Does oral sex count as premarital sex?

.kaycat .kaycat
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Does oral count as pre marital sex? And what about toys instead, like vibrators that don't penetrate. Trying to be a good Christian but I've always been really horny and I can't neglect the V cold turkey lol
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MrWill MrWill
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Originally posted by .kaycat
Does oral count as pre marital sex? And what about toys instead, like vibrators that don't penetrate. Trying to be a good Christian but I've always been really horny and I can't neglect the V cold turkey lol
I'm not a particularly religious person these days, but it is my understanding that from a Christian perspective it is bad. That being said, it is my personal view that A)God isn't going to send you to hell for having an orgasm before you get married. and B)It says in the Bible that God sent his son as our eternal lord and savior, and that Jesus died for ALL of our sins, not just the ones we committed before accepting him into our hearts.
04/10/2013
.kaycat .kaycat
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Originally posted by MrWill
I'm not a particularly religious person these days, but it is my understanding that from a Christian perspective it is bad. That being said, it is my personal view that A)God isn't going to send you to hell for having an orgasm before you get ... More
So it's a no go, and frowned upon in any light ?
04/10/2013
MrWill MrWill
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Originally posted by .kaycat
So it's a no go, and frowned upon in any light ?
In a purely Biblical sense, with conservative interpretation it is a no go.
04/10/2013
.kaycat .kaycat
No exceptions? Even if you have a clinical issue, where your always horny?
04/10/2013
MrWill MrWill
It all depends on your beliefs, your interpretation of the bible and you.

I'm not religious at the moment, but I'm not saying that can't change.. and if at some point when I'm more mature, an omnipotent God will certainly understand the doubt that I've had, and also understand my own personal journey. As it says in the Bible, he knew us before we were ever born, and knows every detail about us.

The journey doesn't have to be perfect to get to the same destination.

It is my understanding that if you ask God for forgiveness, it is granted. My own personal belief also happens to be that IF there is a God out there, and he was/is our sole creator, then he hardwired sexual response the way he did for a reason. Sexual release is a WONDERFUL feeling.


Don't live your life in fear, and don't worry about what others think. Do you think God will seriously punish you for seeking that which makes you happy, especially if what makes you happy harms no one?
04/10/2013
Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
I was raised very conservative Christian (non-denominational). I was always taught that masturbation is bad... having said that, there is no place in the bible that specifically restricts the act of masturbation. This is something that you will have to read/study/meditate/pr ay on; however my own personal feelings are that it is all about balance. As long as the masturbation does not take over your life but is instead partaken of in moderation, it is acceptable.

Do you feel like you are sinning when you masturbate? This is really a personal question that you alone can answer for yourself. We all have our own opinions and interpretations of the bible, so what may be true for you may not be true for your neighbor.

This is also something you may want to approach your minister/priest/father /rabbi/etc about... if you feel uncomfortable talking to a man about this, I am sure his wife would be more than happy to assist you.
04/10/2013
Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
I am a little confused. You have posted in multiple discussions about sexual acts that you have engaged in with your bf (premarital sex) but you are concerned about masturbation?? I am pretty sure if you are already having intercourse then any type of toy is just fine.
04/10/2013
.kaycat .kaycat
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Originally posted by Chastity Darling
I am a little confused. You have posted in multiple discussions about sexual acts that you have engaged in with your bf (premarital sex) but you are concerned about masturbation?? I am pretty sure if you are already having intercourse then any type ... More
Were trying to be the way we should, with no pre marital sex. We're getting baptized as well. I'm pretty new to theChristian life, and I just want to be the best I can be for God without giving everything up so soon
04/11/2013
.kaycat .kaycat
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Originally posted by MrWill
It all depends on your beliefs, your interpretation of the bible and you.

I'm not religious at the moment, but I'm not saying that can't change.. and if at some point when I'm more mature, an omnipotent God will certainly ... More
Thank you so much for the advice! Really helped !
04/11/2013
C&K0143 C&K0143
Yes. Unquestionably, undeniably yes.
07/23/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by .kaycat
Does oral count as pre marital sex? And what about toys instead, like vibrators that don't penetrate. Trying to be a good Christian but I've always been really horny and I can't neglect the V cold turkey lol
Yes
07/23/2013
lana'sart lana'sart
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Originally posted by .kaycat
Does oral count as pre marital sex? And what about toys instead, like vibrators that don't penetrate. Trying to be a good Christian but I've always been really horny and I can't neglect the V cold turkey lol
yes
07/23/2013
wicked48 wicked48
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Originally posted by .kaycat
Does oral count as pre marital sex? And what about toys instead, like vibrators that don't penetrate. Trying to be a good Christian but I've always been really horny and I can't neglect the V cold turkey lol
Yes.
07/23/2013
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