Ladies: Do you orgasm through cunnilingus?

Naughty Student Naughty Student
I've searched the forum high and low and could not find a poll like the one I am about to make.

Basically, I'm curious to know how many ladies out there can orgasm through cunnilingus. I wonder because I have yet been able to do so and wish I could.

So How many of you do orgasm this way, how long does it take and do you only need licks or do you need a toy too?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
No, I haven't yet
66
Yes, I orgasm very easily and quickly this way
47
Yes, it takes a few minutes but my partner can get me there
109
Yes, but my partner has to spend atleast 20 minutes doing the same type of stimulation
43
I came close once but didn't quite get it
21
My partner isn't patient enough to get me there
18
I don't particularly enjoy oral so it doesn't matter to me
22
OTHER!
31
Total votes: 357 (292 voters)
Poll is closed
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Howells Howells
Interesting poll, waiting for more results. Sometimes I wonder... Mostly I can make her come with an enormous smile afterwards for half an hour, but what about the others?
05/07/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I can get the wife off in about 15-20 minutes. I use a combination of licking/sucking on her clit and some tongue fucking. A toy can certainly help but I find it kind of gets in the way so I mostly use my fingers to massage her G-spot. Communication and reading her body reactions is key to my success.

I will say that it took some time to get her to this point, the first time it took 45 minutes to an hour. The bottom of my tongue was very sore the next day. lol
05/07/2011
Liz2 Liz2
Interesting; my guy has mentioned in the past that he was on the verge of "lockjaw" trying to bring me to orgasm by cunnilingus. He would then switch to his finger, Enter my toys....says much easier. Not complaining as oral is almost always part of our play with toys of course.
05/07/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
To be honest this is the one area Hubby really needs lessons on. He's alright and sometimes he can bring me orgasm but it's usually when I'm already stimulated. More often then not he gets fussy and I'm the one who looses patience because he's usually so close when he stops.
05/07/2011
daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I've searched the forum high and low and could not find a poll like the one I am about to make.

Basically, I'm curious to know how many ladies out there can orgasm through cunnilingus. I wonder because I have yet been able to do so and ... More
Depending on the day it can take up to 20 min, but I LOVE it and so does he, so it doesn't matter. I usually need some g spot action as well by fingers or a toy, plus he has to find that sweet spot to make me actually come. It takes patience, but it's totally worth it. I've also found that being very vocal and specific about what works for me is super helpful. I think this is something you can find out in your own masturbation sessions (what feels good/what really works for you) and then he can translate that into what he does with his tongue, ie. fast/slow, pressure, speed, etc. I hope it works that you find a partner to explore this with. It can be SO awesome.
05/07/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
I have never actually had an orgasm from cunnilingus. My bf's mouth starts to get tired after about 15 minutes and he will switch to using his fingers. I'm not sure if I could finish just from a tongue, and it would take a long time. Fingers work better for me since I need pressure.
05/07/2011
Maeby Maeby
I never realized how lucky I am...my husband is very talented in this area. He uses his fingers in combination with his mouth, and while some days it does take a little longer, he is always patient and eager
05/07/2011
AOutrajus AOutrajus
its never happened for me either
05/07/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
It takes me a few minutes to get there (5 minutes on some days, up to 20 minutes or so on others), but I can always come from oral. My husband is also very patient, so he'll keep going until I finish even if it takes a little longer.
05/07/2011
bunny love bunny love
Cunnilingus + G-spot toy = WIN!

