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VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
OKAY, so I haven't broken my jaw giving my partner a blow job, but my jaw aches like there's no tomorrow! Is there any way to alleviate the ache in my jaw? I don't have TMJ so no worries there.

Also...any suggestions on quelling my gag reflex so I can take my partner deeper?
08/14/2009
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Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
It's been a long time since I was a newbie to BJs, so I can only give you a thought on the sore jaw thing. The jaw is run by muscles, so it stands to reason that the more you practice and stretch them the better it will get.

For the gag reflex; if you don't already, close your lips! If I hang my mouth open like a porn star, I'll gag every time, but if I work on getting the lips closed it works much better. This too will take a lot of practice if he's very well endowed, but doing it that way seems to let his prick press and glide more along the tongue instead of aiming straight for the gag trigger spot. Go slow, concentrate on relaxing, and experiment with adjusting your head to different angles so he goes down the throat easier.

You might want to consider practicing on a dildo when he's not around too, because that will take the pressure of wanting to hurry up and please him off your mind while you're figuring out what works best for you.

Hope that helps
Michele
08/16/2009
Liz2 Liz2
Position also helps, my favorite and most effective is me lying on my back with my head hanging over the side with b/f standing. This is an awesome angle. And yes, practice with a realistic dildo like a VixSkin (using the same position). If need be, you can fake how much you can take by having a well lubed hand and cupping his cock near the base as you take him off.
08/16/2009
Rockin' Rockin'
For taking a cock deeper: I've found that I've decreased my gag reflex, or at least moved "that spot" back further in my throat over time. I did this by brushing my tongue (while brushing my teeth) every time I brushed, always as far back as I can stand. If I gag a little over the sink, it's not a big deal. I get used to having a "foreign object" back there, and I get to see what spots trigger the reflex the most (all while getting a minty tongue and throat, lol). Give it a try for a few days or a week and see if it helps.

For the jaw aching: I think Michele has the right idea with the closed lips. You can also stretch your jaw more often if you want to be able to open your mouth more comfortably. Chewing gum more regularly might also work out your jaw muscles comfortably without causing pain, which could help your muscles get accustomed to more use.
08/16/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I have big teeth and a very small mouth, which makes dentistry and blowjobs difficult for me. Honestly, my respite is just to use my hands as an extension of my mouth more, and to make up for it with plenty of tongue and different techniques, like licking from balls to tip then kissing the tip, or playing with a guy's ass while I blow him.
08/16/2009
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Alan & Michele
It's been a long time since I was a newbie to BJs, so I can only give you a thought on the sore jaw thing. The jaw is run by muscles, so it stands to reason that the more you practice and stretch them the better it will get.

For the gag ...
I do close my mouth whenever I'm getting him off. He doesn't have me go down on him to get off, though. Just for extra foreplay before sex. All it does it tease him. I want to be a more effective teaser, though

I will try to focus more on my mouth, though, and go slower when I am using my mouth on him. Maybe that's what's wrong. We're both going at it all hot and heavy and not taking our time to enjoy it. Thanks!!
08/16/2009
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
Position also helps, my favorite and most effective is me lying on my back with my head hanging over the side with b/f standing. This is an awesome angle. And yes, practice with a realistic dildo like a VixSkin (using the same position). If need be, ...
I find that when he's lying down and I'm over him it's more stress on my jaw than anything. I'll try to hang my head over the bed, but I'm afraid of the blood rush to the head making me light headed. I don't want to pass out LOL.
08/16/2009
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Rockin'
For taking a cock deeper: I've found that I've decreased my gag reflex, or at least moved "that spot" back further in my throat over time. I did this by brushing my tongue (while brushing my teeth) every time I brushed, always as ...
I never thought of doing that with a tooth brush. I'll try your method I'm a singer, so my jaw opens quite a bit and I'm used to having to depress my soft pallet to get a better sound out. Maybe I should try that as well?

And chewing gum? Never thought to use that as a tool to stretch my jaw muscles. I'll definitely look into that as well Thanks!
08/16/2009
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
I have big teeth and a very small mouth, which makes dentistry and blowjobs difficult for me. Honestly, my respite is just to use my hands as an extension of my mouth more, and to make up for it with plenty of tongue and different techniques, like ...
I try those moves as well but he's not too big on ass play. I wouldn't go there anyway.
08/16/2009
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I do close my mouth whenever I'm getting him off. He doesn't have me go down on him to get off, though. Just for extra foreplay before sex. All it does it tease him. I want to be a more effective teaser, though

I will try to focus ...
Oh I meant it can help in taking him deeper, whether he gets off or not
08/16/2009
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Alan & Michele
Oh I meant it can help in taking him deeper, whether he gets off or not
Gotcha
08/16/2009
Nashville Nashville
I experience something similiar and actually posted about it here: link there might be some answers there that are helpful. /shrug
08/17/2009
Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I find that when he's lying down and I'm over him it's more stress on my jaw than anything. I'll try to hang my head over the bed, but I'm afraid of the blood rush to the head making me light headed. I don't want to pass out LOL.
I can't do anything with a BJ with him lying down other then some cursory attention to his cock.
Somehow with me lying down straight with my head over the side hasn't made me lightheaded and I can't take most amusement park rides.
Yes, go slow and enjoy the experience yourself....
08/17/2009
Raven Raven
What worked for me long ago was just to remember to breathe through my nose and try to relax my throat. Also finding a position that more closely matched the shape of the penis to the shape of my throat. When I first started doing them I think I was more afraid that I WOULD gag, even though I hadn't yet, and once I could get over that, I had no problem. And like Michele said, practicing on a dildo is a good idea.
08/17/2009
sbon sbon
Remembering to relax seems to help me with the aching problem. It'll definitely get better over time!
11/10/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
For the gagging, there is an oral spray called - Comfortably Numb Deep Throat Spray.
11/10/2010
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