Ladies who don't orgasm from cunnilingus--- what *do* you like on your clit?

Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Very extensive, great poll!
11/05/2011
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
If I could make my mouth and tongue work like the Hitachi I would be a million aire!
11/05/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
So here's something interesting---I had spent a lot of time trying to make SaSi (my review), the oral sex robot that rolls a ball around your clit under a silicone skin, work for me. I never could get it to work---when I liked the pattern it was rolling, I would always push down against my clit, but I would press so hard that the motor would bind. (It has a pretty weak motor).

But then, I tried using a clit pump (my review), and I found I didn't need all the pressure! I was able to orgasm just form using SaSi, without binding the motor!

I'm really excited, I thought I would share in case anyone else wants to try using a clit pump right before oral to see if it helps. I used the pump for about 10 minutes, and SaSi for about 15.
11/19/2011
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I've never been able to get off from receiving oral, and I saw in Naughty Student's poll here that I wasn't alone.

I had always thought that I had a mental hangup (which is maybe also partly true).

I recently realized, ... more
wow, that's alot of choices, hopefully I got all of them!
11/20/2011
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I don't always get off from oral and I do like pressure. With my ex, I would basically wind up fucking his face. It was never just the tongue action that do it.
01/08/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Lots of questions! It is interesting to see how different everyone is.
01/08/2012
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
I can orgasm from oral. In fact, I love oral. However, I'm also fond of sensation play. I love to mix warm and cold feelings, such as using ice and warming lubricant.
01/08/2012
Contributor: yrnw yrnw
Yea. Can't do just oral alone. not sure if it's mental or physical.
Well, it's definitely at least partially physical.
Maybe partially mental...I really like the dramatic visual of hands in motion..
02/18/2012
Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
I've actually never had an orgasm by just being orally served. Unfortunately, my clitoris is kind of finicky. I need vibrations AND pressure. I need lots and lots of stimulation. I can't even orgasm from just plain old sex alone. I need clitoral stimulation.. it is a must have. I guess my clit went on strike when it comes to those types of things.
02/18/2012
Contributor: PeachieClean PeachieClean
I definitely need lots of pressure. When I had my first orgasm I ended up pushing down with both hands as hard as I could and that's when I figured out my problem.
02/19/2012
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
i answered for my lady who i TOTALLY make scream from oral.
02/19/2012
Contributor: leelee leelee
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I've never been able to get off from receiving oral, and I saw in Naughty Student's poll here that I wasn't alone.

I had always thought that I had a mental hangup (which is maybe also partly true).

I recently realized, ... more
Oral doesn't make me orgasm I have to use a vibe or stimulation from me or my husband doing it.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
I usually do get off from oral.
02/24/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I've wondered why I can't orgasm from oral...
02/24/2012
Contributor: AMGuidroz AMGuidroz
start off slow and soft.... raise the tension and make it gradually fast and put a little pressure on the clitorus... licking the whole vagina, from the clit down to the whole and back up with the flat base of the tongue! erotic pleasure for me!!!!
03/06/2012
Contributor: Reiyth Reiyth
I've never orgasmed from oral, but I'm not sure if that's really a fair answer for my case. My hubby has only attempted oral a few times, and he really doesn't like it. The few short times, I had huge mental hang ups about it since I knew it wasn't something he liked and he didn't spend enough time at it for me to relax and enjoy myself. The sensations were really awesome though, so I still hope we can figure something out that works for both of us.
07/10/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I've never been able to get off from receiving oral, and I saw in Naughty Student's poll here that I wasn't alone.

I had always thought that I had a mental hangup (which is maybe also partly true).

I recently realized, ... more
I orgasm from oral...the thought of not orgasming from it makes me a little sad.
07/16/2012
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
It's all about pressure for me.
07/17/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
If I'm getting oral, it definitely takes me a while to get off unless he's using a vibrating toy.
07/18/2012
Contributor: MJ7 MJ7
I have never cum from oral, but the closest I've gotten is from having my clit sucked. Just like a BJ!
09/13/2012
Contributor: soccer soccer
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I've never been able to get off from receiving oral, and I saw in Naughty Student's poll here that I wasn't alone.

I had always thought that I had a mental hangup (which is maybe also partly true).

I recently realized, ... more
interesting
09/13/2012
Contributor: Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
I've never been able to come from oral sex. I need a bit more pressure than only a tongue can give. It still feels nice though, but I need something else after.
09/30/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Sorry, I just had second thoughts about my really long winded response...
10/02/2012
Contributor: kristina0121 kristina0121
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I've never been able to get off from receiving oral, and I saw in Naughty Student's poll here that I wasn't alone.

I had always thought that I had a mental hangup (which is maybe also partly true).

I recently realized, ... more
I used to only be able to cum with clit stimulation only. If anything was put it me, it was over...
10/14/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
I'm surprised that you say you have a sensitive clit. I've always thoght that the reason I never come from oral is that I have a clit o'steel.
same!
10/26/2012
Contributor: LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I've never been able to get off from receiving oral, and I saw in Naughty Student's poll here that I wasn't alone.

I had always thought that I had a mental hangup (which is maybe also partly true).

I recently realized, ... more
I am still learning what I like and don't like
11/05/2012
Contributor: Shortc8ke Shortc8ke
I like oral and I can cum when my man goes down on me. It doesn't really matter what he does I always cum. my clit is really sensitive i can cum from riding in a bumpy bus lol
11/07/2012
Contributor: chelly411 chelly411
I do cum from oral
11/07/2012