i have the hardest time sometimes with this and need pointers; it sucks i have to ask ppl i dont even know but my jaw hurts after 15 - 20 mins sometimes and idk how to just stay relaxed bout it
tips on how to not have a "locked/sore" jaw while giving a blowjob
my jaw gets sore and tired easily too, my trick is that I take frequent "breaks" I will stop sucking for a minute to pay extra attention elsewhere, or give extra attention with my hands, it may not seem all that exciting, but those breaks keep my jaw from hurting, which means more sucky sucky for him. I don't know how other guys feel about it, but my hubby understands, and doesn't mind it a bit.
01/27/2011
I have TMJ and really have to work hard at this. I take breaks and do lots of licking and touching. I have found if I direct more of the pressure at the roof of my mouth, it is easier on my jaw. I've also found that more frequent, shorter sessions strengthen the muscles.
I would love to hear more pointers.
I would love to hear more pointers.
01/27/2011
I've never given a blowjob, but the situation is similar to me when I perform cunnilingus. I too have TMJ, and for me anyway, if I press my index finger into the spot in my jaw (always the right side) where it hurts and keep it there, the pain ebbs enough that I can continue. Of course, maybe this just works for me.
01/27/2011
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thanks ill try those! yeah he gets kinda frusterated i think cuz i stop but i cant help my jaw hurts. ill try to work thru it but im not gonna make myself cry lol over a jaw, ill stop and focus on different idea and go back again
Originally posted by
Vaccinium
I've never given a blowjob, but the situation is similar to me when I perform cunnilingus. I too have TMJ, and for me anyway, if I press my index finger into the spot in my jaw (always the right side) where it hurts and keep it there, the pain
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I've never given a blowjob, but the situation is similar to me when I perform cunnilingus. I too have TMJ, and for me anyway, if I press my index finger into the spot in my jaw (always the right side) where it hurts and keep it there, the pain ebbs enough that I can continue. Of course, maybe this just works for me.
01/28/2011
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I too will take that advice
Originally posted by
PenelopeJohnson
I have TMJ and really have to work hard at this. I take breaks and do lots of licking and touching. I have found if I direct more of the pressure at the roof of my mouth, it is easier on my jaw. I've also found that more frequent, shorter
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I have TMJ and really have to work hard at this. I take breaks and do lots of licking and touching. I have found if I direct more of the pressure at the roof of my mouth, it is easier on my jaw. I've also found that more frequent, shorter sessions strengthen the muscles.
I would love to hear more pointers.
I would love to hear more pointers.
01/30/2011
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thanks ill try it@
Originally posted by
Vaccinium
I've never given a blowjob, but the situation is similar to me when I perform cunnilingus. I too have TMJ, and for me anyway, if I press my index finger into the spot in my jaw (always the right side) where it hurts and keep it there, the pain
...
I've never given a blowjob, but the situation is similar to me when I perform cunnilingus. I too have TMJ, and for me anyway, if I press my index finger into the spot in my jaw (always the right side) where it hurts and keep it there, the pain ebbs enough that I can continue. Of course, maybe this just works for me.
02/28/2011
Just because its a blow job doesn't mean you can't use other body party. Its sexy when you mix it up and add in different things in. Use your mouth to lick and nibble, blow some cool air. Get a warming lube that activates with friction and use your hands. Get a good flavored one so you can go back to using your mouth whenever you want.
03/12/2011
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ok thanks! good idea =] its alot easier on me if we 69 because idk i guess i like getting it in return but even kneeling when i get in return while giving oral my jaw doesnt hurt
Originally posted by
Yebby
Just because its a blow job doesn't mean you can't use other body party. Its sexy when you mix it up and add in different things in. Use your mouth to lick and nibble, blow some cool air. Get a warming lube that activates with friction and
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Just because its a blow job doesn't mean you can't use other body party. Its sexy when you mix it up and add in different things in. Use your mouth to lick and nibble, blow some cool air. Get a warming lube that activates with friction and use your hands. Get a good flavored one so you can go back to using your mouth whenever you want.
03/17/2011
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I, too, have TMJ. There's a lot of licking/touching that goes on. It also depends on what position I'm in, as the more I have to turn my head in some directions makes it harder on the muscles in my face that support the jaw. It's best if I kneel in front of him or if I kneel above him. If I lie down, it's more painful.
Originally posted by
PenelopeJohnson
I have TMJ and really have to work hard at this. I take breaks and do lots of licking and touching. I have found if I direct more of the pressure at the roof of my mouth, it is easier on my jaw. I've also found that more frequent, shorter
...
I have TMJ and really have to work hard at this. I take breaks and do lots of licking and touching. I have found if I direct more of the pressure at the roof of my mouth, it is easier on my jaw. I've also found that more frequent, shorter sessions strengthen the muscles.
I would love to hear more pointers.
I would love to hear more pointers.
Another tip, if I plan on giving head, I will take some ibuprofen about an hour before to reduce any swelling I may have going on. It also makes it less sore when I wake up in the morning.
03/17/2011
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ah thanks =]
Originally posted by
BBW Talks Toys
I, too, have TMJ. There's a lot of licking/touching that goes on. It also depends on what position I'm in, as the more I have to turn my head in some directions makes it harder on the muscles in my face that support the jaw. It's best
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I, too, have TMJ. There's a lot of licking/touching that goes on. It also depends on what position I'm in, as the more I have to turn my head in some directions makes it harder on the muscles in my face that support the jaw. It's best if I kneel in front of him or if I kneel above him. If I lie down, it's more painful.
Another tip, if I plan on giving head, I will take some ibuprofen about an hour before to reduce any swelling I may have going on. It also makes it less sore when I wake up in the morning.
Another tip, if I plan on giving head, I will take some ibuprofen about an hour before to reduce any swelling I may have going on. It also makes it less sore when I wake up in the morning.
03/18/2011
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