When I fantasize about men I only fantasize about older men. Specifically 4 older men. I am 22 and one is 41, one is 46, one is 47, and one is 57 (oh dear god it shouldn't be legal for this 57-year-old man to be so sexy)....I fantasize the most about the 47-year-old, then 57, 46, and 41.
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Ladies...Sex with an OLDER man?
10/02/2011
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Ew..
Originally posted by
IslandGoddess
Have you ever had sex or thought of having sex with an OLDER man. Meaning old enought to be your father or grandfather?
11/14/2011
I haven't. And I probably won't ever go THAT much older. I really don't need see value in being with someone thirty years older than me.
That said, I think the significance of large age differences not only depend on mental/emotional maturity compatibility, but AGE itself! It's like how the difference between a 14 year old and 19 year old tend to be fairly huge, while the same distance at 20 and 25 is significantly smaller, and fairly insignificant at 35-40. When it really comes down to having a relationship with someone I think it's a lot more about not only the maturity compatibility portion, but compatibility of your life experiences and what not. I have a relative who's a little over 50, but is a widow, and she's in a great relationship with someone who I believe is over 20 years older than her. He's in good shape though. The thing is, they both had lost their previous spouse, so that's a SIGNIFICANT life experience they can both share and understand.
That said, I think the significance of large age differences not only depend on mental/emotional maturity compatibility, but AGE itself! It's like how the difference between a 14 year old and 19 year old tend to be fairly huge, while the same distance at 20 and 25 is significantly smaller, and fairly insignificant at 35-40. When it really comes down to having a relationship with someone I think it's a lot more about not only the maturity compatibility portion, but compatibility of your life experiences and what not. I have a relative who's a little over 50, but is a widow, and she's in a great relationship with someone who I believe is over 20 years older than her. He's in good shape though. The thing is, they both had lost their previous spouse, so that's a SIGNIFICANT life experience they can both share and understand.
11/14/2011
I am 27, my husband is 45. My Father is 43, so yes! Also, I have a HUGE celebricrush on David Bowie! I <3 older men!!!
11/14/2011
I've never had any kind of relationship with a man younger than me or even my same age. I've never had anyone a lot older than me either though. I've always kept it at about 3-4 years older than me. I guess those are just the ages that seem to click with my level of... maturity. Lol. My partner is 3 years older than me and we do great together. However, anymore than 5 years and I just don't think I'd really be good with that. Of course I won't be dating, but I wouldn't go for someone old enough to be my dad. Lol.
11/14/2011
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Why is it called a "May to December" relationship?
Originally posted by
jessterinthebed
It's called a may to december relationship. I pretty much always go for the older guys like by 15 or 20 years.
11/14/2011
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David Bowie = mmmmmmmmm
Originally posted by
A Woman And Her Wand
I am 27, my husband is 45. My Father is 43, so yes! Also, I have a HUGE celebricrush on David Bowie! I <3 older men!!!
11/14/2011
I would date/ sleep with someone my dad's age; I've seen some incredibly attractive 49 year old men. I probably wouldn't date someone my grandfather's age though. Sixties/ borderline seventies don't really interest me (now, at least)
11/14/2011
Think of it this way: some day we'll be our mothers and fathers: would you sleep with who your partner will become? Hopefully, the answer is a big yes.
11/15/2011
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Because May is the "spring" of your life and December is the "winter". Get it now?
Originally posted by
Breas
Why is it called a "May to December" relationship?
11/15/2011
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Now I am curious, but I'm married. Good luck XY--sometimes fantasy becomes reality!!!
Originally posted by
WhoopieDoo
When I fantasize about men I only fantasize about older men. Specifically 4 older men. I am 22 and one is 41, one is 46, one is 47, and one is 57 (oh dear god it shouldn't be legal for this 57-year-old man to be so sexy)....I fantasize the most
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When I fantasize about men I only fantasize about older men. Specifically 4 older men. I am 22 and one is 41, one is 46, one is 47, and one is 57 (oh dear god it shouldn't be legal for this 57-year-old man to be so sexy)....I fantasize the most about the 47-year-old, then 57, 46, and 41.
