I've asked him multiple times if it was because of me? Maybe I smelled or tasted bad or something, and he has always said no. I even clarified that I wouldn't be mad at him if he said it was, and I could fix it. He's always reinsured me that it isn't me. Maybe he is scared he wont do it right, maybe he just doesn't like doing it. I never really seem to get a straight answer. I would love to receive oral sex and have some foreplay.
Now, I used to always give him BJ's. I thought I was just spoiling him. So, I slowly stopped; thinking I'd get some. Nope. It would just never happen. I love giving him BJ's and pleasing him. And some days I think he deserves one. On the other hand I NEVER get mine. He's only been down on me like 4, maybe 5, times our whole relationship; going on 6 years this July.
I just don't know what to do. Any advice? Experiences you want to share? Maybe an item that might help. Thanks for your time everyone!
Note: I do know getting him drunk sometimes helps, but thats it.