After anal it is cuddle time. Anal is very strong emoutional conection for me. Is a trust much like fisting. Takes time and commucication to work up to it and after there is noting left. Last thing I would be looking for is a blow job.
Guys do you expect women to suck your dick after anal?
This IS an interesting question for us. I LOVE oral play. I LOVE anal play, but while both my hubby and I enjoy "rimming" during oral play, and while I will "tongue him" (as he does me) anally, I just have never done "ass to mouth", of putting his penis in my mouth after he pulls out from me anally. It may be silly, but I cannot do it. Now, we DO keep "wipes" at the bedside (antiseptic wet ones) and if I (notice if I...ME...) wants to bring him to climax orally after an anal session (he never asks to "cum" any specific place, unless I ask him), then I will wipe him off with a "Wet One" pop up and then suck him off. I will and have done that a lot of times, but without wiping between (even though he always comes out of me looking clean), I just cannot do. I DO have some girlfriends who think I am "drawing the line" at a silly place as they DO rimming and ATM all the time, but hey, to each his own.
That's what I would think, but without going into detail, the GF's I have who do this are married, monogamous and while that should have NOTHING to do with ecoli and other enteric organisms from the bowel, they swear they have "never gotten sick" doing this and...well.....let's say that as very high level health care professionals, they fully understand the risk, intellectually, but still choose to do this activity, that I too believes is "high risk".
Any responsible men with common sense will not ask their women to do such a thing.
FUNNY you say that. Funny the way the question was worded. Of the GF's who say that they DO this, one of them was the one, in their marriage, that started doing it. At first, her hubby was mortified, but then she said "she was his nasty little girl" and wanted to be "as nasty for him as possible", and so now they do ATM as a "regular part of their sex life" according to them BOTH. I guess everyone has their own comfort place and things they will and won't do.
If he expects me to do this, then I expect him to take care of me for a week while I vomit and have diarrhea all over the place.. Gastro is not sexy. Seriously, there are people that expect this???
I know it is becoming more common in "mainstream" porn, but I can tell you for a fact that some couples DO this...and they claim they have NOT suffered any issue from it (GI or otherwise). They CLAIM that they would not put their guys tool in their mouth if it smelled bad or looked "soiled", but all they say is that it is just "lubed up" and since they pick lube (flavored) knowing they are going to do this, well....I guess it works for them. (I have never tried this, and really don't plan to). However, in their cases, their "husbands do NOT "expect this"...which sounds one sided. In two of the three cases, the GIRLS started doing this WITHOUT their husbands asking and in the other case, they both DISCUSSED IT after seeing it in porn and HE said she should "only do what she felt comfortable with". ALL three of these couples we know PERSONALLY, and NONE are in a "demand/comply" relationship. In fact, in two of those relationships, I can easily say, the WOMAN is the main "in charge" person....and since I hear this from BOTH halves of the couples...IN PERSON, I have no reason to doubt them. We have known these people for years and years.