They will still give it, they just don't want any reciprocation.
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How would you react if your partner decided he/she never wanted to receive oral?
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I wouldn't care. There are many other ways to be satisfied
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so very true
Originally posted by
onehotmomma
I wouldn't care. There are many other ways to be satisfied
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I would hate it as I love doing that both for his pleasure and just because I like doing it.
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I would be more upset about having to stop going down on my partner than I would be if they stopped giving blow jobs.
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The first thing I would wonder about is why they decided this all of a sudden.
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Eh, I'm not sure. I'd probably be concerned, because my boyfriend LOVES receiving oral. Unfortunately I'm the one who doesn't like receiving, and he loves giving so I just kinda do it for him sometimes XD
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I would probably be a little upset because I just loving doing it to my wife, but at the same time, it would probably allow me to use more toys on her, so not a horrible situation.
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Same here, after 20 some odd years of enjoying it so much, I would have to wonder why the change.
Originally posted by
Waterfall
The first thing I would wonder about is why they decided this all of a sudden.
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It doesn't bother us one way or another.
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Oral is more intimate than straight up sex to me. It would be a big deal.
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I enjoy giving/recieving oral, but especially giving. If he didn't want it anymore I'd be kind of sad, but as previously mentioned, there are plenty other ways to have fun!
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I'm not going to lie, I would be hurt. I would ask questions concerning my technique, if I did something wrong the last time and now he's gunshy or whatever else may personally apply in the situation. He's never really been a huge fan of it but he lets me do it as much as I want. He'd rather penetrate me or a toy than get oral. Or so he claims.
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Of course, it is a strange day when men start turning down oral... but I think I could live with his decision.
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I do like going down on her, but if she said she didn't like it...
We're committed, and so I'd respect her views and get on with other things.
We're committed, and so I'd respect her views and get on with other things.
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I stopped liking it when I was pregnant and didn't want it for a long time. (as in, my eldest just turned 5 this past summer and I'm just getting to the point where I enjoy it again)
Originally posted by
Waterfall
The first thing I would wonder about is why they decided this all of a sudden.
There were lots of reasons, but mostly after having daughters I had to come to grips with a lot in my past and I was pretty introverted, sexually, for quite some time. My Mister was pretty disappointed but respected my wishes. NOW? He's quite delighted that I'm back on the other side of that hurdle.
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That's how I feel. Oral does nothing for me, I'm not a fan of getting it at all. I love to give it though, but only if my bf goes the extra mile and makes sure he tastes sweet. He has a poor diet and so he can taste kinda bad at times.
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I've already been through this - more or less - with both mouth-to-breast and cunnilingus. For a while it all my wife wanted was a clit orgasm and done. But with some maturation on her part and persistence on my part we've gotten over both hurdles. She's not going to orgasm from either - but she enjoys them both as a normal part of foreplay. I'm quite pleased with the outcome.
When you're in a life long committed relationship both sides have to be willing to make adjustments - enough said!
When you're in a life long committed relationship both sides have to be willing to make adjustments - enough said!
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dont see this ever happening in our relationship
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Thats fine with me...there are lots of ways to have fun.
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I think I would be bummed but it would not kill our sex life.
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I would be very surprised if my guy decided he no longer wanted to receive oral because he loves it so much. I wouldn't get upset though, just be surprised and definitely ask why. I'd respect his wishes though so I feel like I could get past it.
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Before I actually did it, I was really nervous about giving my boyfriend a blowjob. Now there are days I can't get it out of my head. I think I would be pretty upset if he said he didn't want it anymore... I wouldn't break up with him or start cheating, but I would definitely try to change his mind.
Originally posted by
celibacysucks
They will still give it, they just don't want any reciprocation.
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I'd be pretty upset. I love giving oral, and it's one of the biggest turn-ons there is for me.
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Can't say I'd care too much either way.
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I'd be concerned about why they suddenly felt this way, more than about not being able to perform oral sex, but ultimately, unless there was a serious reason that needed to be addressed, it would have little affect on my sex life.
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I would worry that something was wrong with my partners if they suddenly decided they wouldn't enjoy a sex practice that they previously enjoyed or at least allowed. For my guys this would be a really strange thing as both of them really enjoy a blow job...and I would wonder what was going on to prompt the change! At the very least it would have to be discussed in some detail before I would be comfortable with a non-reciprocal arrangement.
Originally posted by
celibacysucks
They will still give it, they just don't want any reciprocation.
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I would also be most concerned about what caused this sudden change.
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If he didn't want it, wouldn't bother me. It's my goal to make him happy and if that didn't make him happy, no worries.
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