Cunnilingus alone doesn't do a whole lot of me. It's not bad alone. It's just way better with toys, fingering, etc.
05/07/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife has had orgasms from oral - but not for a long time. Not sure if it's age or what - but since she started shaving, she's more sensitive and enjoys oral more. Today its just favored part of foreplay.
05/07/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
Sometimes he isnt doing a good job, other times I jus dont want it but on occasion he can give me a good one.
05/07/2011
Kdlips Kdlips
yes but it takes like 10 minutes
05/07/2011
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
I want to but it never feels like i imagine it'd feel like. feels too rough and hurts
05/07/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I've never been able to orgasm that way. However, my best friend told me that is the only way she has ever been able to orgasm with a partner. I've never experienced that myself.
05/07/2011
zeebot zeebot
I never have but I'd like to!
05/08/2011
socceras socceras
never. i hate it
05/08/2011
Sammi Sammi
It's probably my favorite way to orgasm . It can take me over 20 minutes, but that's about the same as with most toys I use, and my partner loves to do it so it's all good. We don't use toys when he does it, although he'll use fingers on occasion.
05/08/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
always. and in about 15-20.
05/08/2011
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Well I am glad to see that I am not the only one who can't get off from this. It takes 45 min to an hour just for me to get to enjoying it. I think my clit is spoiled from years of "abuse"

Anyways, I still really enjoy it no matter how stubborn the clit it.

Oh and I am jealous of you gals who can get off! *Cough* person above me *Cough*

LOL
05/08/2011
toxie m toxie m
It's rare, and it takes for freakin' ever. 45 minutes, maybe. But when he does succeed.. oh yes. Things are very good then.
05/08/2011
sassyNsensual sassyNsensual
it usually takes me forever to get there.....but he always makes sure that i do!!! thats his favorite way to get me off
05/08/2011
Loveless Loveless
Happens for me. Happens quickly if he's somewhat rough.

Also, is it just me, or are orgasms through oral sex always extremely intense?
05/08/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I can get the wife off in about 15-20 minutes. I use a combination of licking/sucking on her clit and some tongue fucking. A toy can certainly help but I find it kind of gets in the way so I mostly use my fingers to massage her G-spot. Communication ... More
When you stimulate her g-spot are you able to lick at the same time or is it your tongues break time?
05/09/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
OMG, I am so glad I am not alone in this, lol.

I have yet to orgasm this way, I feel so guilty when he stimulates me i nthis way, I feel like he gets bored and that it'll never happen so it's a waste of energy.

I think that next time we get down and dirty I will try to not feel guilty and have him dedicate the night to pleasing me and making sure I come. I do it for him all the time. I have been very dedicated to him and will work really hard to make him come. Especially since his leg hurts and I have to do all the work bumping and grinding on him...not that I mind .

Thanks to everyone who has responded, I am getting some cool info here to help me out. I'm pretty happy.
05/09/2011
Rossie Rossie
I love my husband's licking, but I do need additional stimulation to achieve orgasm.
05/09/2011
ladiewithswagg1 ladiewithswagg1
yes
05/09/2011
barbbe barbbe
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I've searched the forum high and low and could not find a poll like the one I am about to make.

Basically, I'm curious to know how many ladies out there can orgasm through cunnilingus. I wonder because I have yet been able to do so and ... More
Yes I do, love coming this way, but sometimes might take me longer.. He has to really be good at it to get me off. But I love being licked and sucked on.. but I do usually come this way. Sometimes need additional stimulation..
05/09/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
I also got lucky with my partner. He was the first one to ever do that on me really. I had an ex who I was with for years & he didn't actualy perform oral sex, but licked a little & had no clue so he stopped. Lol

My partner insists on doing it for me all the time! I do orgasm every single time & usually more than once. I don't think I've ever NOT at least 3 times in one "session."

He's really good at that & he's really good at knowing exactly the pace and everything that I'm wanting & it does change, but somehow he catches on quickly. I'm not a person who speaks up or asks for favors so I honestly have no clue how he knows how I'm going to like it every time. I tell him my favorites and how I like it, but I never have had to tell him to do it differently.

If I'm reallly stressed & having a hard time getting things off my mind so I can relax then it can sometimes take up to 30 minutes if distractions are involved too. Usually it takes less than 20 and then after that he insists on keeping going and I usually orgasm multiple times. I don't think I've ever had only one.

It's my favorite thing ever! & I usually prefer do it with no penetration because that way I get extremely turned on then am dying to have sex. I like for it to build up and then use toys, his finger, sex, etc. Or all! But, I have no problem getting there with only licking. Sometimes, just him rubbing his hand across my crotch soft and over and over will do it for me!

Lucky!
05/10/2011
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