So ladies... Do any of you not like to have oral sex performed on you? And if so why?

The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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I was talking to some ladies at work who were discussing the exact opposite topic and when I flipped the discussion I got varied answers. Anybody care to comment?
07/28/2011
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SexyStuff SexyStuff
The first time I didn't like it because the sensations were too intense.
07/28/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
See now I know men would be interested in hearing what is too intense. Thanks!
07/29/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
When performing oral on my wife I use to like to make it wet - with lots of saliva. Turns out she didn't like it that way. She prefers just enough saliva to make it slick. It makes sense - saliva begins the process of digesting foods. Maybe too many enzymes from saliva can irritate the sensitive labia minora.
07/29/2011
Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by SexyStuff
The first time I didn't like it because the sensations were too intense.
I dislike it for the opposite reason. Its never intense enough. Even with men who are very talented orally - and I've been with guys who are incredibly good at it - it will feel very nice but is never enough to make me come.

I strongly prefer to have him inside me. It feels much better and that way we're both having pleasure.

When I'm with a guy who insists on it, I spend the time thinking "how soon can I signal him to stop and get inside me?" I do appreciate the enthusiasm. It will just never do it for me.

Gunsmoke, saliva isn't irritating. It just the sensation of wetness that your wife and I don't like.

I sound so picky! For guys who don't like giving oral, I'm your woman.
07/29/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I dislike it for the opposite reason. Its never intense enough. Even with men who are very talented orally - and I've been with guys who are incredibly good at it - it will feel very nice but is never enough to make me come.

I strongly ... More
Have you tried using a dildo or phallic vibrator (not turned on) penetrating you while you are receiving oral sex? Ahhhh. Wonderful stuff.

I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come from it, but we grab the Wahl right at the right moment (usually a dil is already in place or at least his fingers or hand) and go right from one to the other. It's almost as good as coming from oral. IMO, oral sex still feels better than the vibrator, but I need the intensity, too.
07/29/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Have you tried using a dildo or phallic vibrator (not turned on) penetrating you while you are receiving oral sex? Ahhhh. Wonderful stuff.

I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come ... More
No doubt - my wife likes to have something to 'hold on to' and it it hits her g-spot all the better.
07/29/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Thanks for your input guys!
07/29/2011
Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Thanks for your input guys!
So what did your coworkers have to say?
07/29/2011
Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Have you tried using a dildo or phallic vibrator (not turned on) penetrating you while you are receiving oral sex? Ahhhh. Wonderful stuff.

I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come ... More
I'm sure that would help. I haven't tried that.
07/29/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
They were actually talking about the same thing in reverse. If there were any guys that didn't like to receive oral sex. I thought the whole conversation was funny actually because I personally don't know any guy who would turn oral sex down.
07/29/2011
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I dislike it for the opposite reason. Its never intense enough. Even with men who are very talented orally - and I've been with guys who are incredibly good at it - it will feel very nice but is never enough to make me come.

I strongly ... More
This is the same for me. I love to get oral but I can never get off from it
07/29/2011
Kimmie1980ca Kimmie1980ca
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I was talking to some ladies at work who were discussing the exact opposite topic and when I flipped the discussion I got varied answers. Anybody care to comment?
I'm shy when it comes to receiving. I don't know why, but I have only let my ex husband go down. Maybe eventually I will let my fiance... I'm still too shy at the moment.
07/31/2011
KinkyKrissy KinkyKrissy
I'm very shy as well. I never let someone do it until a couple years ago, even then I wouldn't let them for more than a minute. I think it has to do with my first boyfriend and after I went down on him all the time, he said, I would never go down on a girl because that's just gross. I never even asked him to but I guess it just kinda stuck. Finally I'm getting more comfortable with it, but I'm still kinda shy.
07/31/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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This is the same for me. I love to get oral but I can never get off from it
See Im glad to get your input. Heres why alot of guys think that its their technique when it turns out that not all women can get off from it.
12/27/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Kimmie1980ca
I'm shy when it comes to receiving. I don't know why, but I have only let my ex husband go down. Maybe eventually I will let my fiance... I'm still too shy at the moment.
Would it make you feel differently if your fiancee told you that he really truly enjoyed performing it on you? (that may or may not be true in your case) Like I personally enjoy it so much that I could almost cum doing down on her believe it or not. Like in my case I get so excited going down on my wife that she really doesent have to try very hard to get me to cum afterwords. See I think I may even enjoy giving it more than she enjoys recieving it.
12/27/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by KinkyKrissy
I'm very shy as well. I never let someone do it until a couple years ago, even then I wouldn't let them for more than a minute. I think it has to do with my first boyfriend and after I went down on him all the time, he said, I would never ... More
I see what you mean. Keep in mind some guys are all about it and some guys dont like doing it. For instance id rather go down on my wife than have her go down on me. She is a bit hesistant herself from other experiences she has had. Just to give you an idea of how im feeling I wish I could make her feel more comfortable about having it done. I do have to say though having some feedback from ladies actually helps my mindset.
12/27/2011
Nirelan Nirelan
Love Love Love it! It's so intimate and feels GREAT...... I've never been self conscious about it....like i always thought I would be, so it's wonderful for me.
05/11/2012
TheRookie TheRookie
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I was talking to some ladies at work who were discussing the exact opposite topic and when I flipped the discussion I got varied answers. Anybody care to comment?
My main reason for not liking it has always been paranoia - my mind takes over. I get extremely wet to begin with, it's slick and it's just a messy concept; I also can't imagine it tasting good, so it always freaks me out when my boyfriend says he enjoys doing it - it has always been bothersome to have oral performed on me.
05/15/2012
Mistress Dragon Mistress Dragon
I like oral sex performed on me. Once I cum the first time my clit is so sensitive that it does not feel good any more. I try to tell my husband this and the only thing he understud was when I told him it was like after he cums and the head of his cock is so very sensitive to touch. That is how I feel.
06/22/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
I don't like it. It doesn't turn me on in any way and just bores me. The stimulation is just too gentle and soft I think.
06/22/2012
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Makes me a little uncomfortable.
07/24/2012
giggles26 giggles26
i love it
07/26/2012
deine.kable deine.kable
I love it...ALWAYS!
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