Tips on deep throating

It takes practice, patience, trust and you certainly have to relax. If you are tense and worried about doing it, your gag reflex will tense up as well. I would suggest practicing with a dildo, have you tried that?

The problem with regular porn for general consumption (not say, Gonzo or BDSM, Kink stuff) is that the women rarely really Deep Throat. They are too busy trying to keep the cock in frame, and make eye contact with the camera, often look like they are not into it, and flipping their hair out of their face, and only working the tip, that My Man says it usually looks "like a pretty crappy BJ."

Now, if you watch Gonzo or to places like Kink.com, those ladies get into it, and it's more like the real thing. At least in my experience.

Aussie Sarah, IMO, a good BJ takes relaxation and trust. Not every woman can DT every time, and some simply can't much at all. That doesn't mean she can't give e good Blow Job. Keep things wet, keep them tight (you can use your fist near the base and if it's wet enough, it's close enough to a mouth if you can't go all the way to the base with your mouth) and keep them moving, and the man should be happy. You also have to be INTO it. A woman who is aroused while giving Head is not only going to be able to take more (the gag reflex actually decreases in response to arousal) but he'll like it more and you'll like it more if you are really turned on.

There are techniques to help your relax and "open" your throat, like when you have to take a big horse pill. NOT panicking is the key. Don't take more than you can handle, stop if you need to, keep things wet, and ENJOY yourself.

Don't worry about it while you are doing it. Do what you CAN do, enjoy yourself, and he should too.

That sounds like an inhibition issue. Alcohol dulls inhibition, so if she were willing to work on her inhibitions while not drunk, she might find she really enjoys more than she does now. Alcohol actually, physically can increase the gag reflex in a lot of people, so physically, if she can DT while drunk, she can, at least physically do it while sober. Her inhibitions, as so many women have been told that only "Bad Girls do things like that" may be preventing her from doing it and enjoying it.

I think you and she need to have a Sit Down and talk honestly, and maybe she could see a Sex Therapist of even spend some time here to help her lose some of her inhibitions.

I hate to see anyone have less pleasure than they could. I hope you and she can get this working all the time.

Mine feels the same way... when I do gag, it makes him feel good b/c he's too big for me to fit all the way down my throat, lol...

He is average or larger and I can deep throat pretty well in and out but not for too long maybe 5 or six strokes. My gag reflex is pretty controllable or low and if your at the right angle and relax its pretty easy.

Relax, breathe through nose, sometimes lay on back with head tipped back over edge of bed.

Relax, relax, relax.... That is my best advice

I have my wife lay over edge of bed with her neck relaxed. i can go all the way in without gagging her this way and im about 7-8"

I use a mint that numbs my throat and works great for me.

this may be quite obvious but i am attempting to picture this position and cant seem to... ? Like on all fours as he stands?

Good Note!

Tried it and definintely worked! He was like wow, whered this come from!? I normally can deep-throat to get him to be capable of thrusting completely and comfortably was my goal. It was even to the point that he had to comment to me that how is it hitting the back constantly and I am not saying anything. Great advice to you all! Made my night

Congrats!!
Love to hear those feel good stories of people finding out things on here and trying them at home at working almost straight away.

I bet he was very pleasently surprised! So has he said that blowjobs need to be like that everytime from now on. Lol thats what my man said when we first tried that position because he loved it so much....and it wasnt far form the truth no matter how i start i think i end ip in that position at some stage suring the night!

Here's a really cute animation of the position.

The comments on the "forum" for this site is ridiculous (I think it's all populated by horny 14 year old boys) but the animations for the positions are really fun.

edge of the bed blow job position animation thingy

im working on getting it in deeper. i feel like im gonna gag/puke sometimes which gets me mad but i swallow and re start. we finish with one of us on top

I have had to work up to being able to fit what I can now. I did most all of my "training" on it, while i was with my last ex. He was a bit larger then the current guy I am with so that make things easier for me now. i still have some days where I have problems with it. Just give it time and take it slowly.