Rimjobs on straight men

SexualCatastrophe3 SexualCatastrophe3
My boyfriend thinks the idea of me giving him a rimjob incredibly hot but he is too shy about letting it happen, any tips on how do I do it without him freaking out?
03/08/2013
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PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Keep reassuring him! If it's something you're interested in doing and it's something he would really enjoy, what's the harm in trying it?

Make sure you've both taken a shower (doing it together is even better), and ease into it. Start with other foreplay techniques; start with a blowjob and just start licking a little lower and a little lower.

I think being shy is most commonly because it makes you very vulnerable and it's an area where a lot of not pleasant things go on. Maybe he's worried about smell/taste? Use a flavored lube if that would make him feel better.

Make sure he's relaxed and knowing that you're into it as well and it should all go over okay. My husband loves them!!
03/08/2013
MrWill MrWill
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Originally posted by SexualCatastrophe3
My boyfriend thinks the idea of me giving him a rimjob incredibly hot but he is too shy about letting it happen, any tips on how do I do it without him freaking out?
I agree with EVERYTHING PropertyOfPotter said. My only extra advice would be to maybe slightly push a wet soapy finger in his ass while showering if he is okay with it, to make sure things are clean.


Speaking as a man who enjoys anal play on myself, I cannot stress enough how incredibly vulnerable it can make a man feel to give his ass in anyway to his partner. It doesn't always make a man feel that way, but it can.


If it is something you find sexy, let him know.
03/08/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We do a lot of anal play - but even though I rim her, I do not let her do it to me. Maybe odd - but that's the way it is for me. I would not want her to press me to let her do it.
03/09/2013
SexualCatastrophe3 SexualCatastrophe3
Thank you all!

I have tried to ease into things multiple times, after showering of course! But to me it seems like in his mind he finds the thought sexier than the act.
03/09/2013
MrWood MrWood
I'm a straight older man, 47, and give rim jobs to my gf occasionally, although we've never had anal sex. We've talked about it and want to try it, but haven't yet. I've never had any one give me a rimmer, but I would love it to be done to me also, partly to see firsthand the feeling I am giving her, plus I think it is hotter than hell, lol. I've done anal play on myself some, but never received it from any one.
03/13/2013
libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by SexualCatastrophe3
My boyfriend thinks the idea of me giving him a rimjob incredibly hot but he is too shy about letting it happen, any tips on how do I do it without him freaking out?
not for me
03/15/2013
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
What happens when you try, does he resist a little or a lot? Does he allow you to play with his anus with your fingers or toys?
If he is worried about smell/taste you could use a dental dam or saran wrap.
Does he give you rim jobs? or is he freaked out about that as well?
03/26/2013
MrWood MrWood
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Originally posted by SexualCatastrophe3
My boyfriend thinks the idea of me giving him a rimjob incredibly hot but he is too shy about letting it happen, any tips on how do I do it without him freaking out?
I would love for my gf to give me one, but she doesn't know i'm wanting that. I have given them to her though. I'm too embarassed to just ask for her to do that. Any suggestions on how to lead her there?
03/29/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
As a man I enjoy it, but rarely ever dated a woman who wanted to do it.
03/29/2013
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