Ladies, do you have to ask your man for oral, or does he just "go there"? If he just "goes there", does he ask "permission first"?

Bignuf Bignuf
Just wondering what the average "approach" involves with different couples. (sorry...question was hard to put into words for anyone other then male, female couples).
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, I have to ask him to go down there.
Sera26 , MrsHouseWife , bayosgirl , Kittybit , MsGoosie , Deeder , Britt93 , SneakersAndPearls
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No, I never have to ask him to perform oral on me.
Rossie , Kissy , xLovingYoux , brevado , Sammi , DomonCoshu , Gunsmoke , Martiniman , heather-mooney , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Bullfroggy and Rose , Thumper Logic , Missmarc , KinkyNicki92 , shcoo , RedKyuubi , indiglo , Ly-Ra , SecretToyMan
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Yes, he asks permission, or asks if I want him to go down there orally.
Ansley , Robespierrethecat , Danneh , DomonCoshu , mandiegk , heather-mooney , needapacker , Britt93 , No-nita , SecretToyMan
10
No discussion needed. He goes down there when he feels like it.
no longer here , angel42539 , molli316 , Kitka , luvslukin , shorejen9 , Harpina is gone , xLovingYoux , brevado , Mrs.Tee , Leather & Lace , solitudinarian , *Camoprincess* , Sammi , DomonCoshu , bayosgirl , sexytileena / absolutely love sex , Gunsmoke , AliMc , Martiniman , PropertyOfPotter , XxFallenAngelxX , nikki0668 , ellieprobable , SydVicious , libbyv , jr2012 , atryonix , Thumper Logic , KinkyNicki92 , Checkmate , RedKyuubi , Traxa , indiglo , Ly-Ra , Sunny Meadows , No-nita , skittles1605
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Other?
ginnyluvspotter , panthercat23 , Kindred , Rossie , deltalima , AmethystSmoke , RavenWings , - Kira - , XxXxX , KinkyNicki92
10
Total votes: 85 (66 voters)
Poll is closed
11/29/2012
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Ansley Ansley
I'm very finicky and I have to be in the right mood for it.
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ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
I asked and he wont
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angel42539 angel42539
he just goes when he wants
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Kitka Kitka
He just does it when he feels like doing it; I never have objections.
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panthercat23 panthercat23
Sometimes I ask him to go there but other times he goes there on his own.
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Kindred Kindred
I perform oral on my wife pretty much every time we have sex.
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Rossie Rossie
I never have to ask him, that's a part of our foreplay.
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luvslukin luvslukin
I'm a man, I just go there. No asking needed for either of us.
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Kissy Kissy
He wants to more than I want him to!
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shorejen9 shorejen9
He just goes for it whenever he wants which almost every time. I have no objections and he does not need to ask. He can do whatever he wants, I'm a happy wife!
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Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
My man starts by kissing his way down there, I guess that's his way of "asking", or maybe more like gauging whether or not I want him to continue by whether I stop him or not.
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Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
We don't really have to /discuss/ it, but there's usually some sort of 'is this okay?' exchange.
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brevado brevado
Couldn't ask for better!
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Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Just wondering what the average "approach" involves with different couples. (sorry...question was hard to put into words for anyone other then male, female couples).
no discussion is needed
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MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
I normally have to ask for my husband to go down on me, which is a problem as I hate asking
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Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I don't really like it so it doesn't matter!
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*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
My current partner LOVES going down on me!!! I never have to ask that is the first thing he wants to do when we crawl in bed after hugging an kissing. I have no objections to it either I LOVE it. I have had an ex where I have begged and played a sex game with him to try an get him to go down on me an he wouldn't but he would expect me to go down on him.
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deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Just wondering what the average "approach" involves with different couples. (sorry...question was hard to put into words for anyone other then male, female couples).
I don't ask.
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Danneh Danneh
He asks- just because I'm odd about receiving pleasure sometimes.
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DomonCoshu DomonCoshu
Kinda of a variety sometimes I ask sometimes I don't
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AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Other - the closest response would be a combo of all four choices.

I don't have to ask for oral because he goes down there when he feels like it but usually either asks if I want him to go down on me or tells me he's going to do it.

While I don't have to ask for oral, I do point out from time to time that he doesn't do it as often as he seems to think he does.
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RavenWings RavenWings
I'm not really into reciveing oral.
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bayosgirl bayosgirl
I either ask, or he does it on his own. He never asks permission.
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sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
No discussion needed. He goes down there when he feels like it.
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystSmoke
Other - the closest response would be a combo of all four choices.

I don't have to ask for oral because he goes down there when he feels like it but usually either asks if I want him to go down on me or tells me he's going to do ... More
Wow - that's complicated! I say get with it Dude - go down!
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Martiniman Martiniman
I've never asked permission. I think that would ruin the mood and be very odd.
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PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystSmoke
Other - the closest response would be a combo of all four choices.

I don't have to ask for oral because he goes down there when he feels like it but usually either asks if I want him to go down on me or tells me he's going to do ... More
^This exactly!
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ellieprobable ellieprobable
He just goes for it. I tell him if I'm not feeling it at the moment.
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heather-mooney heather-mooney
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Just wondering what the average "approach" involves with different couples. (sorry...question was hard to put into words for anyone other then male, female couples).
My ex boyfriend knew that I was very particular about consent, and always asked, or at least made sure I was very enthusiastic about it.
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