How many people use dildos on their partner at the same as giving clitoral pressure orally?

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How many people use dildos on their partner at the same as giving clitoral pressure orally?

sandblastedskin sandblastedskin
She usually likes it better if I use my fingers or a G spot vibe while I'm going down on her.. once and awhile she just wants straight up oral though.
07/17/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
I've tried it, it was a bit challenging, but it worked.
07/17/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
We do this all the time!!! We love it!
07/17/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
P'Gell - thanks for the advice. I think my biggest hurdle is getting her to agree to experimenting with anal stimulation. The up-front orgasm is a great idea - it's the beginning for most all experimenting we do. I'll definitely try your ...
Your description of oral with the dil or phallic vibe and then finishing her off with a clit vibe is like you were looking right into our bedroom, or you and your wife are our Doppelgangers. That's nearly exactly what we do, only we use the Fun Factory Boss Lady Vibe and the Wahl for a few minutes of clit stim so I can come after the oral.

I have realized that once we get the Wahl going we have to shut the vibrator on the Boss Lady off (or he just uses his hand instead of a dil) or I get too stimulated and it takes forever for me to come.

He surprised me this morning and stuck in a Crystal Cote butt plug in addition to above and I didn't even realize it (though it was his finger) until I reached back there. (I was kinda like "WTF is that?" hahaa) Amazing.....*sigh*
07/17/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Your description of oral with the dil or phallic vibe and then finishing her off with a clit vibe is like you were looking right into our bedroom, or you and your wife are our Doppelgangers. That's nearly exactly what we do, only we use the Fun ...
P'Gell - agreed - I really relate to your posts as well. We don't have the Crystal Cote butt-plug but we do have the 7" dildo - in fact we used it to great effect last night! The 5" Crystal Cote EF sells is too small - we have it but never use it.
07/17/2010
Lustful Dreams Lustful Dreams
Voted for him...
07/26/2010
MEL MEL
I have got to try that. Sound fun.
07/30/2010
Polyserena Polyserena
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
I really want to try this and have thought about it a lot, but I haven't done it yet, so didn't vote.
09/20/2010
Polyserena Polyserena
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
double post sorry.
09/20/2010
iceman681 iceman681
when i can get away with it
09/28/2010
Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
Sometimes, not all the a times.
10/08/2010
GDDYUP GDDYUP
Another fun thing to do is to press the vibrator against the bottom or just under your tongue as you're playing around by her clitoris. My wife gets all charged up when I add that little tidbit in.
10/08/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i love it! never fails
10/09/2010
trios trios
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Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
i love it! never fails
yes, with the right dildo my wife orgasms the strongest she ever has. May try a vibrator soon!
10/20/2010
kitti kitti
i love clitoral stimulation with tongue or vibrator or any other device .. and hydro-massage as well are fantastic for my clit orgasm..
11/11/2010
Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
Never have.
11/16/2010
TexasFire TexasFire
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
The idea of my wife using a dildo is a real turn-on. However, dildos completely repulse her. It would never happen.
11/16/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasFire
The idea of my wife using a dildo is a real turn-on. However, dildos completely repulse her. It would never happen.
That's what I used to say......things can change.



Really, I used to be oddly turned on and fascinated by, and also "repulsed" by the idea of using sex toys. My Man took the lead and bought one. I threw it at him and told him to "get your mind out of the gutter" (that was a long time ago) and told him I "only" liked skin.

A few days later, I was having a hard time with orgasm and I knew that thing was in his drawer. So, I said, "What the hell, get that thing, and let's see what happens. But, you have to stop if I tell you to."

Years later....here I am. My Man says, "I've created a Monster." LOL! I don't know why we didn't use them sooner.

Sometimes a toy that doesn't "look like a sex toy" can be a stepping stone to good toy use. (PLUG WARNING) EdenCafe has a new article (written by me and edited wonderful photos of the toys added by Carrie Ann) on "Beginner's Sex Toys." You may want to pursue the toys that look less like "dildos" and see what works with her.
11/16/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
That's what I used to say......things can change.



Really, I used to be oddly turned on and fascinated by, and also "repulsed" by the idea of using sex toys. My Man took the lead and bought one. I threw it at him and ...
Agree - my wife would never have considered a dildo - or even a penetrative vibe.

The good old fashioned clit vibe is the 'gateway' toy. Once you get that working, you just keep upping the ante - before long you're having toooooo much fun!
11/16/2010
Brand Brand
You really want to see a powerful orgasm put a vibrator in both holes while sucking on her clit. Drives my girl crazy to no end.
11/16/2010
Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
Umm no... But I really wish my man would! However he's got a sex toy phobia, it seems. Cheers to all of you that do do it!
11/16/2010
Danielle915 Danielle915
Sometimes...I wish he would do it more often though.
11/28/2010
trios trios
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Originally posted by Danielle915
Sometimes...I wish he would do it more often though.
Tell him! Tell him by your response to it. That's what got me into this whole mess!
11/28/2010
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
My husband does this quite often. I love it.
11/29/2010
socceras socceras
i love it. only done it once tho
11/29/2010
darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
occasionally this comes up!
12/06/2010
jcprice02 jcprice02
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
we've done it a few times. My wife isn't too in to it.
04/26/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Ooho fun idea
04/26/2011
noas55 noas55
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
One of my favorite things to do to my wife.
04/26/2011
tim1724 tim1724
I usually just use a few fingers when going down on my girlfriend, but on occasion I use the njoy Pure Wand instead of fingers.
04/26/2011
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