How to avoid gagging/jaw ache when giving a blow job?

Contributor: hybridinsurge hybridinsurge
I am still kind of a newb when it comes to going down on my man. I have always had trouble with my gag reflex and keeping my mouth open for a long period of time. Every dentist I've seen has complained about it. When I got fitted for a plastic retainer, the tech had to use the child-sized mold because the adult mold wouldn't fit in my mouth! Sometimes I gag while brushing my teeth. I'm hopeless.

Anyway, I am wondering how those more proficient in performing oral sex on men manage it. Do you supplement lack of constant penis-in-mouth action with licking and kissing the shaft or with hand jobs? If you are able to deep throat the penis, how do you do it? Does the difficulty in giving a blow job just go away with practice?

Thanks for taking the time to read and reply!
07/02/2012
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Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I have TMJ so I have issues. My guy seems to take the LONGEST to get off on oral so he doesn't always get his release that way but a combination of sex and oral.

I've been told to focus on the tip, lick there and the shaft, kiss his stomach, inner thighs while using your hand. Use your hand and suck on one of his fingers. Use your hand AND mouth.

I just bought some throat spray for oral but I don't know how well that will work for my gag reflex.

I'm just glad I have an understanding guy that knows my jaw starts to get sore or feel like it's locking up so he doesn't expect to finish that way. It is nothing to feel bad about! I'm sure your guy will understand if you don't finish him that way, I mean I doubt you'll find one that complains about getting oral and finishing with sex. It's SEX either way, he gets what he likes and he is happy!
07/03/2012
Contributor: hybridinsurge hybridinsurge
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Originally posted by Zombirella
I have TMJ so I have issues. My guy seems to take the LONGEST to get off on oral so he doesn't always get his release that way but a combination of sex and oral.

I've been told to focus on the tip, lick there and the shaft, kiss his ... more
Thanks very much! This is helpful. It's also good to know that this is not an issue only I have.
07/03/2012