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11/15/2011
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old enough to be my grandfather? i'm not into necrophilia, geez...
Originally posted by
IslandGoddess
Have you ever had sex or thought of having sex with an OLDER man. Meaning old enought to be your father or grandfather?
12/04/2011
the older the better as long as they're fit
12/05/2011
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here, here
Originally posted by
lost686girl
the older the better as long as they're fit
12/05/2011
It seriously depends on the person(personality included), and if he doesn't look his age. I've had some fantasies about a friend's dad before.....he looks like he could be his older brother even though he's ~43.
12/06/2011
I think everyone considers their own POTENTIAL to be with a man that old, but most don't act on it. There's too many lifestyle differences and a gap in maturity for there to be a great relationship there. There are some bonds that work for others with older men and they're younger, but it's way less common for a younger guy/girl to interact with an older man and it be anything but sexual, just my opinion. Sexually, I think everyone thinks that it could be fun or an experience.
12/06/2011
Some older guys are just sexy as hell. For example, Hugh Jackman. I would TOTALLY go for him. Don't care how old he is.
12/07/2011
Hugh Laurie is 30 years older than me and I would be his slave.
12/07/2011
I am married to a guy who went to school with my mom and dad. He is the age in between them
12/07/2011
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Me too!
Originally posted by
WhoopieDoo
Hugh Laurie is 30 years older than me and I would be his slave.
12/07/2011
Old enough to be my father is usually where I draw the line, but I dunno hell, I thought 28 was my limit and I'm dating a 32 year old. =P
12/09/2011
i think its nasty but everyone has different taste.
12/12/2011
I've dated a man 16 years older them me and another that was 19 years older. There's a co-worker at work that is over 20 years older then me that I have been intreasted in since I was 20. He's a real horn dog, honest and amusing beyong belife also looks yonger then his age. I am the age of one of his daughters.
Why? They are situated, stable and past the BS pissing contest stage. The older men have also come to love and adore any type of woman.
Why? They are situated, stable and past the BS pissing contest stage. The older men have also come to love and adore any type of woman.
01/05/2012
My husband is 12 years older than me. I have a thing for older men. Salt and pepper rocks my world.
01/05/2012
Sometimes things pop up that you don't expect. My husband is older and now he's in his 50s and he gets.... crochety! I mean, like an old man. Complaining about everything from Reality TV (OK, I do too) to politics and his politics are getting slightly more conservative, which I found a little disconcerting.
The worst though; he was talking about moving down South. And I said, "Why they hell would we want to move South?" "Retirement." WTF? I'm just getting my career back on track after taking time off and attempting Private Practice after our last baby was born. I am NOT thinking about retirement.
I finally told him I couldn't process this right now (and he has more than 10 years to go before retirement) so I finally changed the subject. But, it was something I didn't expect.
The worst though; he was talking about moving down South. And I said, "Why they hell would we want to move South?" "Retirement." WTF? I'm just getting my career back on track after taking time off and attempting Private Practice after our last baby was born. I am NOT thinking about retirement.
I finally told him I couldn't process this right now (and he has more than 10 years to go before retirement) so I finally changed the subject. But, it was something I didn't expect.
01/05/2012
My dad was 35 when I was born so I wouldn't go that much older but I could see myself with someone 10-15 years older.
01/05/2012
Eh, not for me, couldn't do it.
01/05/2012
Older men are really nice. The guy from Terra Nova, the commander of the whole settlement? Silver. Fox.
01/05/2012
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no but its not abig deal
Originally posted by
IslandGoddess
Have you ever had sex or thought of having sex with an OLDER man. Meaning old enought to be your father or grandfather?
01/05/2012
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The bad guy from Avatar? No thanks.
Originally posted by
Jake'n'bake
Older men are really nice. The guy from Terra Nova, the commander of the whole settlement? Silver. Fox.
Hugh Laurie, please. Or Mike Rowe. Or....Alton Brown <3
01/05/2012