This is related to the poll "Period Sex" and I was just wondering what people's opinion on doing oral sex during a period. For women who vote, just assume your speaking of letting your partner go down on you.
Used to be Sigel never minded but after I had kids certain changes in my cycle made it a bit yuck for him. I have trouble convincing either guy to do anything when I am on my period...they are afraid of the cramps. Well ok what they are afraid of is the post cramp removal of scrotal bits that I've threatened...
I would normally say that I am open to most things, but this combines 2 very personal things--receiving oral and my period--and I know without a doubt I would be unable to do so comfortably. I don't think it has anything to do with my self-image or what is 'right' or 'appropriate', only my own peace of mind.
I just mentioned the "Instead" cup in another thread. It's not a tampon so there's no strings hanging out to floss with. If you wanted oral sex during menstruation, this would be the way to do it with a fair amount of reassurance that nothing will leak out.
My husband has not done this, and has no intention of doing it. It's gross to him.
Being pansexual though, I've been with a few women before, and gone down on them during their period. It's not a "gross" thing to me, it's just a natural thing. I don't see the need to avoid my partner for a week or so just because of her period. I do understand it when others don't want to do it though. To each their own.
I wish there was an in between one as I don't like it as much but I still enjoy it. My wife doesn't have me go down there too often during her period though but I would if she asked.
My wife and I agree on this one - she would never agree to it - and would not if asked. That wouldn't stop me from doing a clit-lick'n - but she uses her period as a resting time. Luckily she comes out of her period ready to get hot again!
I just mentioned the "Instead" cup in another thread. It's not a tampon so there's no strings hanging out to floss with. If you wanted oral sex during menstruation, this would be the way to do it with a fair amount of reassurance that nothing will
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I just mentioned the "Instead" cup in another thread. It's not a tampon so there's no strings hanging out to floss with. If you wanted oral sex during menstruation, this would be the way to do it with a fair amount of reassurance that nothing will leak out.
Yeah, I love the cup for that. Nobody has ever gone down on my during my period, but I like that I can get wet, and it's going to be completely clear.
This is related to the poll "Period Sex" and I was just wondering what people's opinion on doing oral sex during a period. For women who vote, just assume your speaking of letting your partner go down on you.
It doesn't bother My Man at all. I used to say, "You don't have to go Down if you don't want to." when I was having my period. His attitude is, he's getting laid, just turn out the light and put down a maroon towel and he can shower afterward.
I get really horny when I have my period, so I am not complaining. I always take a hot bath right before to kind of stem the flow, but when you come, stuff happens. Never bothers him at all. He loves cunnilingus, no matter how, when or why.
Seriously, I do not get people's problem with this. Just do it with a cup/tampon in. You never have to come in contact with blood, ever. It used to squick out my boyfriend (even though he went down on me multiple times without even knowing I was bleeding), but over time I helped him see that blood is just blood, and there is nothing gross about my period.
My ex never cared as far as going down on me when I was on my period. He just told me to put a tampon in lol. I've never heard of this cup you all speak of, where is this thread?
As far as sex we really didn't care about blood at all. When I did have periods they were very light anyways. Now I am on the depo shot and I don't even bleed at all so it doesn't really matter any more
I too voted for my bf. He has no problem with it. I always use tampons anyhow and it's normally clitoral stimulation. Sometimes that leads to sex, sometimes it doesn't. Just throw down a towel. It's just skin, it cleans up nicely.
Note though, my period pretty much consists of one heavy day and two days of very light flow. I feel for the gals that bleed heavily.
My ex never cared as far as going down on me when I was on my period. He just told me to put a tampon in lol. I've never heard of this cup you all speak of, where is this thread?
As far as sex we really didn't care about blood at all. When I
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My ex never cared as far as going down on me when I was on my period. He just told me to put a tampon in lol. I've never heard of this cup you all speak of, where is this thread?
As far as sex we really didn't care about blood at all. When I did have periods they were very light anyways. Now I am on the depo shot and I don't even bleed at all so it doesn't really matter any more
I find the idea entirely gross. I wouldn't perform oral sex on a woman if she's on her period and I would be squicked out if a guy I was with wanted to go down on me then. His mouth would go nowhere near mine afterward.
He says he'd be ok with doing it, but I don't even like my vag when it's all bloody, and I sure as heck don't want his mouth that I have to kiss anywhere near it, lol
I use a Lunette cup (had a Diva cup for 2 yrs before that). I've also used Insteads. All of them work better than tampons at keeping things clean and blood-free. My husband has given me oral plenty of times while I was on my period and had the cup inserted.
He generally won't even finger me while I'm on my period, and most of the time won't have sex with me. It sucks ass, especially since I've been bleeding for um... 6 months off and on now, but at least I've got my little friends to help me out!