Setting the pace for a blow job

libbyv libbyv
ladies, do you like to be on top, and in control while giving head, or do you prefer your man on top, fucking your mouth?

men, do you like to lay back and let your woman set the pace of a blow job, or do you like to be in charge, and give her a good mouth fucking?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
i'm a woman, and i like to be in charge
33  (58%)
i'm a woman, and i like for him to have his way with my mouth
13  (23%)
i'm a man, and like to lay back and recieve an effor free blow job
10  (18%)
i'm a man, and i like to be on top fucking my partners mouth
1  (2%)
Total votes: 57
Poll is closed
11/26/2012
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Incendiaire Incendiaire
I like to be in control when giving head, and completely relaxed when receiving. I'm not big on face fucking from either side.
11/26/2012
Winifred Winifred
I like to be in charge. I feel like the outcome is much more pleasurable for both parties.
11/26/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I am in charge when giving head I don't like the mouth fucking thing my partner now we are more into "Love Making" then fucking so it works out
11/26/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
95% of the time I like to be in control...but I do like him to fuck my mouth every once and a while.
11/26/2012
amazon amazon
I like both settings
11/26/2012
Huff Huff
I like it both ways, in control and controlled.
11/26/2012
lovesexandmarriage lovesexandmarriage
While I voted for the mouth fucking (which I do really enjoy), it's not only the mouth fucking that is giving him the control, at least for me. I like his hand in my hair, moving my head. I like being in control of my own movements and choking on him. I think much of it is just the element of control, anyway it comes down...
11/26/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
ladies, do you like to be on top, and in control while giving head, or do you prefer your man on top, fucking your mouth?

men, do you like to lay back and let your woman set the pace of a blow job, or do you like to be in charge, and give her ... More
Interesting question. I always wonder which to do.
11/26/2012
Passion plum Passion plum
I like it when he lays back and I can control the pace.
11/26/2012
RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
I like to control the pace
11/26/2012
MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
I prefer to set the paceand be in charge. But we are looking at letting go of that control for our DOM/SUB play
11/26/2012
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretKinksters
95% of the time I like to be in control...but I do like him to fuck my mouth every once and a while.
This pretty much describes what I like, too.

Besides, when he's on top it's tough to consistently maintain a good angle and keep him away from my teeth - he doesn't care for teeth during a BJ.
11/26/2012
damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
ladies, do you like to be on top, and in control while giving head, or do you prefer your man on top, fucking your mouth?

men, do you like to lay back and let your woman set the pace of a blow job, or do you like to be in charge, and give her ... More
i'm a man, and like to lay back and recieve an effort free blow job
11/26/2012
Moniqua Moniqua
I like to be in charge when giving a bj.
11/26/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Early on getting a BJ from my wife was rare - so when she did it, I took what I could get. Now she does it often - but I'm lazy and just let her control the situation.

We done the mouth fucking thing - but I'm not into gagging her, so we don't do it often.
11/27/2012
Melani Melani
I like being in charge most of the time
11/27/2012
Danneh Danneh
Somewhere inbetween. I like being guided. told where to go. But I like to doing most of the effort.
11/27/2012
closed account closed account
both. but there is just something deliciously dirty about mouth fucking. but other times i like giving that attention.
11/27/2012
KeroWolf KeroWolf
Definitely in charge, I don't enjoy being used so much
11/27/2012
quinceykay quinceykay
I don't think I've really tried face fucking, but I definitely prefer setting the pace myself. I can sense bad things happening if a guy roughly fucked my mouth hard and fast without any regard to my gag reflex.
12/04/2012
Antipova Antipova
I'm fine setting my own pace, and I'm also fine with being face-fucked.

It sounds funny to me when you say "lay down," though, I give almost all my blowjobs with partner standing or sitting and me on my knees. It just seems easier that way to me.
12/04/2012
nikki0668 nikki0668
I like to be in charge.
12/06/2012
tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
ladies, do you like to be on top, and in control while giving head, or do you prefer your man on top, fucking your mouth?

men, do you like to lay back and let your woman set the pace of a blow job, or do you like to be in charge, and give her ... More
sometimes I let him have his way with my mouth
12/09/2012
deine.kable deine.kable
Really, i alternate between the two options for women...
12/10/2012
DigitalSweety DigitalSweety
I like to be in charge. Not big on mouth-fucking at all, always makes me gag. Not sexy. I don't think I'd give blowjobs to a partner who insisted on that.
02/15/2013
sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I'm a submissive, so I always prefer when he's in control. However, I also have a very sensitive gag reflex, so I tend to be more of the giver instead of receiving the action.
02/15/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
ladies, do you like to be on top, and in control while giving head, or do you prefer your man on top, fucking your mouth?

men, do you like to lay back and let your woman set the pace of a blow job, or do you like to be in charge, and give her ... More
I don't mind letting her run the show.
02/15/2013
1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
I enjoy lying back and having someone go down on me. If I'm giving head, I prefer he lie back and let me do the work. I don't enjoy having my throat fucked, as you say.
02/15/2013
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
ladies, do you like to be on top, and in control while giving head, or do you prefer your man on top, fucking your mouth?

men, do you like to lay back and let your woman set the pace of a blow job, or do you like to be in charge, and give her ... More
I like both. If I get feedback and know what they want then in control
02/15/2013
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