Is it just me or do women have less trouble doing down on men?

FreedominBondage FreedominBondage
My boyfriend seems to have issues going down on me for very long while I don't have any issues staying down on him. Is this a problem that a lot of couples encounter, or is this an isolated incident?
06/06/2013
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Pierced Blaqk Skies Pierced Blaqk Skies
I've been on both sides of oral sex with both men and women and I can easily say that it takes wayyyyy more effort going down on a woman (it's so tiring!) than it is to go down on a man. I can go down on a guy for what seems like forever. After like 10 minutes with a girl, my jaw is killing me.

My bf for some reason can go forever though
06/06/2013
Zombirella Zombirella
It's just you. Try having TMJ and going down on a guy .
06/07/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
This has never been a problem - I actually prefer longer oral sex sessions than my wife does. But I can sympathize with your partner. When going down on my wife in the traditional way - I got a terribly sore neck.

We've solved the sore neck problem in two ways:
I'll raise her hips using the Liberator Wedge
I kneel beside the bed - moving her hips close to the edge
06/07/2013
Fluke Fluke
How long is very long? Are we talking 15 minutes or a full hour? I've never been asked to go for an hour, usually she gets off in about 5-10 minutes or it is not happening at all.
06/07/2013
bratcat bratcat
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Originally posted by Zombirella
It's just you. Try having TMJ and going down on a guy .
Oh Z, im glad i'm not the only one!
I know my partner ha said a few times their jew hurt or was cramping up while performing oral on me, but i can't think of a time i've ever performed oral on them without that happening.
Usually if my jaw starts to tighten i'll take a little break and use my hands instead until i'm ready again. It sucks sometimes because oral is a big part of our sex life and a way for us to warm up before actually having penetrative sex, and i do really enjoy teasing/pleasing my partner in this manner, but boy-oh-boy can it hurt sometimes.

I tend to take this to heart.
06/07/2013
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by FreedominBondage
My boyfriend seems to have issues going down on me for very long while I don't have any issues staying down on him. Is this a problem that a lot of couples encounter, or is this an isolated incident?
I guess it's different for everyone, but I know more guys who will not go down on a girl than I do girls who refuse to on men.
06/07/2013
twelve13 twelve13
I have gone down on both, and I also found it typically takes less effort to go down on a man.
06/07/2013
Eugler Eugler
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Originally posted by kendra30752
I guess it's different for everyone, but I know more guys who will not go down on a girl than I do girls who refuse to on men.
Really? What a bunch of heartless morons.

How could anyone not go down on a lady? How could anybody be so stuffy? My worldview is breaking into pieces.
06/07/2013
eri86 eri86
I can see why performing oral on a girl is trickier. You're down between the thighs with less room. And you're potentially buried nose deep in the crotch, not to mention trying to get to the internal bits with your tongue...

A guys 'bits' are at least all out in the open.
06/07/2013
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by FreedominBondage
My boyfriend seems to have issues going down on me for very long while I don't have any issues staying down on him. Is this a problem that a lot of couples encounter, or is this an isolated incident?
hubby doesn't have trouble going down on me
06/07/2013
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