I was talking to some ladies at work who were discussing the exact opposite topic and when I flipped the discussion I got varied answers. Anybody care to comment?
So ladies... Do any of you not like to have oral sex performed on you? And if so why?
When performing oral on my wife I use to like to make it wet - with lots of saliva. Turns out she didn't like it that way. She prefers just enough saliva to make it slick. It makes sense - saliva begins the process of digesting foods. Maybe too many enzymes from saliva can irritate the sensitive labia minora.
07/29/2011
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I dislike it for the opposite reason. Its never intense enough. Even with men who are very talented orally - and I've been with guys who are incredibly good at it - it will feel very nice but is never enough to make me come.
Originally posted by
SexyStuff
The first time I didn't like it because the sensations were too intense.
I strongly prefer to have him inside me. It feels much better and that way we're both having pleasure.
When I'm with a guy who insists on it, I spend the time thinking "how soon can I signal him to stop and get inside me?" I do appreciate the enthusiasm. It will just never do it for me.
Gunsmoke, saliva isn't irritating. It just the sensation of wetness that your wife and I don't like.
I sound so picky! For guys who don't like giving oral, I'm your woman.
07/29/2011
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Have you tried using a dildo or phallic vibrator (not turned on) penetrating you while you are receiving oral sex? Ahhhh. Wonderful stuff.
Originally posted by
Tuesday
I dislike it for the opposite reason. Its never intense enough. Even with men who are very talented orally - and I've been with guys who are incredibly good at it - it will feel very nice but is never enough to make me come.
I strongly prefer ...
I strongly prefer ...
I dislike it for the opposite reason. Its never intense enough. Even with men who are very talented orally - and I've been with guys who are incredibly good at it - it will feel very nice but is never enough to make me come.
I strongly prefer to have him inside me. It feels much better and that way we're both having pleasure.
When I'm with a guy who insists on it, I spend the time thinking "how soon can I signal him to stop and get inside me?" I do appreciate the enthusiasm. It will just never do it for me.
Gunsmoke, saliva isn't irritating. It just the sensation of wetness that your wife and I don't like.
I sound so picky! For guys who don't like giving oral, I'm your woman.
I strongly prefer to have him inside me. It feels much better and that way we're both having pleasure.
When I'm with a guy who insists on it, I spend the time thinking "how soon can I signal him to stop and get inside me?" I do appreciate the enthusiasm. It will just never do it for me.
Gunsmoke, saliva isn't irritating. It just the sensation of wetness that your wife and I don't like.
I sound so picky! For guys who don't like giving oral, I'm your woman.
I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come from it, but we grab the Wahl right at the right moment (usually a dil is already in place or at least his fingers or hand) and go right from one to the other. It's almost as good as coming from oral. IMO, oral sex still feels better than the vibrator, but I need the intensity, too.
07/29/2011
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No doubt - my wife likes to have something to 'hold on to' and it it hits her g-spot all the better.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
Have you tried using a dildo or phallic vibrator (not turned on) penetrating you while you are receiving oral sex? Ahhhh. Wonderful stuff.
I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come ...
I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come ...
Have you tried using a dildo or phallic vibrator (not turned on) penetrating you while you are receiving oral sex? Ahhhh. Wonderful stuff.
I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come from it, but we grab the Wahl right at the right moment (usually a dil is already in place or at least his fingers or hand) and go right from one to the other. It's almost as good as coming from oral. IMO, oral sex still feels better than the vibrator, but I need the intensity, too.
I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come from it, but we grab the Wahl right at the right moment (usually a dil is already in place or at least his fingers or hand) and go right from one to the other. It's almost as good as coming from oral. IMO, oral sex still feels better than the vibrator, but I need the intensity, too.
07/29/2011
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I'm sure that would help. I haven't tried that.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
Have you tried using a dildo or phallic vibrator (not turned on) penetrating you while you are receiving oral sex? Ahhhh. Wonderful stuff.
I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come ...
I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come ...
Have you tried using a dildo or phallic vibrator (not turned on) penetrating you while you are receiving oral sex? Ahhhh. Wonderful stuff.
I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come from it, but we grab the Wahl right at the right moment (usually a dil is already in place or at least his fingers or hand) and go right from one to the other. It's almost as good as coming from oral. IMO, oral sex still feels better than the vibrator, but I need the intensity, too.
