Rimming

NightNight NightNight
Baby wipes, that's a great idea! Why haven't I been doing that this whole time?? This seems sooo much more conducive to in-the-moment sex than having to stop and go to the bathroom.

P'Gell, thanks for all that info. I've always known a dirty butt is a scary butt but I didn't know why it was so (besides cooties).
09/19/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
OK - I'm suitably chastened. We don't do it a lot - but in the future I'll keep the recent shower thing in mind. My girl's a teacher so she get's exposed to everything! I don't let her do me - it isn't that enjoyable for ... More
Hey, Gun, no reason to feel chastened. I just wanted to clear up some misconceptions. As I said, none of this is a reason NOT to engage in this activity, but just to be aware and to keep hygiene at a premium. Even more so than when engaging in penetrative anal sex.

I knew all this stuff, and once My Man got terribly ill from a poorly timed rim job. It was near the end of a session, (I was clean but a lot had been going on during that session, he tried the rimming near the end, and my guess is bacteria had somehow been brought to the end by our actions) he got a nasty GI infection, was sick as could be, and recovered quickly and well. But, we still both knew why it happened. I felt bad, he still wants to do it to me, I usually stop in in favor of other activities (see Nina Hartley's video on the subject someone else posted)

I wasn't trying to rain on anyone's parade, just that there is no guarantee of "immunity" to other's bacteria nor to one's own.

It's fun, but care needs to be taken.

Sex and lies, I've always been a bratty little know-it-all.
09/19/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Hey, Gun, no reason to feel chastened. I just wanted to clear up some misconceptions. As I said, none of this is a reason NOT to engage in this activity, but just to be aware and to keep hygiene at a premium. Even more so than when engaging in ... More
P'Gell - no problem. I understand your approach - it's just so hard to convey a bit of irony. Keep - keep'n us all informed!
09/19/2010
NightNight NightNight
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Hey, Gun, no reason to feel chastened. I just wanted to clear up some misconceptions. As I said, none of this is a reason NOT to engage in this activity, but just to be aware and to keep hygiene at a premium. Even more so than when engaging in ... More
That's another good point I didn't think about -- you can reintroduce bacteria even after cleaning the outside of your butt!! D: Glad to know a little bit more about this now. Hopefully we can go through our lives without getting sick of a good thing
09/21/2010
iceman681 iceman681
of course only after a good shower, love the extra moans this gets.
09/22/2010
Liz2 Liz2
I like being rimmed but perhaps I overdue on the cleanliness issue. Looking at the list of concerns, calls for more caution. I usually am concerned by on what I "see" not on what might be present. My b/f usually uses a condom for anal...just in case. I will put a condom on the dil I use when I peg him. He doesn't want to be rimmed, says it does nothing for him.
09/22/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
its not on the menu all the time but we throw it in once in a while
09/30/2010
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
I like being rimmed but perhaps I overdue on the cleanliness issue. Looking at the list of concerns, calls for more caution. I usually am concerned by on what I "see" not on what might be present. My b/f usually uses a condom for ... More
Barriers are great for rimming.
10/07/2010
ScottA ScottA
By barriers I mean cut open gloves, dental dams, plastic wrap and the like. Not mental barriers.
10/10/2010
Faydreh Faydreh
I've really loved having it done to me, but I've yet to have a partner who would've been willing..
10/11/2010
Trashley Trashley
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Originally posted by P'Gell
The human digestive tract is dynamic. It is always changing and the bacterial count and content is changing all the time, it is not static. Most people have a different intestinal flora and bacterail profile today than they had even a week or so ago. ... More
Ohmygosh. I don't WANT to rim anymore. Thought I did. Now I don't haha
10/11/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Trashley
Ohmygosh. I don't WANT to rim anymore. Thought I did. Now I don't haha
It's still in the realm of safety if you observe sanitary cautions (Yeah, My Man still does it to me, but I only let him if I have just cleansed the area really well and nothing has gone in there before to bring down bacteria) and of course as Scott said, barrier protection is easy to use and eliminate a lot of the risks.

It CAN be done safely, but you just have to be a bit careful.
10/11/2010
Midway through Midway through
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Originally posted by Lurr
I am looking to see how many of you do or would be willing to try rimming, (giving or receiving, doesn't matter), how many of you would be willing to incorporate it into your play, or already do?
Eh, I'm all about some anal sex. But I'm not interested in either of us doing that. The thought of it bothers me.. lol
10/16/2010
KestrelLoves KestrelLoves
My hubby and I rim each other on a pretty consistent basis. Lots of fun! He really enjoys it and so do I.
10/28/2010
Matheri89 Matheri89
I rim the wife often, usually before doggystyle when she's presenting herself for it! She loves it, and it lubes her up for anal fingering while I'm behind her. She wants to rim me, but we haven't had the opportunity yet.
10/31/2010
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Lurr
I am looking to see how many of you do or would be willing to try rimming, (giving or receiving, doesn't matter), how many of you would be willing to incorporate it into your play, or already do?
Not all the time but occasionally. usually if were in the tub together
11/09/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by pinkzombie
Not all the time but occasionally. usually if were in the tub together
Good idea. A bath seems like it would be much nicer than trying to work around a shower.

I'd still use a barrier.
11/09/2010
Emily! Emily!
This is not something that I like doing or receiving. Maybe one day I might...
11/16/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Emily!
This is not something that I like doing or receiving. Maybe one day I might...
There is a lot of baggage to get around, isn't there.
11/17/2010
southernhawtie southernhawtie
Quote:
Originally posted by Lurr
I am looking to see how many of you do or would be willing to try rimming, (giving or receiving, doesn't matter), how many of you would be willing to incorporate it into your play, or already do?
Just say...no!
12/03/2010
Porfiriato Porfiriato
I love it when he rimms me during oral, it takes the experience to a whole other level
12/03/2010
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i have never had a partner that was willing to try that with me.
12/03/2010
closed account closed account
Didn't vote on this one, because I am currently trying to work out where i stand on this.
12/03/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Lurr
I am looking to see how many of you do or would be willing to try rimming, (giving or receiving, doesn't matter), how many of you would be willing to incorporate it into your play, or already do?
I have done it. I did not like it.
12/03/2010
ellejay ellejay
I'd be very willing to give or receive, but I've never done either. I think I'd even prefer to give, so I'll have to bring it up. :O
12/04/2010
darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Lurr
I am looking to see how many of you do or would be willing to try rimming, (giving or receiving, doesn't matter), how many of you would be willing to incorporate it into your play, or already do?
It is super sexy...we are both clean or have just showered/bathed together
12/05/2010
darkerthought7 darkerthought7
I basically use rimming as part of a "package deal" with oral sex. I just feel the other person out and see what they'd be into based on physical reactions to what I'm doing. I've converted a couple people, too. As for myself, I love it, but only if I am feeling clean.
12/05/2010
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I wouldn't mind receiving, but my boyfriend has already said he's not into that. I do find it a little strange though, because he's all about anal. Although, I can't say I'd be willing to do it to him, so I guess I shouldn't complain.
12/14/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by RemusHalifax
I wouldn't mind receiving, but my boyfriend has already said he's not into that. I do find it a little strange though, because he's all about anal. Although, I can't say I'd be willing to do it to him, so I guess I shouldn't complain.
I don't blame him - it's one of the more dangerous sex activities around, and if it's not done right it can be unpleasant as well.
12/14/2010
rdytogo rdytogo
Not something we have tried or even discussed for that matter. I'm pretty sure this is one of the few things he wouldn't do.
12/15/2010
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