if your discussing sexual partners, then how would oral not be sex? I never understood that. otherwise there are alot of people that don't have sex at all then,lol
depending on the context of the conversation, i can tell sometimes though that the person is referring to PIV
so on the same lines: do you count oral when its m/f? in other words for other female bisexuals out there, i'm curious if you are as likely to "count" blow jobs as you would oral with a woman? I guess I do have a double standard on that one.