Oral sex while she's on her period?

Contributor: lemony lemony
I wouldn't be comfortable with it, I can wait a few days.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I don't mind going down on my girlfriend when she has her period, but I'd definitely prefer her be wearing a tampon when I do.
02/15/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Not really my thing. It's not really a turn on at all... but I'm not so dead set against it that I wouldn't give it a go if my partner REALLY wanted me to. Fortunately she never does.
02/15/2011
Contributor: MisterYao MisterYao
I'm holding off on earning my red wings. The thought of shed tissue just doesn't turn me on. However, my girl loves when I rub her clit when she's on her period. It's a great tease cause it makes her want it. Then when she's off her period, she gets what she's been waiting for and it's that much better.
02/15/2011
Contributor: nicky51679 nicky51679
No way!
02/21/2011
Contributor: ud328 ud328
Depends on how she's feeling. If its heavy, no. But when it's on the lighter side, I don't mind. Granted, I don't go all out, but I'll make it happen for her.
02/21/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by MisterYao
I'm holding off on earning my red wings. The thought of shed tissue just doesn't turn me on. However, my girl loves when I rub her clit when she's on her period. It's a great tease cause it makes her want it. Then when she's off ... more
I'm confused. You play with her, while she's horny, but don't help her come to orgasm for days?

If My Man did that, I would be in so much pain, and so freaking frustrated, I would probably end up in a clock tower with an automatic weapon. Either that or zonked out on Aleve and Vicodin from the cramps.

It can be PAINFUL to be aroused and not brought to orgasm. Would you like it if she played with your cock without letting you come for days? My guess is no.

I have no problem with a little torture, or teasing, but this is over the line I'd tolerate. If My Man starts something he finishes it the same goes for my actions towards him.

Mileage, I guess.
02/23/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Hmmm. Sick and nasty.
agreed. i won't let my hubby do anything oral while on period. we occassionally have sex while im on it but usually when its light or gone
02/23/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by mama2007
agreed. i won't let my hubby do anything oral while on period. we occassionally have sex while im on it but usually when its light or gone
UM, I didn't AGREE with the terms "sick and nasty". I don't label other people's sexual choices like that.

My Man and I have oral sex while I'm having my period all the time. I used the crying emoticon because of the lack of empathy when people say other people's sexual practices are "sick and nasty."

If you read the entire thread you'll see I LOVE period sex and I am a great supporter of oral sex during menstruation.

I was CRYING (well, using the "crying" emoticon ) because people were using words like "sick and nasty" while others were saying that this is part of their regular sexual agenda. I felt labeling menstrual sex as "sick and nasty" was not nice at all. One may not like to engage in a certain sexual practice, and that's find, but people telling others what they do is "sick and nasty" makes me sad.

*sigh*
02/23/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Wow. I wonder what determines who does this? And why? (Or why not?) My Man and I don't even think about it. I did the math earlier in this thread. It's like 84 days a year without sex if we didn't have sex during my period. THAT isn't ... more
I am in the same boat with you on this issue! I can't even imagine not having sex during my period (we have sex everyday practically). I am on it right now and wishing my husband was home from work to take care of my cramps! We have a red bath towel and a throe that we use just for this time of the month. I need sex especially during my period otherwise it is twice as heavy, doubly painful, and lasts twice as long.

As far as oral goes, he doesn't care. I make sure I am freshly bathed before we have sex on my period anyway. I am more worried about it than he is, but I am learning to let go of that. He is a grown man and can decide for himself if he's up for it or not.
02/23/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by MisterYao
I'm holding off on earning my red wings. The thought of shed tissue just doesn't turn me on. However, my girl loves when I rub her clit when she's on her period. It's a great tease cause it makes her want it. Then when she's off ... more
Holy Cow! Are you saying that you rub her clit, but don't let her come while she is on her period? That seems like cruel and unusual punishment. I would be a complete bitch if my husband did that to me.
02/23/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I'm confused. You play with her, while she's horny, but don't help her come to orgasm for days?

If My Man did that, I would be in so much pain, and so freaking frustrated, I would probably end up in a clock tower with an automatic ... more
LOL. I should have read a bit farther. My sentiments exactly.
02/23/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by P'Gell
UM, I didn't AGREE with the terms "sick and nasty". I don't label other people's sexual choices like that.

