how often do you find yourself craving to cuddle after or before sex with your Significant Other who doesn't always want to cuddle?

mama2007 mama2007
cuddling
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
a lot
Gunsmoke , P'Gell , PiratePrincess , liilii080 , sexygoddess , kutekatie , jnd091020 , hotcoktail , aliceinthehole , Pixel , Miss Voluptuous , sbon , potstickers , CadmiumKitty , Life's Little Secrets
15
not often enough
giggles26
1
occassionally
Waterfall , kelaaa33wish , Yoda , Kdlips , tigerkate , married with children , lick123 , ToyTimeTim , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Brandi Rouxxx , Howells , zracer , MaryExy , The Curious Couple , pinkcupcakes , darthkitt3n , Gettinmymojoback , (k)InkyIvy , winterseve , submarinerswife81
20
Total votes: 36 (36 voters)
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04/14/2011
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife is a self-described 'non-cuddler'. However after particularly intense sexual encounter she will want to cuddle. I've gotten use to it - it's become kind of reward for a job well done!
04/14/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I love to cuddle. I'm always sitting on him, brushing up against him, touching him, pinching him etc.

The other night we "kind" of had sex, I knew he wasn't going to finish, (he was tired and had had a little too much to drink) so I just kinda played, without it getting too hot and heavy and we spent most of the night cuddling. It was sweet.

I NEED a lot of physical contact, or I go crazy.
04/14/2011
indiglo indiglo
I love to cuddle... doesn't even need to be before or after sex. I just love cuddling. Fortunately for me, my man is a cuddler too. It's really bonding, and just feels good.
04/14/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I love to cuddle at any point of the day. I do like to cuddle after sex especially. It makes it feel like a more intimate ending.
04/14/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
I love to cuddle, and luckily my boyfriend does too. We always cuddle after sex, and throughout the day.
04/14/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I love to cuddle, and so does my husband. So it works out nicely
04/14/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I love to cuddle but my man isn't really the type. He usually lets me get my fill weekend mornings and other days and night I cut myself off before 5 minutes. I hate when he has a bad day but sometimes those nights he'll come home and want to hug on me and I love that.
04/14/2011
Kdlips Kdlips
not too much im not a cuddler
04/14/2011
sexygoddess sexygoddess
I love cuddles. I'm addicted to them..
04/15/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
I like cuddling, and so does my partner... but sometimes, he gets all crabby about it being too hot to cuddle or how he's trying to read something and I'm bugging him over it I do whine sometimes for cuddles, though, in all fairness...
04/15/2011
married with children married with children
I enjoy a good spooning after sex to fall alseep. But my wife does not. She thinks that my body heat is too hot for her.
04/15/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
I enjoy a good spooning after sex to fall alseep. But my wife does not. She thinks that my body heat is too hot for her.
i do too; but hubby doesn't idk why but yeah he almost always falls asleep after but i end up still cuddling lol whether hes asleep or not
04/15/2011
lick123 lick123
i like to cuddle afterwards, even if it was only me giving a blowjob and not full on sex. i don't know why.
04/15/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by lick123
i like to cuddle afterwards, even if it was only me giving a blowjob and not full on sex. i don't know why.
yeah maybe he would if he didnt work overtime so much
04/16/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
We make cuddling a part of our sex. No matter how rough or how quick, we always cuddle in some way shape or form after sex.
04/16/2011
hotcoktail hotcoktail
too much
04/17/2011
liilii080 liilii080
Quote:
Originally posted by tigerkate
I like cuddling, and so does my partner... but sometimes, he gets all crabby about it being too hot to cuddle or how he's trying to read something and I'm bugging him over it I do whine sometimes for cuddles, though, in all fairness...
Yup! I get the too hot thing too. He says he can't believe I am cold all the time because I am a "heat machine."
04/17/2011
Howells Howells
We both cuddle, always. It's just common sense to us No better, really.
04/18/2011
purplekidney purplekidney
She: We're both cuddle whores. We cuddle until he overheats and shoves me away, but I roll back to leech heat.

He: She's soft
04/22/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by mama2007
cuddling
Both of my guys are cuddle muffins and seem to prefer me wrapping myself around them...I tend to be the touch me not of the group.
04/23/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife is a self-described 'non-cuddler'. However after particularly intense sexual encounter she will want to cuddle. I've gotten use to it - it's become kind of reward for a job well done!
It's a nice way of knowing that the fireworks were appreciated, isn't it? Sounds like a perfectly lovely way to end great sex.
04/23/2011
Illusional Illusional
After sex, he relaxes and cools off and then we cuddle some.

If we're just cuddling, he'll cuddle me... maybe rub my shoulders... kiss me or something. Man... it makes me wish I was cuddling with him
04/23/2011
Illusional Illusional
Also, I'm usually quite cold and he's always warm. But when we first started dating, I wasn't much into cuddling, but now I can't deny how much I like it.
04/23/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
It's a nice way of knowing that the fireworks were appreciated, isn't it? Sounds like a perfectly lovely way to end great sex.
Arien - you're right - and I do appreciate it. As a single guy I never imagined it - but I'm hopelessly in love!
04/23/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I both love to cuddle, so I would have voted "never" if there was an option.
04/24/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
i ALWAYS want to cuddle after sex, but he NEVER wants to. it's 'too hot' or 'too uncomfy' or he just wants to sleep.

sigh.

compromises are abound when opposites attract.

07/13/2011
Pixel Pixel
I love cuddling after sex, and Master is usually very obliging. We're both very touch oriented people who don't get a lot of physical contact with others when we're apart, so getting a fix for our skin-hunger is something we both look forward to in our encounters.
07/13/2011
sbon sbon
We love cuddling and do so all the time regardless of whether or not we have sex.
07/21/2011
CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
love it
07/25/2012
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