My girlfriend is too sensitive!

icelandia icelandia
Right, so I need suggestions, tips and tricks: I love going down on my girl, but her clit is super sensitive. She cums pretty quickly and doesn't get a chance to really enjoy it, but if I go too slow to try to draw it out, it starts to hurt a little. Is there anything I can do to make it better for her?
08/16/2012
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Geogeo Geogeo
Try it with her underwear on to provide a barrier?
08/16/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
Quote:
Originally posted by icelandia
Right, so I need suggestions, tips and tricks: I love going down on my girl, but her clit is super sensitive. She cums pretty quickly and doesn't get a chance to really enjoy it, but if I go too slow to try to draw it out, it starts to hurt a ... More
Count yourself lucky she is at least orgasmic...lick around, not directly on the clit. Suck on the clit/labia like a vacuum.
08/16/2012
Ansley Ansley
Ask her to simulate how she likes the pressure to be with her tongue on the pad of your thumb or index finger (those are the most sensitive). And then show her what you do with your tongue on the pad of her finger. There's a little bit of a battle going on between perception and reality, what feels light to you isn't light to her and it can be hard to nail down what she's looking for.

Her sensitivity could also be decreased by using vibrators with strong pulses and vibrations. It will take some time, but it does eventually happen. I'm willing to wager that most of us members of the Clit-o-Steel club didn't start out that way (I know I didn't).
08/16/2012
icelandia icelandia
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Ask her to simulate how she likes the pressure to be with her tongue on the pad of your thumb or index finger (those are the most sensitive). And then show her what you do with your tongue on the pad of her finger. There's a little bit of a ... More
Thanks! I'll definitely try it and see if that's the case.
08/17/2012
AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by icelandia
Right, so I need suggestions, tips and tricks: I love going down on my girl, but her clit is super sensitive. She cums pretty quickly and doesn't get a chance to really enjoy it, but if I go too slow to try to draw it out, it starts to hurt a ... More
The other thing you can do is lick on the sides, not directly on her clit. It will provide a bit softer stimulation and might help her enjoy it longer.
08/17/2012
gavind gavind
Try massaging her thighs to for like 10 more minutes while kissing. EdenFantasys Logo
08/17/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Ask her to simulate how she likes the pressure to be with her tongue on the pad of your thumb or index finger (those are the most sensitive). And then show her what you do with your tongue on the pad of her finger. There's a little bit of a ... More
Good advice to start. That's a good way to help them communicate in a concrete manner.

As for Clits O Steel: mine was actually caused by premature peri-menopause. My issues were hormonal. I never even used a sex toy of any kind until I started having orgasm issues.
08/17/2012
x203 x203
That happens to me as well. I'm way too sensitive
08/17/2012
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