My Man and I have oral sex while I'm having my period all the time. I used the crying emoticon because of the ... more
I can imagine it's really amazing, P'Gell. You guys provided great supporting info.
And ways to avoid blood and other things.
I have yet to have a period around my boyfriend, but when I was away from him, I recently discovered like 2 months ago, masturbation was good for cramps. (Yeah I know I'm behind and slow, lol. I found out on EF.. LOL)

So maybe one day, I'll try it. I don't think it's sick and nasty though. Cause I've mentioned some things I like, and people will say "sick and nasty"
It's really unfair.
02/23/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Holy Cow! Are you saying that you rub her clit, but don't let her come while she is on her period? That seems like cruel and unusual punishment. I would be a complete bitch if my husband did that to me.
LOL, I know right?
I'd be like Godzilla. I'd be a mega bitch, no fucking dinner, no cuddles. NOTHING YOU ASSHOLE. LOL
02/23/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Illusional
I can imagine it's really amazing, P'Gell. You guys provided great supporting info.
And ways to avoid blood and other things.
I have yet to have a period around my boyfriend, but when I was away from him, I recently discovered like 2 ... more
Don't worry, sweetie. You're young and you are learning. My guess is you'll get to it eventually, and see if you like it or not. If you don't, no biggie, you're a sweet woman and very tolerant of other people's sex lives.

That's really my main thing I worry about on threads like this, tolerance. People may not like something or engage in it, but as long as they are tolerant of others in a consensual relationship doing it, I think, it's OK.
02/23/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Don't worry, sweetie. You're young and you are learning. My guess is you'll get to it eventually, and see if you like it or not. If you don't, no biggie, you're a sweet woman and very tolerant of other people's sex lives. ... more
I agree.
If you don't like something I like, that's fine. But don't treat me like a leper or freak, like you're above me.
02/24/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
Have before, hated it. Never plan on it again.
03/29/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by sandblastedskin
This is related to the poll "Period Sex" and I was just wondering what people's opinion on doing oral sex during a period. For women who vote, just assume your speaking of letting your partner go down on you.
I'll do it if my Master wishes but not too fond of it
03/29/2011
Contributor: MsGoosie MsGoosie
I get incredibly horny while on my period, but the idea of receiving oral is a little uncomfortable for me. My last lover saw it as a turn-on, but I was uncomfortable with it because I just thought it was somehow "wrong." I realize how silly that sounds, but hey, it's how I felt. I'm totally fine with sex during that time of the month, but I'm still battling with oral. Even if a guy expressly tells me that he wants to, I'm still a little iffy.
03/29/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
No...oh my gosh no way!
04/13/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
Doesn't interest me in the slightest. I'm not opposed to regular intercourse during that time though. We of course need to use condoms during that however, due to birth controls placebo period pills.
04/13/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
Well I'd do it and I guess I had done it but didn't realy made a fuss about it. I don't have vampiric tendencies, but come on it's inside, and I only went for the clit, that's totally okay! If you only care about the clit you'll be okay. I just so want to do it sometimes I don't care if she has it or not.
04/18/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
I wont ask for oral on the lighter days, but if it's offered I'll definitely take it.
04/21/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by sandblastedskin
This is related to the poll "Period Sex" and I was just wondering what people's opinion on doing oral sex during a period. For women who vote, just assume your speaking of letting your partner go down on you.
No, I wont let him. I don't feel clean and I wouldn't be comfortable.
04/21/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
She: "red wings?" Eww!

He: Gross. THis is not "True Blood."
04/22/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I have done it before and dont mind it a all
04/22/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I've done it before with my fiancee. She said I didn't have to do it again, but I didn't really mind.
04/24/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Well I really don't think it's that bad. I voted for my parnter. He's all for it. That is only because I don't have odor during any time, including period time. I don't think there is really a reason to have any odor, unless something is wrong or you've just done a lot of sweating and need to clean up. Also, I do not have much of a period. I have tiny spotting here and there, but my medication stops my periods. I did have them when we were first together and he did not mind it at all. He wouldn't actually get blood in his mouth or do a lot of licking except for the clitoris, but he doesn't think I'm nasty even when I do bleed and I thank God for that. I'm so glad he's not one of those men who say "eeew! Blood! OMG!" And run. It's a freakin period! I hate when ppl are so immature that they can't even hear the word period without flipping.

I wouldn't ever ask him to do oral ever, period or not, but he's pretty into it and he knows I'm clean. Always!
05/02/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
NO WAY! I don't like any sexual attention on my period, and I have to kiss that mouth, I do not want him earning his red wings or any other person.

I use my "friends" during that time if I feel the need, then me and the man are together after its done.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by K101
Well I really don't think it's that bad. I voted for my parnter. He's all for it. That is only because I don't have odor during any time, including period time. I don't think there is really a reason to have any odor, unless ... more
some women just have a strong blood odor, its not abnormal it just is. Also people have different senses of smell, for me I have a super sensitive nose and the smell of my blood, blood from meat or any blood in general makes me queasy and I wouldn't want anyone near it. I cancel gyno appts if I am bleeding.
05/02/2011