Letting them know how to do it right.

AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
How do you handle the situation when you are receiving oral sex but the giver isn't doing it just right for you?
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I just tell them straight out what I want.
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I move them myself with my hands or shift my body
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I just let them keep going. Many they will eventually get it right.
ily , Diabolical Kitty , pixxie87
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Total votes: 83 (62 voters)
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07/27/2011
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Rossie Rossie
I'll tell him straight out what makes me feel good.
07/27/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
I usually will move them with my hands or move myself, but sometimes I will tell them. It just depends on how comfortable I am with the person.
07/27/2011
kjkitty kjkitty
If it's a small problem, like my boyfriend is veering a little to the left or right, I'll try to just move my body to position them differently. If something isn't feeling right, I'll say something. My body is very specific about what feels good when. If you don't do something at the right time, it isn't going to work, so I tend to give a lot of directions.
07/27/2011
Elnoa Elnoa
I just let him know. Simple and effective!
07/28/2011
Airekah Airekah
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
How do you handle the situation when you are receiving oral sex but the giver isn't doing it just right for you?
I feel like it is always a good idea and extremely healthy to voice your opinion when it comes to sex or your partner will never understand and you will lead a relationship where you look forward to alone time with toys more than you do your partner.
07/28/2011
Kickin in Cali Kickin in Cali
I like a little direction, It seems different moods need different techniques...
07/28/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'll let them know what and how I want it. No point tippy toeing around when it comes to pleasure!
07/28/2011
Ansley Ansley
I usually just shift, lately he's been following my movement so I've had to speak up!
07/28/2011
ijako9 ijako9
Communicate, speak up, it's easiest
07/28/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
I'll do both vocal and physical, but I try to vocal when ever possible.
07/28/2011
Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
if u dont tell them what u want they wont know!
07/29/2011
El-Jaro El-Jaro
See: Chasing Amy

"I handle it like the weather channel - constant updates"
07/29/2011
AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
See: Chasing Amy

"I handle it like the weather channel - constant updates"
Hahaha! Love that movie!
07/29/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
See: Chasing Amy

"I handle it like the weather channel - constant updates"
That movie was my first introduction to fisting! hehe Love that movie.
07/29/2011
jjonk jjonk
the louder she scream the better she feels i think
07/29/2011
married with children married with children
you have to tell them what you like. That is the best way to get what you want or like.
07/31/2011
sarki sarki
Just tell them
07/31/2011
The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
How do you handle the situation when you are receiving oral sex but the giver isn't doing it just right for you?
i move and tell
07/31/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Normally I tell them to move or do this or that.
07/31/2011
Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
Why is it that so many people simply don't follow instructions? Sigh.
07/31/2011
indiglo indiglo
Move to show them what works or just come right out and say it. No need to beat around the bush on that stuff!
11/03/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
How do you handle the situation when you are receiving oral sex but the giver isn't doing it just right for you?
Both.
11/05/2011
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by ijako9
Communicate, speak up, it's easiest
AGREE. Both vocal and physical. Your both are at the same dance!
12/12/2011
Paula Paula
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
How do you handle the situation when you are receiving oral sex but the giver isn't doing it just right for you?
I'll move if it's something easy to correct, but if I'm looking for something different I just say it.
12/12/2011
pixxie87 pixxie87
i dont mind at all if he explores my body for a long time till it feels good to me
12/12/2011
geliebt geliebt
I always speak up if I would prefer something different or whatever. How are they gonna know otherwise?
12/13/2011
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
How do you handle the situation when you are receiving oral sex but the giver isn't doing it just right for you?
I try to move myself enough for them to notice...oh hey! I should be over there. Sometimes I don't have the heart to tell them.
07/16/2012
aimtoplease aimtoplease
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
How do you handle the situation when you are receiving oral sex but the giver isn't doing it just right for you?
I've always said what I need, otherwise is no fun and then he learns for next time!
07/16/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
I've been with my partner for over three years, at this point, I just tell him what I want.
07/16/2012
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