I wouldn't call oral sex "sex" in general, it's more a subset of sex in my mind.
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04/06/2012
I consider oral sex a sexual experience, but if I was asked how many people i've had sex with I generally only count intercourse. Although i've never had any sexual experience with someone of the same sex, so I don't if that would change my definition.
04/06/2012
I'm a female who s attracted to both genders and although I have not had the chance to have oral with a woman I probably would count that as sex but a man that I've only done oral with I would not count... I know it doesn't really make sense and I don't really have a reason that's just how my mind works I guess...
04/06/2012
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Honestly, I have to question what would make this individual want deny that part of herself. I get that it is a personal thing, but still...
Originally posted by
Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this
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After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this question.
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
04/07/2012
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Oral sex to me is not sex because I only consider penetration sex.
Originally posted by
Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this
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more
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this question.
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
04/08/2012
Its just a sexual act. Not intercorse.
04/10/2012
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i consider it biologically where sex is penis in vagina which has the potential for egg and sperm to meet, but anything else i would consider a sexual 'act' because sexual organs are involved.
Originally posted by
Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this
...
more
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this question.
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
04/10/2012
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I'm a female, I keep a list of my sexual partners, and I don't consider oral sex as sex...
Originally posted by
Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this
...
more
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this question.
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
04/17/2012
Yes, oral sex is still sex. Does that mean lesbians can't have sex? No, just no.
04/26/2012
I count anything with the word sex in it as sex. Oral SEX= sex. Anal SEX= sex.
This is especially highlighted for me, as a lesbian. No, I have never had real penetration, but I think it would be ridiculous to say I was a virgin.
This is especially highlighted for me, as a lesbian. No, I have never had real penetration, but I think it would be ridiculous to say I was a virgin.
04/26/2012
I don't count it because i have only ever been with one person in any way so why count it
04/30/2012
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Oral sex is sex, but its not SEX, its just not the same thing.
Originally posted by
Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this
...
more
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this question.
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
04/30/2012
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I am a female and I do count them but on a separate list if that makes sense. So I have x number of men that I have had vaginal sex with and x number of women I have had oral sex with. I have never had oral sex with a man outside of a sexual relationship So its really two lists men and women.
Originally posted by
Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this
...
more
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this question.
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
04/30/2012
Fluids do not have to be exchanged for it to be sex. Intercourse with a condom doesn't involve a fluid exchange, but I think we'd all agree that it is still sex.
I'm very careful about the way I use the term "sex," because for me, and for most of my queer peers, it doesn't just mean intercourse. It means a form of physical intimacy that can be anything from groping to fingering to oral to anal to intercourse.
I'm very careful about the way I use the term "sex," because for me, and for most of my queer peers, it doesn't just mean intercourse. It means a form of physical intimacy that can be anything from groping to fingering to oral to anal to intercourse.
05/02/2012
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agreed
Originally posted by
indiglo
Personally, anything with the word "sex" in it is sex. Be it oral, anal, vaginal, or any other kind of sex. And safe sex can (and should) be a priority in all of these sexual acts.
05/02/2012
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totally agree
Originally posted by
indiglo
Personally, anything with the word "sex" in it is sex. Be it oral, anal, vaginal, or any other kind of sex. And safe sex can (and should) be a priority in all of these sexual acts.
05/04/2012
sex is sex, oral or not
05/07/2012
I think sex is sex, be it involve the mouth, P/V, or booty. First, all have sex in the name...to hit on the most obvious. Second, and more based on perception than anything else, sex for many is rooted in an intimate encounter - with a casual partner or someone more special. If you're sharing your sexuality with a living being physically it's sex in my book. I think though many will have different views on it, and it doesn't really matter to me. As long as you and your partner share a similar view, chances are your sex like will be rewarding.
05/07/2012
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Eeeeh, well I think that oral sex isn't really sex because it's not intercourse. but it is a kind of a sex act. I don't know it's really a grey line
Originally posted by
Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this
...
more
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this question.
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
05/07/2012
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I agree with the sharing bodily fluids. It's sex.
Originally posted by
Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this
...
more
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this question.
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
05/09/2012
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oral doesnt count as full on sex to me because it doesnt feel as intimate as penetration.
Originally posted by
Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this
...
more
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this question.
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
05/19/2012
I consider it oral sex a sex act just like intercourse, so yeah, I would consider it sex.
05/20/2012
Here's my question. Would you consider it cheating if you're partner had oral sex with someone else? I do. I see it as an intimate act. There might not be penetration with a penis but it is still a part of sex. So yeah, oral sex is the same thing as sex.
05/20/2012
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That's exactly how my mind works. I can't put my reasoning into words, but that's definitely how I look at it.
Originally posted by
Bex1331
I'm a female who s attracted to both genders and although I have not had the chance to have oral with a woman I probably would count that as sex but a man that I've only done oral with I would not count... I know it doesn't really make
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more
I'm a female who s attracted to both genders and although I have not had the chance to have oral with a woman I probably would count that as sex but a man that I've only done oral with I would not count... I know it doesn't really make sense and I don't really have a reason that's just how my mind works I guess...
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06/18/2012
Oral sex is a sexual act but I think of sex as penetration
06/19/2012
yes!
06/27/2012
sex to me is intercourse not oral sex. Would a virgin who only had oral sex therefore not be a virgin? In my opinion, sex is intercourse.
06/27/2012
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it is an intimate encounter so it counts
Originally posted by
Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this
...
more
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this question.
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
So do you think oral sex is sex? And do you count these partner's that you only had oral sex with? less
06/27/2012
Sex is penetration for me.
06/27/2012
I consider it sex.
06/29/2012