Not liking to swallow cum? how do u overcome it?

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Not liking to swallow cum? how do u overcome it?

mama2007 mama2007
idk if it is just me, but i do Not like my husband to actually cum in my mouth even though i still am working on giving a better BJ; id rather get him close and then get on top; i dont like the feeling i got when he did before, plus i feel like im gonna puke so i will occassionally swallow but not 24 7.

I dunno why though cuz hes a GREAT lover, I just am afraid i guess of it? sounds stupid but idk =/ any pointers would be very helpful
04/12/2011
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flavored lube if you dont like the taste.
04/13/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife's solution is two fold. She's mentally decided that its the right thing to do - and she keeps a water bottle handy to help with a chaser. She doesn't go for it right away - or even every time, but 'as needed'.
04/13/2011
indiglo indiglo
First I would say if you don't want to do it, do not do it. You should never do anything sexual that you don't want to do or that makes you uncomfortable. If it's a deal breaker for him, then it's better you know that now than further down the road. Personally, I think "swallowing occasionally" is a pretty good deal for him.

Other options: Pull back at the last minute and let him ejaculate on your breasts, or somewhere else that's acceptable to you. Or, let it ooze back out of your mouth and down his shaft. Or, have a warm washcloth at the ready. Or, if you're dead set on doing it, slide the head of his penis as far back in your mouth as you can when he tells you he's about to come. Then when he ejaculates it will not touch much of your tongue so you won't taste it as much, it can just slide down the back of your throat.
04/13/2011
mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by indiglo
First I would say if you don't want to do it, do not do it. You should never do anything sexual that you don't want to do or that makes you uncomfortable. If it's a deal breaker for him, then it's better you know that now than ...
thanks. Idk why I am like that, maybe b/c there's so much and it's just alot at once? idk. he's never actually said anything about it but I can tell he would like me to sometimes, so I thought i'd get advice on how to overcome the weirdness i guess of trying to swallow it all at once.

thanks for advice; ill try that next time
04/13/2011
sexygoddess sexygoddess
I'm the same way.. I'd LOVE to swallow it.. if I could only get over the texture and taste of it.. :/
04/13/2011
mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by sexygoddess
I'm the same way.. I'd LOVE to swallow it.. if I could only get over the texture and taste of it.. :/
yeah its weird to me too =/
04/14/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Wine, beer and many other things you probably enjoy now didn't go down so easy the first few times. It's a bit mental - if you decide to like something, you probably will. The old adage about mind-over-matter.
04/14/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I never used to swallow. I just couldn't get past the idea of it. I don't know why.

I was nice about it (no running to the sink and spitting) I'd discreetly hold it in my mouth and deposit it into a Puffs with my head turned.

He did ask a few times, but not until he (without realizing it would be the thing that did it) tell me he loved to swallow my juices, that I thought, " OMG, he does that? That's more than a little jism." The next time, I didn't even think about it, I just did it. It wasn't a big deal. I do always have water handy, but I don't usually need it.
04/14/2011
Howells Howells
Water is good for the ladies but I don't need her to swallow. Just cumming in the mouth is what matters. Or some kind of stimulation during orgasm. There is no worse when the girl stops what she was doing. I guess it's true for you girls too you don't want us to stop licking right at the beginning of your orgasms
04/18/2011
mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by Howells
Water is good for the ladies but I don't need her to swallow. Just cumming in the mouth is what matters. Or some kind of stimulation during orgasm. There is no worse when the girl stops what she was doing. I guess it's true for you girls too ...
thats my problem, i stop =[ i feel bad but i get to where i have to swallow whatever is in my mouth while giving a BJ then continue but im trying to overcome that =]
04/19/2011
purplekidney purplekidney
She: I hope nobody hates me here for this, but I don't. We use oral as foreplay and in the rare case we don't, he'll finish himself off and I'll pay attention to other areas while he orgasms.

He: My advice: start drinking raw eggs.

She: I always tell him that semen is the same texture as egg whites to me. I think it's so bad I even make him crack the eggs when I bake.
04/22/2011
zeebot zeebot
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Originally posted by indiglo
First I would say if you don't want to do it, do not do it. You should never do anything sexual that you don't want to do or that makes you uncomfortable. If it's a deal breaker for him, then it's better you know that now than ...
Great advice!
04/22/2011
mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by purplekidney
She: I hope nobody hates me here for this, but I don't. We use oral as foreplay and in the rare case we don't, he'll finish himself off and I'll pay attention to other areas while he orgasms.



He: My advice: start ...
yuck bout raw eggs
04/26/2011
starsNairguitars starsNairguitars
when my guy started dieting at the beginning of the year (eating really healthy and drinking lots of water).....I was finally able to swallow his cum. it was thinner and tastes better....

i guess thats not really something that you can personally do though
05/03/2011
Iggins09 Iggins09
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Originally posted by sexygoddess
I'm the same way.. I'd LOVE to swallow it.. if I could only get over the texture and taste of it.. :/
I'm the exact same way! I would love to swallow my husband's cum, but it's just hard because of the after taste. It's hard for me to slid his cock to the back of my throat because I have a very sensitive gag reflex. Can anybody recommend some good, tasty lube that will help with this little dilemma?
05/03/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by mama2007
thats my problem, i stop =[ i feel bad but i get to where i have to swallow whatever is in my mouth while giving a BJ then continue but im trying to overcome that =]
Before I could swallow, I would often just let it dribble out. Once men start coming, they aren't paying attention to where the ejaculate is, they just want the stimulation to continue. I'd just let it run out, and keep doing what I was, so he'd have a longer orgasm.

It took me years to be able to swallow. Not everyone likes it. I love it now, but it did take me a while to be able to do it. Until then, either holding it in my mouth and discreetly depositing it in a tissue, (I would even hold a tissue in my hand when he got close) or letting it dribble out was the way I did until I learned to swallow. It can always be cleaned up off of him (easier if he's on his back) or you after.
05/03/2011
socceras socceras
dont think about it
05/13/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by socceras
dont think about it
^ This. Although I seem to love swallowing
05/13/2011
libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by mama2007
idk if it is just me, but i do Not like my husband to actually cum in my mouth even though i still am working on giving a better BJ; id rather get him close and then get on top; i dont like the feeling i got when he did before, plus i feel like im ...
i have trouble sometimes
12/26/2012
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
All I do if take it Hun in my mouth that is well throat as soon as he is about to cum I ram his dick down my throat and I don't taste a thing but it doesn't bother me to taste it at all I just look at it like it is a part of my husband so it doesn't taste nasty for me
12/26/2012
mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
All I do if take it Hun in my mouth that is well throat as soon as he is about to cum I ram his dick down my throat and I don't taste a thing but it doesn't bother me to taste it at all I just look at it like it is a part of my husband so it ...
I think it's because in 2006, I was raped and i was forced to do this and since then being that my husband is the only partner i have ever had, i panick and refuse to let my husband do this in my mouth bc of my past. on my chest is ok, but i prefer for one of us to be on top.

he knows thats why and deals with it, but i wanna suprise him and try to enjoy it sometimes.

Thanks everyone
12/26/2012
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