She usually likes it better if I use my fingers or a G spot vibe while I'm going down on her.. once and awhile she just wants straight up oral though.
How many people use dildos on their partner at the same as giving clitoral pressure orally?
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Your description of oral with the dil or phallic vibe and then finishing her off with a clit vibe is like you were looking right into our bedroom, or you and your wife are our Doppelgangers. That's nearly exactly what we do, only we use the Fun Factory Boss Lady Vibe and the Wahl for a few minutes of clit stim so I can come after the oral.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
P'Gell - thanks for the advice. I think my biggest hurdle is getting her to agree to experimenting with anal stimulation. The up-front orgasm is a great idea - it's the beginning for most all experimenting we do. I'll definitely try your suggestion.
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P'Gell - thanks for the advice. I think my biggest hurdle is getting her to agree to experimenting with anal stimulation. The up-front orgasm is a great idea - it's the beginning for most all experimenting we do. I'll definitely try your suggestion.
I have realized that once we get the Wahl going we have to shut the vibrator on the Boss Lady off (or he just uses his hand instead of a dil) or I get too stimulated and it takes forever for me to come.
He surprised me this morning and stuck in a Crystal Cote butt plug in addition to above and I didn't even realize it (though it was his finger) until I reached back there. (I was kinda like "WTF is that?" hahaa) Amazing.....*sigh*
07/17/2010
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P'Gell - agreed - I really relate to your posts as well. We don't have the Crystal Cote butt-plug but we do have the 7" dildo - in fact we used it to great effect last night! The 5" Crystal Cote EF sells is too small - we have it but never use it.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
Your description of oral with the dil or phallic vibe and then finishing her off with a clit vibe is like you were looking right into our bedroom, or you and your wife are our Doppelgangers. That's nearly exactly what we do, only we use the Fun
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Your description of oral with the dil or phallic vibe and then finishing her off with a clit vibe is like you were looking right into our bedroom, or you and your wife are our Doppelgangers. That's nearly exactly what we do, only we use the Fun Factory Boss Lady Vibe and the Wahl for a few minutes of clit stim so I can come after the oral.
I have realized that once we get the Wahl going we have to shut the vibrator on the Boss Lady off (or he just uses his hand instead of a dil) or I get too stimulated and it takes forever for me to come.
He surprised me this morning and stuck in a Crystal Cote butt plug in addition to above and I didn't even realize it (though it was his finger) until I reached back there. (I was kinda like "WTF is that?" hahaa) Amazing.....*sigh*
I have realized that once we get the Wahl going we have to shut the vibrator on the Boss Lady off (or he just uses his hand instead of a dil) or I get too stimulated and it takes forever for me to come.
He surprised me this morning and stuck in a Crystal Cote butt plug in addition to above and I didn't even realize it (though it was his finger) until I reached back there. (I was kinda like "WTF is that?" hahaa) Amazing.....*sigh*
07/17/2010
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I really want to try this and have thought about it a lot, but I haven't done it yet, so didn't vote.
Originally posted by
trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
09/20/2010
GDDYUP
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The idea of my wife using a dildo is a real turn-on. However, dildos completely repulse her. It would never happen.
Originally posted by
trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
11/16/2010
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That's what I used to say......things can change.
Originally posted by
TexasFire
The idea of my wife using a dildo is a real turn-on. However, dildos completely repulse her. It would never happen.
Really, I used to be oddly turned on and fascinated by, and also "repulsed" by the idea of using sex toys. My Man took the lead and bought one. I threw it at him and told him to "get your mind out of the gutter" (that was a long time ago) and told him I "only" liked skin.
A few days later, I was having a hard time with orgasm and I knew that thing was in his drawer. So, I said, "What the hell, get that thing, and let's see what happens. But, you have to stop if I tell you to."
Years later....here I am. My Man says, "I've created a Monster." LOL! I don't know why we didn't use them sooner.
Sometimes a toy that doesn't "look like a sex toy" can be a stepping stone to good toy use. (PLUG WARNING) EdenCafe has a new article (written by me and edited wonderful photos of the toys added by Carrie Ann) on "Beginner's Sex Toys." You may want to pursue the toys that look less like "dildos" and see what works with her.
11/16/2010
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Agree - my wife would never have considered a dildo - or even a penetrative vibe.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
That's what I used to say......things can change.
Really, I used to be oddly turned on and fascinated by, and also "repulsed" by the idea of using sex toys. My Man took the lead and bought one. I threw it at him and told him to "get ...
Really, I used to be oddly turned on and fascinated by, and also "repulsed" by the idea of using sex toys. My Man took the lead and bought one. I threw it at him and told him to "get ...
That's what I used to say......things can change.
Really, I used to be oddly turned on and fascinated by, and also "repulsed" by the idea of using sex toys. My Man took the lead and bought one. I threw it at him and told him to "get your mind out of the gutter" (that was a long time ago) and told him I "only" liked skin.
A few days later, I was having a hard time with orgasm and I knew that thing was in his drawer. So, I said, "What the hell, get that thing, and let's see what happens. But, you have to stop if I tell you to."
Years later....here I am. My Man says, "I've created a Monster." LOL! I don't know why we didn't use them sooner.
Sometimes a toy that doesn't "look like a sex toy" can be a stepping stone to good toy use. (PLUG WARNING) EdenCafe has a new article (written by me and edited wonderful photos of the toys added by Carrie Ann) on "Beginner's Sex Toys." You may want to pursue the toys that look less like "dildos" and see what works with her.
Really, I used to be oddly turned on and fascinated by, and also "repulsed" by the idea of using sex toys. My Man took the lead and bought one. I threw it at him and told him to "get your mind out of the gutter" (that was a long time ago) and told him I "only" liked skin.
A few days later, I was having a hard time with orgasm and I knew that thing was in his drawer. So, I said, "What the hell, get that thing, and let's see what happens. But, you have to stop if I tell you to."
Years later....here I am. My Man says, "I've created a Monster." LOL! I don't know why we didn't use them sooner.
Sometimes a toy that doesn't "look like a sex toy" can be a stepping stone to good toy use. (PLUG WARNING) EdenCafe has a new article (written by me and edited wonderful photos of the toys added by Carrie Ann) on "Beginner's Sex Toys." You may want to pursue the toys that look less like "dildos" and see what works with her.
The good old fashioned clit vibe is the 'gateway' toy. Once you get that working, you just keep upping the ante - before long you're having toooooo much fun!
11/16/2010
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we've done it a few times. My wife isn't too in to it.
Originally posted by
trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
04/26/2011
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One of my favorite things to do to my wife.
Originally posted by
trios
I just starting using dildos with my wife and she seems to have stronger orgasms when I lick her clitoris and give tongue pressure. Didn't know how common this was out there. I do this as a MFM threesome fetish.
04/26/2011
I usually just use a few fingers when going down on my girlfriend, but on occasion I use the njoy Pure Wand instead of fingers.
04/26/2011