Simple question, in a private poll.

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Simple question, in a private poll.

ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this ...
I don't count only oral partners. However, I only count one woman in my list as we did everything except for actual strap-on penetration, so I found it countable. lol. Oral on other woman or by other women alone wasn't counted.
11/12/2012
Mikemanz Mikemanz
define "it"
11/14/2012
RememberMe RememberMe
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this ...
When I give my # to someone else, I count full penetration with men but count oral sex with women.
11/15/2012
RememberMe RememberMe
Quote:
Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Well sex in the traditional deff of the word really is the whole concept of reproduction so technically oral isn't sex. However if you are stimulating those areas emotionally I cant see how it couldn't be.
Good answer.
11/15/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
Oral sex obviously isn't penetration, but its still sex. Just read the phrase...oral SEX.
11/15/2012
loveme loveme
That's a good question. I count them both as sexual partners, but separately. Yes, oral sex is included in sex, but there's a big difference, to me, between that and sexual intercourse.
11/15/2012
1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
Sure, it's definitely sex. If two people are trying to get each other off, I consider it sex. Unless it's lousy oral sex...then we'll just pretend it didn't happen.
12/30/2012
kaykay0427 kaykay0427
I would count them because someone got off, even if I didn't have sex with them I would still consider them someone I did a sexual act with...
01/18/2013
xcapricax xcapricax
there is no one form of sex there are several
01/18/2013
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
I count it.
01/18/2013
falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this ...
i dont consider oral sex to be sex.
01/18/2013
Love Lula Love Lula
In my opinion it definitely counts as sex.
01/19/2013
Meido Meido
Surely it's an intimate thing, but for myself to personally count it as sex, penetration by a penis must be involved. I'm straight so I don't really have a good say in femalexfemale sexual relationships.
01/23/2013
joiedejouets joiedejouets
I have to enjoy myself and be penetrated for me to count it as having sex with someone. I believe oral sex is sex, I just don't count it as a notch on my bedpost.
01/23/2013
srexom srexom
yes, it ocunt.s
01/23/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this ...
I do count it as sexual realations. but i dont count it as having sex.
01/23/2013
hubbyandwife hubbyandwife
I totally say that oral is sex. Weather the person cums or not its still sex in my book
01/23/2013
richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this ...
yes oral is sex
01/24/2013
lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
After reading something, where a women said that she only counted her male partners, but had sex with women also. I got to thinking, clearly this women only considers sex as sex and oral is not sex. So I searched the forum and could not find this ...
I have only had sex with my hubby both oral and what ever else.
01/28/2013
Munko Munko
I don't count it...sex to me is intercourse. Oral is well...oral. That said though, my list of oral partners is smaller than those I've had intercourse with, and none of the people I've had oral with are people I haven't had intercourse with, so it wouldn't make a difference in my number either way!
01/29/2013
Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Yes oral sex is sex.
01/31/2013
Sima-pusya Sima-pusya
Yes oral sex is sex.
01/31/2013
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
I feel like sex is any act of comfort involving the private parts, whether it be doing it yourself or someone else doing it to you.
02/06/2013
anon195 anon195
My friends disagree, but I always believed sex was anal, oral, or vaginal. I define virginity the same way, I think.
02/07/2013
hillys hillys
oral sex is sex. But I don't count it on my own list because it's a different type of sex.
02/20/2013
dks210 dks210
Oral sex is sex. End of story.
02/24/2013
luvanurse luvanurse
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
Not that labels really matter all that much, but I agree with this. I tend to take the clinical approach; penis + vaginal penetration = SEX

If sex has a broader definition for you; then so be it. If that's your personal truth does it ...
Well said, Oxygen99. I totally agree.
03/01/2013
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Yes, oral sex is sex IMO.
03/03/2013
JoshJosh123 JoshJosh123
It probably wouldn't count
03/03/2013
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
In my opinion sexual contact of any type is sex. In my numbers I not only include oral, vaginal and anal but also mutual masturbation so long as my partner and I were touching each other and not just ourselves.
04/13/2013
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