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Have you ever had sex or thought of having sex with an OLDER man. Meaning old enought to be your father or grandfather?
My Man is older, not old enough to be my father. Although in a few situations he has been mistaken for my father. It did great things for his self esteem. (heavy sarcasm.)
I dated a few men old enough to be my father, but not my grandfather. I dated a professor while I was in college (I was no longer in his class when we dated) and he was at least 20-25 years older than I was. OMG, I thought I was in love. He felt uncomfortable with the relationship after a short time and said it would be better if I dated someone closer to my own age. I was sad, but I recovered. (He was also probably afraid for his job, and I don't blame him for that.) He was a Psychology and Philosophy professor. He collected PhDs the some people collect knick knacks. He had dropped out of Med School years earlier because he hated the games they played with both students' heads and the way they talked about patients. He was a brilliant man
and if things had worked out.... But, in all honesty, I was too immature to really be in a serious relationship with a man this much older when I was only 20 or 21. Now that I think about it, he would have to be in his 60s now. Wow.