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Contributor: 2011andy52 2011andy52
i been married for 30 yrs and my wife has told me from day one that i was not anygood at o-sex i was her first and she was my first but my tongue is very short very very short is there any toys to help me with this i love to eat pussy
07/14/2016
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Constructive discussions on Oral sex enhancers:

Clitoral or g-spot stimulating gels?
How is your experience with using the g-spot and clitoral stimulating gels? Have only tried the Spot-on from Doc Johnson and I love it. Other Ideas?

Having problems performing oral
so i love going down on my bf and he loves it too .. my problem is i dont know how too deep throat without gagging and for some reason my jaw always..

Clitoral vibes
Are clitoral vibes uncomfortable to hold? Seems like pressing a little vibrating object against myself might tire out my wrist and numb my fingers...

I love oral and want a vibrator, but don't know where to start.
I love oral sex and I want something that can give me a similar feeling. What do you recommend to start with. We have no toys yet and after 9 years of

Deep throating and the gag reflex
Is there a way to overcome the gag reflex without using desensitizing creams? I have heard of swallowing around the penis but can't seem to make...
07/14/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by 2011andy52
i been married for 30 yrs and my wife has told me from day one that i was not anygood at o-sex i was her first and she was my first but my tongue is very short very very short is there any toys to help me with this i love to eat pussy
Not sure if there is a toy to help you eat. Of course there are plenty you can use to stimulate her. Perhaps have her show you how she wants it. She can show you her tongue techniques on your penis while you watch.
07/15/2016
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Quote:
Originally posted by 2011andy52
i been married for 30 yrs and my wife has told me from day one that i was not anygood at o-sex i was her first and she was my first but my tongue is very short very very short is there any toys to help me with this i love to eat pussy
If you were the first for each other, who is she comparing you to? Just a thought.

And actually, your tongue size, like penis length should not make much difference, after all the clitoris is easy to get to. I think a lot of guys get too focused on hitting the clit hard and fast, so maybe try a more gentle approach, licking her as gently as possible, and around the vulva and finally when she can stand it no longer, work the clitoris to set her off. Take your time with it, it's not a race.
07/17/2016
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Idk how much this will help with the situation but I've read in the past to try to do the alphabet with ur tongue. I've never tried it personally but it might be something to think about
07/17/2016
Contributor: Evoluchun Evoluchun
Quote:
Originally posted by 2011andy52
i been married for 30 yrs and my wife has told me from day one that i was not anygood at o-sex i was her first and she was my first but my tongue is very short very very short is there any toys to help me with this i love to eat pussy
i would suggest you using a clit vibe myself. anyways why dont yall search online and see what techniques might be out there to help you improve
07/17/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Not sure if there is a toy to help you eat. Of course there are plenty you can use to stimulate her. Perhaps have her show you how she wants it. She can show you her tongue techniques on your penis while you watch.
I agree, the best thing is getting her input to find out what she likes/enjoys/wants. I know I experiment with my partner and listen/watch/feel for feedback on if something is enjoyed or not.

At the end of the day, every person is different and the only way to maximize their enjoyment is to ask them what they like and get feedback as you go. But if you are her only experience it might be you both need inspiration, the site OMGYES might be a great place to start for different ways women gain enjoyment through sexual stimulation w/ actual survey data to back up the different approaches, "hands on" practice, and tutorial videos. I joined the site to give my girlfriend inspiration for self exploration, since she was a virgin when we started dating and sometimes the best way to find out what you enjoy is through self exploration.
07/24/2016