Guys, do you finish everytime you get oral or do you go to sex to finish?
Sometimes I finish with oral and sometimes it's a precursor to intercourse. There isn't a set menu with us. Sometimes we like to just give each other oral until we have both cum. Other times we use oral as foreplay and other times still we use oral to finish off after intercourse. It's great no matter when it happens though.
I've said this before, but I HATE the word "foreplay." We have oral sex, fondling, petting and kissing frequently during sexual activity. I also want to say that there is a hell of a lot more to "sex" than sticking a penis into a vagina. We've had "sex" without any PIV at all.
My Man and I mix it up a lot. He likes to have his orgasm from oral sex... or from PIV (although he pulls out, as that's what we use for BC) or from anal sex.... or from jerking while I help. There's no one way for us, and we are very flexible when it comes to his orgasm. He doesn't have a preference. It depends on what he wants during that session.
We change it up too, and when I'm giving oral, I really prefer to let him be in the driver's seat as far as when and where he finishes. I like for him to be able to decide if he'd like to orgasm from oral, or if he'd like to switch to PIV sex, or whatever. After all, when giving oral, it's all about the other person!