More for him, more for you..or equal?

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More for him, more for you..or equal?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I refuse to go down if the act isn't reciprocated for me on occasion as well. Is the playing field fair in your relationship? Or does someone get more oral than the other?
11/29/2010
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Waterfall Waterfall
I am not currently in a relationship, but some of mine in the past he was getting more oral. I have been in one where I got it more than he did. I want the next one to be more equal, but we will see
11/29/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I think it's unfair to keep tabs. If I feel like doing it I do and vice versa. I wouldn't want my guy to feel like he "owed" me oral just cause I did it to him. Where is the fun in that? Yea, some times it's more heavy on one side or the other but as long as we are both satisfied who the fuck cares?

Overall, he probably gets it more than me since it is easier to give it to him in the car etc. But in the beginning of our relationship I got it like 10 times more. It all evens out and not score needs to be tallied.
11/29/2010
Love Buzz Love Buzz
In my relationship it's incredibly unbalanced in my favour, but that is just because my guy is one of those rare few who would rather give than receive. I'm all for equality but if it aint broke don't fix it!
11/29/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Buzz
In my relationship it's incredibly unbalanced in my favour, but that is just because my guy is one of those rare few who would rather give than receive. I'm all for equality but if it aint broke don't fix it!
My guy LOVES giving too. Isn't it great?
11/29/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I love giving, the wife, not so much.
11/29/2010
Jobthingy Jobthingy
We are both givers and so there is no keeping tabs here.
11/29/2010
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I don't like keeping score in board games, in cards, and especially not in sex. There are times I want to blow him and I get so into it that I don't want to stop, he comes and we both are tired. If he feels like going down on me and I don't feel like giving him head, neither of us are going to say no! There are lots of times when he will go down on me and then, he doesn't want me to blow him because he is so turned on he just wants to have sex. We both LOVE oral so it isn't like it will never happen for either of us again. In our house, what comes around, goes around. So, it is all good.
11/29/2010
ScottA ScottA
She gets more than I do (by a substantial amount). I think she'd be willing to give more if I asked, but as far as I'm concerned putting a large erect penis in the mouth is much more unpleasant/difficult than going down on her, so I save my favors for other things. Note that this doesn't mean I don't like BJs - they feel good.
11/29/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
he absolutly gets it more than i do. and it drives me crazy. i tell him i want it and he responds with LATER. later my freaking eye! he got his pp sucked yesterday. me,i got head ...um....maybe 2-3 weeks ago. and he claims to love eating vag-jayjay. my freaking eye again!
11/29/2010
Emily! Emily!
My boy gets it more but only because I love giving it. I rather give then get most of the time. He likes to do it and does it a decent amount of times. We don't keep tabs.
11/29/2010
socceras socceras
i give more but i like doing it
11/29/2010
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
I give it more but that's my choice because it's something that turns me on.
12/02/2010
leatherlover leatherlover
We both enjoy giving it to each other. And unless her period is close or has just passed, I give her oral probably half the time, the other half using toys or fingers to warm her up. She usually gives me oral every time for foreplay. But like others have said, I don't keep tabs, it is just how it works out.
12/02/2010
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