I used to always come from oral, but that damn peri-menopause changed my response. Now, I almost come from it, but we grab the Wahl right at the right moment (usually a dil is already in place or at least his fingers or hand) and go right from one to the other. It's almost as good as coming from oral. IMO, oral sex still feels better than the vibrator, but I need the intensity, too.
07/29/2011
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This is the same for me. I love to get oral but I can never get off from it
Originally posted by
Tuesday
I dislike it for the opposite reason. Its never intense enough. Even with men who are very talented orally - and I've been with guys who are incredibly good at it - it will feel very nice but is never enough to make me come.
I strongly prefer ...
I strongly prefer ...
I dislike it for the opposite reason. Its never intense enough. Even with men who are very talented orally - and I've been with guys who are incredibly good at it - it will feel very nice but is never enough to make me come.
I strongly prefer to have him inside me. It feels much better and that way we're both having pleasure.
When I'm with a guy who insists on it, I spend the time thinking "how soon can I signal him to stop and get inside me?" I do appreciate the enthusiasm. It will just never do it for me.
Gunsmoke, saliva isn't irritating. It just the sensation of wetness that your wife and I don't like.
I sound so picky! For guys who don't like giving oral, I'm your woman.
I strongly prefer to have him inside me. It feels much better and that way we're both having pleasure.
When I'm with a guy who insists on it, I spend the time thinking "how soon can I signal him to stop and get inside me?" I do appreciate the enthusiasm. It will just never do it for me.
Gunsmoke, saliva isn't irritating. It just the sensation of wetness that your wife and I don't like.
I sound so picky! For guys who don't like giving oral, I'm your woman.
07/29/2011
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I'm shy when it comes to receiving. I don't know why, but I have only let my ex husband go down. Maybe eventually I will let my fiance... I'm still too shy at the moment.
Originally posted by
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I was talking to some ladies at work who were discussing the exact opposite topic and when I flipped the discussion I got varied answers. Anybody care to comment?
07/31/2011
I'm very shy as well. I never let someone do it until a couple years ago, even then I wouldn't let them for more than a minute. I think it has to do with my first boyfriend and after I went down on him all the time, he said, I would never go down on a girl because that's just gross. I never even asked him to but I guess it just kinda stuck. Finally I'm getting more comfortable with it, but I'm still kinda shy.
07/31/2011
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Would it make you feel differently if your fiancee told you that he really truly enjoyed performing it on you? (that may or may not be true in your case) Like I personally enjoy it so much that I could almost cum doing down on her believe it or not. Like in my case I get so excited going down on my wife that she really doesent have to try very hard to get me to cum afterwords. See I think I may even enjoy giving it more than she enjoys recieving it.
Originally posted by
Kimmie1980ca
I'm shy when it comes to receiving. I don't know why, but I have only let my ex husband go down. Maybe eventually I will let my fiance... I'm still too shy at the moment.
12/27/2011
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I see what you mean. Keep in mind some guys are all about it and some guys dont like doing it. For instance id rather go down on my wife than have her go down on me. She is a bit hesistant herself from other experiences she has had. Just to give you an idea of how im feeling I wish I could make her feel more comfortable about having it done. I do have to say though having some feedback from ladies actually helps my mindset.
Originally posted by
KinkyKrissy
I'm very shy as well. I never let someone do it until a couple years ago, even then I wouldn't let them for more than a minute. I think it has to do with my first boyfriend and after I went down on him all the time, he said, I would never go down
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I'm very shy as well. I never let someone do it until a couple years ago, even then I wouldn't let them for more than a minute. I think it has to do with my first boyfriend and after I went down on him all the time, he said, I would never go down on a girl because that's just gross. I never even asked him to but I guess it just kinda stuck. Finally I'm getting more comfortable with it, but I'm still kinda shy.
12/27/2011
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My main reason for not liking it has always been paranoia - my mind takes over. I get extremely wet to begin with, it's slick and it's just a messy concept; I also can't imagine it tasting good, so it always freaks me out when my boyfriend says he enjoys doing it - it has always been bothersome to have oral performed on me.
Originally posted by
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I was talking to some ladies at work who were discussing the exact opposite topic and when I flipped the discussion I got varied answers. Anybody care to comment?
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