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The idea of my wife using a dildo is a real turn-on. However, dildos completely repulse her. It would never happen.
That's what I used to say......things can change.
Really, I used to be oddly turned on and fascinated by, and also "repulsed" by the idea of using sex toys. My Man took the lead and bought one. I threw it at him and told him to "get your mind out of the gutter" (that was a long time ago) and told him I "only" liked skin.
A few days later, I was having a hard time with orgasm and I knew that thing
was in his drawer. So, I said, "What the hell, get that thing, and let's see what happens. But, you have to stop if I tell you to."
Years later....here I am. My Man says, "I've created a Monster." LOL!
I don't know why we didn't use them sooner.
Sometimes a toy that doesn't "look like a sex toy" can be a stepping stone to good toy use. (PLUG WARNING) EdenCafe has a new article (written by me and edited wonderful photos of the toys added by Carrie Ann) on "Beginner's Sex Toys." You may want to pursue the toys that look less like "dildos" and see what works with her.