Ladies: What can I guy do to improve his oral giving?

dancingduo dancingduo
Perhaps I am uneducated on the subject...but, I feel that the simple notion of "go down and go to town" maybe a misnomer.

So!...Ladies, what can a guy do to really improve his technique in order to make receiving oral sex more enjoyable for women?

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12/01/2012
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charletnarouh charletnarouh
Quote:
Originally posted by dancingduo
Perhaps I am uneducated on the subject...but, I feel that the simple notion of "go down and go to town" maybe a misnomer.

So!...Ladies, what can a guy do to really improve his technique in order to make receiving oral sex more ... More
-COMMUNICATE and encourage her to do the same. Ask for feedback and listen to it. Ask her what kind of strokes and what type of pressure she prefers.
-Every woman is different. Being really good with one will not make you really good for the next. What works for one, might not work with the next.
-Watching her masturbate, if she's willing, may give you clues to what she likes.
-Pay attention to her reactions when you're down there. If she's going wild when you're doing something, probably a good sign that move is a keeper. If she's pushing you away or squirming away from you, that move is probably too intense. If she's not reacting much, probably time to change it up.
-There's really no rules or guidelines, no real tricks because every woman is different.

Bottom line, you gotta ask the woman you're going down on.
12/02/2012
loveme loveme
The best thing you can do is watch lesbian porn. Pay very close attention. And TAKE NOTES! Some girls don't know what they are doing. But some really are pros. here are a couple that really know exactly what they are doing, I can tell they do an amazing job. You can really learn alot from them. The best, I'd say is Molly Cavalli. Second is Nina Hartley. Hope this helps.
12/02/2012
butts butts
The main thing I notice that is BAD for me (as a female) is when he goes for the clit too fast. Especially because mine is extra sensitive right now (because of hormone treatments), just going right for it is almost painful, it needs a lot of "romancing" before it's ok to start playing with. Just as bad, no lube/wetness. Rubbing my junk dry, especially the clit, is very uncomfortable and a turn-off. Use lube, use your hands to help, and go slow at first, romance... physically! Loveme's porn recommendation is a good one, just don't mistake dramatic porn-acting/movements for real ones.
12/02/2012
naturegirl naturegirl
You can try "drawing" a figure of eight with your tongue, start at the clitoris (spend a bit of time on that!) work your way down one side just inside the labia, when you reach the perineum work on that a bit (if you are up to it try licking the area around the anus which is VERY sensitive) work your way backup the other labia to the clitoris. Works for me!
If you are happy with your own secretions, you can try going down on your lady AFTER you have come in her, that is an unbelievably erotic act, I can climax very quickly when Phil does that on me.
12/02/2012
MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
I completely agree with the posts above, especially the one about asking the woman and communicating! Very important!
But also pay attention to every part down there! I love it when my guy changes it up and doesn't focus on one part for too long. Also, you don't have to just stick with using your mouth! A mouth/finger combo is always appreciated Make patterns, suck, lick, nibble, and explore!
If you are comfortable with the girl then you'll start getting to know what moans mean she wants it faster or slower and you'll start experimenting
You'll do great! Be sure to let her know that you want to make her happy doing this so she should feel comfortable helping you learn what that means for her! ^-^
12/02/2012
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