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The first thing I would wonder about is why they decided this all of a sudden.
I stopped liking it when I was pregnant and didn't want it for a long time. (as in, my eldest just turned 5 this past summer and I'm just getting to the point where I enjoy it again)
There were lots of reasons, but mostly after having daughters I had to come to grips with a lot in my past and I was pretty introverted, sexually, for quite some time. My Mister was pretty disappointed but respected my wishes. NOW? He's quite delighted that I'm back on the other side of that hurdle.