Talking about technique with my husband?

Nova146 Nova146
How do I bring up technique with my husband? I don't love how he gives me oral. But I don't want to hurt his ego either. And I certainly don't want him to stop, because it feels good, even though it doesn't feel great. He really likes going down on me, and I'm fairly sure he'd prefer to do so in a way I liked, but I just don't know how to talk to him about it. Ideas?
02/04/2013
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Originally posted by Nova146
How do I bring up technique with my husband? I don't love how he gives me oral. But I don't want to hurt his ego either. And I certainly don't want him to stop, because it feels good, even though it doesn't feel great. He really likes ... More
Just simply tell him what feels great and amazing an what doesn't, if you are married you should be able to talk openly about your needs and desires.
02/04/2013
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
Try just changing one thing at a time, like one day tell him one specific thing you want done or changed.
Don't one day just tell him a whole laundry list of things you don't like or that he isn't doing.
so just slowly ease him into what you need.
One session at a time or every other one so it's less noticeable.
02/04/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by epiphanyjayne
Try just changing one thing at a time, like one day tell him one specific thing you want done or changed.
Don't one day just tell him a whole laundry list of things you don't like or that he isn't doing.
so just slowly ease him ... More
Very good advice - as a man, that's how I would want to learn.
02/05/2013
Nova146 Nova146
Bring it up in bed? Before he starts? Some other private time?
02/05/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by Nova146
How do I bring up technique with my husband? I don't love how he gives me oral. But I don't want to hurt his ego either. And I certainly don't want him to stop, because it feels good, even though it doesn't feel great. He really likes ... More
Just say hey honey, I like it when yo udo this (while he's doing it) or if he does something you like be sure to tell him.
02/05/2013
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Nova146
How do I bring up technique with my husband? I don't love how he gives me oral. But I don't want to hurt his ego either. And I certainly don't want him to stop, because it feels good, even though it doesn't feel great. He really likes ... More
just talk with him honestly
02/08/2013
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