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Oh yes! The louder the better! Unless we need to be discreet for some reason... like a son who won't leave the house often enough.
Isn't it interesting how circumstance will change how much noise you make and then you can almost get "in the habit" of being quiet? I remember never making a peep growing up because I was masturbating or playing around at home, or a friend's home. Then I had close houses and lots of neighbors that could hear everything when I finally wasn't living with others. Now, however, I have my own home and plenty of privacy and I have turned into a sreaming mimi, lol! Well, not real screams, but I moan and make all kinds of noise. I used to be able to control it, but don't even bother and wouldn't you know it, now I have trouble being quiet! It's like there is no stuffing the genie back in the bottle, lol!
And I can totally relate to the sounds causing a climax, too! When I hear a particularly quiet partner making noise and then it escalates, I know he's beyond being able to stifle it and that sends me over every time! It's such a turn on when a partner loses control, especially when they are very in control most of the time! But I agree with Ron Lee, no matter who my partner is, complete silence reads as indifference to me on some level. And it's especially true for going down on a person because it's so hard to read them with no sounds.