadly, I've seen it happen, where a guy thinks he should turn his neck into an acrobat of its own and then he gets a neck cramp! Wonder why?! Lol. My partner knows that I like a little cool air down there every once in a while while he's doing that and sometimes he'll try to blow air on it WHILE licking! It's great, but I can tell it takes some focus. Lol. Poor thing tryin' to work so hard. In that case it's ok, but I don't want him to run outta air down there! Lol. 'Wait... why'd ya stop!?' heehee

I really like your post! I think we all need to allow ourselves to be pleased instead of staying in the mind set that women don't exactly deserve or shouldn't speak up and say 'hey, I like sex too and here's how I like it.' I thought I'd NEVER say what I liked to a man because none of my other partners thought it was neccessary to please the female too When I first got with my current partner it was all new to me! It took me a while to finally speak up about what I liked and didn't. I still don't ask him to perform oral for me because he does it so often that I don't want to bug him if I ask, but he likes for me to so sometimes, if he's already going to do it, I'll demand Only for fun though. I'm glad he likes doing it and takes the initiative to say "no sex until I've licked..." and that's really nice.

It never hurts to ask though, if you aren't getting what you want. I hope more people see your post and tell em' how they want it!
05/25/2012
Peggi Peggi
This is an awesome thread! I think that more girls should be open to talking to their guys about this as well! Luckily, from the start I was pretty honest about what I liked or didn't like, I like pressure on my hips but not too much so that took some teaching, but it was worth it!

I agree, starting off with the basics and working up to the fancy tongue moves is a great way to get it right and keep everybody happy! I always advise guys to go slowly, don't jump right in to the fast movements, take it slow and draw it out. It always feels better that way. I hated it when guys (luckily my hubby NEVER did this but some ex's have!) jump right in like their quick tongue work is going to bring you to orgasm in the first 10 seconds, and they really go at it! I think some of the time, that's where the problem might lie!

They have to know, it's not going to happen in less than a minute, good things cum to those who wait
05/25/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
Good tips
05/25/2012
Badass Badass
"I like when you lick my cunt, but I LOVE when you lick my clitoris. Spend some effin time up there"
05/25/2012
El-Jaro El-Jaro
I happily take direction! I don't have one of those vagina-y things, so I have literally no idea how they work...and they all work different for different women.

Guy to girl training advice - Don't moan unless it feels good. If you have to, grab both sides of his head and move it to where you want it to be.
05/25/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
My Man and I have been together so long that we really know what the other person likes. We still try new things, though.

I've had other lovers who... don't really get it, though. It may have been unfamiliarity or something else.

I know if he's "missing the spot" where I want attention, I need to tilt my hips in a way so he'll be right there and sometimes, but not often, I'll give a direction like "faster" or "HERE!" Sometimes you want a certain thing, and other times other things.
05/25/2012
Peggi Peggi
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Originally posted by P'Gell
My Man and I have been together so long that we really know what the other person likes. We still try new things, though.

I've had other lovers who... don't really get it, though. It may have been unfamiliarity or something else. ...
I occasionally have to move him around that way as well, but only because sometimes I want more attention somewhere I usually don't. It's good that you and your guy have it down! Over time and with communication things only seem to improve and I'm glad that you're not among the women who have to do some serious training
05/26/2012
robertk2380 robertk2380
I've always appreciated when my wife has given me some direction; I certainly take it to heart. I know you can't rush things and I've learned that there are times when she wants more pressure in certain spots. I know now that there are times when I should't do anything but keep my tongue on a certain spot and let her do the moving. There is nothing like keeping her on right on the edge of orgasm, knowing that she's enjoying everything I do in the moment. Communication is so important, but then we've had years to practice.
05/26/2012
Iron Man Iron Man
To be honest, I really appreciate some good, hard clit-sucking. It feels great to me. I also like bites on my labia and tongue-penetration, or clit-sucking and 2-4 fingers in my cunt for g-spot stimulation at the same time.

Also, this is a personal beef, but don't think that your spit on your penis will be enough to lubricate yourself if I'm not even wet yet. All it's going to do is make me cranky.
05/26/2012
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